yes .... I expect any divorce can be very traumatic for both parties , and more so when big money or kids are involved.
You say it's rigged, well I personally found the entire Thai judicial system rigged, it wasn't a divorce case, but it was a lot of money and assets.
But it didn't surprise me in the least, it just reflected & solidified what a FUP this really is.
I think as you mentioned about the guy who shot himself, and the other who killed the family, it comes back to how we each can handle the legal separation and how it affects us mentally.
But, the legal system also has alot to answer for, they are partly responsibly for those two guys. imo