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2 hours ago, JeffersLos said:

None. 

 

I only wear shorts and nothing else. They are made and delivered to me every Sunday, 7 pairs for 350 baht. No itchy tags and perfect 54 inch waist. Use once. 

Really?

5 hours ago, 4MyEgo said:

 

Sometimes you have to roll the dice, condoms are a real downer, and I only sleep with girls that I believe take care of themselves, and yes, you never know, hence the reason I only have my cake/s every now and again, meaning not that often, and sometimes it's the same non working girl.

Fair play. I've never used a working girl because I never used condoms. But in hindsight I broke hearts just to lower my personal health risks.

5 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

The problem with singles events:

 

If you were desirable, you wouldn't need to be there.  

 

Everyone is looking for the bargain who shouldn't be there. Everyone thinks that they are that bargain.

 

Disappointment ensues.

 

And: total sausage fest, 8 to 1 male/female ratio.

 

Mostly old guys and women in their 40's.  Heavy on the Indian/Arab mix.

 

Nice to get out, but.....

Fantastically well put. 

Known many men who are a 5 thinking they're an 7, looking for what they believe to be an 8 when statically speaking, lining every women in the country up end to end she's a 9.5

1 hour ago, 4MyEgo said:

 

Not for me, I am in my mid 60's and sex is like eating for me, wife of 2 decades still going strong, say twice a week, yes we have slowed down, kids and all, but when I need to eat something sweet, I will go and find it.

 

I don't take any kind of Kamagra, Viagra or Cialis, not good for the heart I hear and while I still rise to the occasion, no need.

 

My way in maintaining a great sex life and a good boner is to eat healthy, exercise regularly to get the blood flowing, don't smoke or drink a lot, take some supplements, like Zink etc, and don't stress or worry whether you will rise to the occasion or not.

 

It also helps to take a young filly on the side every now and again to boost your ego, funny that....LOL, but seriously, it helps to get to know the filly a little before rushing her back to your room for a potential let down, I have been known to take 2 visits before taking one back to my room.

 

When the day comes that I cannot rise to the occasion, that is going to be a real downer for me, so to speak 🙂

 

For me with a long term gf fast approaching menopause I wish that option would work but either you're using a condom and then really, what's the point? Or youre risking infecting not only you but also the wife!

4 hours ago, bob smith said:

both apartments cost money..

 

bob.

My point is, the first 30k but a month is probably more important than love but after 30k most would choose love over money.

Every old person I've seen would rather be looked after in an ordinary apartment by someone they love than stay in the most luxurious care home being taken care of by somebody they don't.

Been reading this forum for 20 years. Used to be vibrant and full of guys optimistically planning their future lives in Thailand and other guys living their best life in Thailand. Great exchange rates didn't hurt.

Now, it's only habit that keeps me looking in. 

Anybody know if this was the decline of forums in general or just this one in particular? 

I've met loads of Thai women burdened with unsustainable debt. I've seen (to be fair can't say met) loads of Thai men who seem to be debt free and focused on lazing around enjoying themselves.

I've met many single moms burdened with raising a child in very difficult circumstances. Not many men.

It's tricky but I'd say that for myself I'm not in debt or raising a child alone and it's because I used my "intelligence"

So I'd reluctantly say the men are smarter.

16 hours ago, James9999 said:

I just assumed the band were paid. It was't the amount as such it was the fact I gave a 100 to band, but 10 members and 50 to the waitress. She said both should have been the same but I dont see why.

Because women are carp at math.

Humans tend to make themselves the heros of their own narrative.

1 hour ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Not offended as such, but I can, depending on the circumstances, find it upsetting.....purley because it is driving home the truth that I am old...or getting old.

How old are you? 

Autumn years? You mean 40 to 60?

Winter years 60 to 80?

The majority of women only develop "maturity" when they no longer get by on their looks. It's the great dilemma for the older man. Tight skin but a loose brain or a tight brain but loose skin.

3 hours ago, JimTripper said:

I'm looking for a smart worldly sophisticated woman like the kind James Bond meets. They could be of any nationality or color. I'm not finding that here.

 

Can you see James Bond with these immature Thai ladies? Would never happen.

And how close to James Bond are you?

Thank you everyone, lots of great ideas. Really appreciate the time put in.

Core exercises have been a real help. Spasms seem to have been 95% eliminated. Hard bed helps a lot too. 

Strangely sitting crossed legged in Buddha position seems to help.

Bad back prone to stiffness and spasms. I love to travel but fear a debilitating episode. 

What's the strongest pain killer one can buy over the counter?

Actually 99% of the time it's not as bad as I fear and I struggle thru. I really don't like taking medicines.

It's more the peace of mind knowing it's there if I need it. 

On 7/17/2024 at 9:35 AM, bob smith said:

I wont be going back again.

 

I'm pretty sure I know why the waitresses acted the way they did.

 

it's because they now know I'm not a naive tourist and I can speak the lingo.

It's been my experience that many working the bars don't like it when a foreigner speaks thai.

My fault really, I should never have let on that I do.

 

Back to playing the dumb tourist straight off the boat!

 

bob.

After being here a long time why are you going to restaurants tourists go? 

20 minutes ago, Sheryl said:

Plenty of people get impacted ear wax without having done anything to cause it.

 

In fact this is the first thing to exclude in cases of hearing loss.

 

Very, very common. Seems to occur mainly in older men, perhaps because they tend to be bald and thus not need to shampoo their hair, a process that incidentally helps clean the ears. 

Ohh...I am bald!!! Lol

I'm in Bangkok and I will try the peroxide drops you suggested thanks. 

Where would I go? Any idea of costs for both ears?

" I'm mad as hell and I'm not going to take it anymore"

1 hour ago, Northstar1 said:

Exactly my thought!

I don’t understand these old geezers that still want to save , with only a couple years left.

Some people are good at saving while some are good at spending. Ironically very rare to meet a man good at both.