AnotherOneAmerican Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 I think if you have a normal loving relationship ( two people love each other ) then why be in doubt.But if you are a farang who " rents a lady on a monthly basis ( not a relationship ) then i would say that for sure many of them will be " Playing away from home " I think it would be quite understanding that if you pay a lady to live with you then the chances are high that she will be wanting some " hows your father " with someone that she really likes ( " free " ) If you were a lady then wouldn't you...? F.J x Nope, when mine cheats, he has to pay too. I can completely trust her on that one. If she were to cheat on me for free, I would be completely devastated! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post pgrahmm Posted January 9, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2015 (edited) Another 100% here....I have eyes wide open and away from my own fear of possibilities have never found a reason to doubt her....what I do not trust are the entry level want 2 be farangs - some who think Thai women are meat....ex GFs have had their hands grabbed at markets and cornered at malls along with the clever (they think) lines....the women hate this and it furthers the distrust of farangs good and bad....unfortunately I was not there for the afronts....and that's what they are when not invited/welcomed....it's a matter of propriety in all directions + we do not frequent people/situations with those of at risk behavior.....I'm lucky in that my wife is not prone to deception...and - in fact - is uncomfortable around less than truthful people or situations - as am I....that might make our social circle smaller but it's better off without the fringers or negative prople anyway.....there are a lot of quality people around if you pay attention and watch who you chose to associate with.... Edited January 9, 2015 by pgrahmm 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggt Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 I have always trusted my partner...it has not always worked for me...it comes with the culture... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CapeThai Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Everybody is with their partner on borough time, may it be death, divorce or loose her or him to someone else. I believe to always be prepared for when that day comes. In the meantime enjoy each other's company, but surely D Day will come. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tom21 Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 I would not trust my partner as far as I can throw her. she is not going with anyone else, but I consider that she is the hired help and who trusts the hired help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mohammed Love Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 How Much Do You Trust Your Partner? Fully. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbbooboo Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 I would not trust my wife's ability to logically problem solve in any situation. I don't think she would intentionally let me down in a physical sense but you can't really be sure of anything with Thai women. Hence I don't waste much time thinking about it 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
up-country_sinclair Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 I would not trust my partner as far as I can throw her. she is not going with anyone else, but I consider that she is the hired help and who trusts the hired help It seems clear that you don't know what the word "partner" means. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephen terry Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 100%. She's a diamond. Told me today that her daughter is proud of me, and so is she. And this, coming from a farmer's daughter. I am humbled. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bakeman Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 100% TRUST Without it why have the relationship/marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 100% TRUST Without it why have the relationship/marriage. So the dogs get walked. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 (edited) 100%. She's a diamond. Told me today that her daughter is proud of me, and so is she. And this, coming from a farmer's daughter. I am humbled. Have a farmers daughter myself.. ..anyone that longs for the the "hiso chinese" have shallow lowso ambitions....social climbing ego fed low self esteem parasites....they don't want a woman of substance - they want bragging rights.....and they end up with exactly what they deserve...... Edited January 9, 2015 by pgrahmm 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In Search of Space Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Trust her completely with respect to other chaps, mind you, might be nice if she had a girlfriend & I joined the tag-team Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johndudorn Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Simple for me really Costas. 100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together. Ditto in everything. I agree with N47HAN and Crossy 100%. I have known my wife 21 years and been married to her for 16 years this April. Trust builds over time for me. When you marry someone neither partner really knows the other. We have been together for 42 years married 40. We work and play well together... 5 children, many grand and great grand children here and in the USA... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ozyjon Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 I don't trust them as far as i can throw them I like them younger than me,,, so will they cheat on me,,,, sure ,,,maybe will they steal from me,,,sure,,, only what i allow will they ever leave me,,,sure,,,i hope so i'm not one for long term relationships so if you want to go then leave,,, what do i think about that,,, NEXT. I love the chase, always have. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy666 Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Hell No, Wish I Could.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MauiSteveBKK Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Does "AGE" Have Anything To Do With It? My Thai woman is 47, and just seems content and very happy with our life. She despises Thai men, has plenty of money, and is "com-fort-able" in her own skin. Gets plenty of sex. So ... what is she missing? What would she be seeking? I ask the OP -- what is your wife/GF missing? Honestly ... Mine would never ever do anything to ruin what she's always wanted. At 61 ... Neither will I. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post risky11 Posted January 9, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2015 Maybe it's you and the company you keep. You probably think yours is different I agree. So many men wear rose colored glasses. They think their superior judgement protects them. They choose only good women, whereas all the guys who have been betrayed choose bad women. That's just foolish pride. 