Gambling & substance abuse, including alcohol, has lead to a few folks I know in USA losing it all. Definitely not a Thai thing. I'd say about 20 mix couples here I know personally, and all are or were doing fine. Surely some have been scammed, I just don't know any. My first wife would have surely scammed me, if he father didn't like me. He was in home construction, actually built my first house at basically cost. Work was sporatic, so I asked what he needed for steady income. Rice husking machine, so I bought him one. Back in 2000, only cost 40k THB, so $1000. Cheap price for having a house built. That POA helped avoid getting scammed, as I sold the house without the ex's input.