How to know a bad Thai lady from a good one?

[Peter111]

I think this is pretty good:

How to know if she is a good girl:
13 Point Checklist To Test If A Thai Girl Is A Good Girl

Here's a simple yet powerful checklist every farang (that means you, a westerner) should know before even thinking about dating a Thai girl.

To be clear: There are plenty of good girls in Thailand. In fact, most Thai girls are good - the vast majority of Thai women are hard-working, honest people who want to take care of themselves and their family. However, when you come to Thailand, you will most likely end up spending most of your time in places where the bad girls outnumber the good. These so called bad girls are women who are professionals at scamming money from western men. If you can't tell a good Thai girl from a bad one, you are an easy fish and may end up losing everything you have. Many men have learned their lesson the hard way. Reading this article is your chance to learn it the easy way.

A major mistake is to think that you are too smart to get fooled by some girl. The fact is that many of these girls are professionals. No matter how smart you are (or think you are), you are most likely not an expert at detecting scams. Make no mistake about it, the girls who do this are very good at what they do. You need to understand that they do it for a living. If they weren't good, they would be out of the business already! The fact that they are still in the game means that they are good enough at what they do, it's that simple.

This is how to use the checklist: The items are in order. The first ones are the most important and the last are the least important. If a girl matches to one or two items, especially from the bottom of the list, she may very well still be a good girl. But the more hits there are between this list and her, the more careful you should be with. Use your head.

1) You met her in a major tourist destination. Pattaya, for example is a lovely place and good for having fun. However, it's also the number one destination for gold diggers. If you meet someone at Pattaya and think about entering a serious relationship with her, you are on very risky waters.

2) You met her in a place that entertain western men.Such as a bar, a karaoke establishment or a restaurant for farangs. These are the places where the bad girls hunt for men. Of course, good Thai girls also like go out to bars and restaurants sometimes, but they don't usually like to go out to the places that are flocked with western men, they go to places that are run by and for Thais. Not even mention places like massage shops or places of prostitution. If you met her in a place that's run to entertain farang men, you should expect her to do just that - entertain you, not date you.

3) She says she doesn't like Thai men.Let's get one thing straight: Thailand is a country of over 60 million people. Why would you think any Thai girl would say something like she does not like the local men? The only reason is that all the local men can see that she is a tramp and they don't want to have anything to do with her. That's why she has no luck with the Thai men and why she's interested only in western men.

4) She talks a lot about money. Assuming you just met someone, there's simply no way a good Thai girl would ever ask you to give her money. She may ask what you do for work or even how much you money you make. Thais have a very straightforward attitude with money and many of them speak openly about how much they make and so forth, but a good Thai girl would never ask money from someone she barely knows.

5) She seems to know a lot of western men.Does the phone keep ringing? New messages keep coming in? And on Facebook, she has a lot of western men as friends. All these signs point to one obvious conclusion: There are a lot of men involved in her life. There can literally be a line of men waiting to get to her. She may say you are special or different, but the odds are, you're not, you're just another one on the line she tries to hook.

6) She seems to party a lot. Going out on the weekend with your friends is fine. Going out almost every night to bars that mainly gather tourists means that she is not going out to just have some fun, she is going out to find new fish to catch.

7) She has expensive things such as a new phone but no job and no education. If you don't have an education in Thailand, there are very limited things you can do for money, especially for the kind of money that buys you the new iPhones. Do the math, she must be doing something to get good money, or she knows people who give her expensive gifts. Do you think men will give her money or expensive gifts just for talking? Think again.

8) She speaks English well but has no education.She may tell you that English is being taught to everyone at elementary school. That is correct. However, the level of English you learn without going to university in Thailand is very limited. So where did she learn English if not in an university? It's possible that she learned it by watching English TV and movies. Maybe she's very talented at learning languages. But then again, more likely, she learned it by spending time with English speaking men, a lot of time, with a lot of men. Again, do the math.

9) She has tattoos. Good Thai girls can have a tattoo or few. But it is not very common for them. Usually tattoos mean that she's a bar girl, someone who hangs in bars, either working for the bar owner to entertain men, or who just spends too much time at the bars. When it comes to tattoos, a lot of them is a warning sign.

10) She smokes. A good girl can smoke but it's fairly uncommon. It's not impossible to meet a good Thai girl who smokes. However, be careful. People, especially in Thailand, don't learn how to smoke from their parents. They learn it from spending time with people who smoke. That, again, is a strong indicator towards the bar scene and the so-called working girls (that is, prostitutes).

11) She drinks like a man. Again, having a drink from time to time is perfectly fine. But getting wasted drunk is something that most Thais strongly disprove of. It's something that tourists do, the same good-for-nothing tourists who end up in trouble. No respectful Thai wants to relate to them. If a girl likes to drink like a man, the odds are, she learned her drinking habits by drinking with men.

12) She doesn't seem to value the traditional Thai culture. Some Thai girls that one could call "less traditional" can be good girls. Perhaps the girl has embraced the Korean or Japanese culture, or even a more western way of life. However, if she seems to have no interest in the traditional Thai culture at all, that many times is a strong warning sign that she most likely is not a good girl.

13) Finally: What about her friends? Apply this list to her friends. If most of her friends score high on this list, you should consider that as a clear warning sign. People tend to spend time with their kind. If most of the other girls she knows seem to fall into the bad girl category, she may be a bad girl herself. Of course, exceptions apply.

These are the 13 points you may want to consider when thinking about entering to a relationship with a Thai girl. It's your decision, but keep these warning signs in mind and you'll do yourself a favor.

© Thaiyak.com

[krisb]

Yes and no.

Some of them are like saying if she can play 8 ball, she must have worked in a bar.

So if I have tattoos, smoke and drink, and so do my mates, do alarm bells sound?

Edited April 22, 2014 by krisb

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