100% trust is a nice feeling. But understand this. It CAN happen to you. You are not special - neither is your partner. And on that cheery note, have a great day! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thehelmsman Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 I don't trust them as far as i can throw them I like them younger than me,,, so will they cheat on me,,,, sure ,,,maybe will they steal from me,,,sure,,, only what i allow will they ever leave me,,,sure,,,i hope so i'm not one for long term relationships so if you want to go then leave,,, what do i think about that,,, NEXT. I love the chase, always have. Always good for a laugh...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jandj Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 15 years, 100% trust, no questions required by either of us. As up-country_sinclair eluded to earlier, maybe a problem in a particular environment, but I suspect it is the same the world over ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronthai Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 ONLY did read the headline. Is the partner Thai? Search Google or ThaiVisa, you got your answer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacko45k Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 trust her not to steal my house ...... 0% trust her not to have sex with someone else ...... 0% trust her not to steal from my wallet ...... 0% She's a great s&%g though! Well mine did one of the 3 that I know of.... Maybe one of the three I do not know of. And one of the three I never trusted her enough to present her the opportunity. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summertime1 Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Like I was saying never trust a girl in Thailand 100% Especially with finances. I have just heard too many horror stories about guys loosing everything. Never invest in property or business without getting good independent legal advice. Alway make sure you are worth more alive than dead and arrange things so that you can walk away at a moments notice. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geronimo Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 We've been married twenty years now and there has always been a high level of trust. We pool everything and I had nothing when I met her so I am one of the very few expats who can say (without a doubt) that she's not with me for material wealth. I hit the jackpot when I met her and all of my friends agree with that. Don't know what I did to deserve such a woman and she says the same about me (she means it in the opposite way though) Lol The only regret I have is that we never smashed plates at our wedding! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geronimo Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Impossible to replace me, won't happen.....100% trust.....plus if she leaves it will cost her a fortune as she never made me sign a prenuptial. Wow, you have a partner! I always figured you'd be too old for that! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post neverdie Posted January 9, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2015 Impossible to replace me, won't happen.....100% trust.....plus if she leaves it will cost her a fortune as she never made me sign a prenuptial. Wow, you have a partner! I always figured you'd be too old for that! Cheeky ! You can't be too old for anything. Young chaps like you need to realise that people like me have been doing what you just discovered for decades.....we wrote the book 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jungle Jim Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 Sadly the majority of guys pay and it is obvious they found them in a bar. I think if you have a normal loving relationship ( two people love each other ) then why be in doubt.But if you are a farang who " rents a lady on a monthly basis ( not a relationship ) then i would say that for sure many of them will be " Playing away from home " I think it would be quite understanding that if you pay a lady to live with you then the chances are high that she will be wanting some " hows your father " with someone that she really likes ( " free " ) If you were a lady then wouldn't you...? F.J x 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jungle Jim Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 yea are the majority of foreigners in Thailand great. A nice 2 by 4 to the head would do wonders when grabbing at women Another 100% here....I have eyes wide open and away from my own fear of possibilities have never found a reason to doubt her....what I do not trust are the entry level want 2 be farangs - some who think Thai women are meat....ex GFs have had their hands grabbed at markets and cornered at malls along with the clever (they think) lines....the women hate this and it furthers the distrust of farangs good and bad....unfortunately I was not there for the afronts....and that's what they are when not invited/welcomed....it's a matter of propriety in all directions + we do not frequent people/situations with those of at risk behavior.....I'm lucky in that my wife is not prone to deception...and - in fact - is uncomfortable around less than truthful people or situations - as am I....that might make our social circle smaller but it's better off without the fringers or negative prople anyway.....there are a lot of quality people around if you pay attention and watch who you chose to associate with.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jossthaifarang Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 <script type='text/javascript'>window.mod_pagespeed_start = Number(new Date());</script> Simple for me really Costas.100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together. Ditto in everything. I agree with N47HAN and Crossy 100%.I have known my wife 21 years and been married to her for 16 years this April. I can beat that with ease,I trusted my wife with everything I had for 30 years, then she took everything I had (if you wanna include dating, make that 32 years).My Canadian pal trusted his wife with everything he had for 35 years, after that she also took everything he had.You trusting guys make me laugh.(in a sad and knowing sort of way) I must hold the record then, mine only needed 5 years, I trusted her completely! P.S: Don't think this only happens in Thailand she was from the Philippines... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 Her......never ever again........narcissist and so on......... Trust is in the eye of the beholder...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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