Unfortunately my wife has more money than I do. She pays for car, electricity, 3bb, and holidays. I pay for kids school, but that is because I get to pick the school. We split food etc, and she owns her land and house. I paid for two toilets (not Thai one) and a small western kitchen,she paid for floor tiles and ceiling. We split the costs on bedroom fixtures. The rest was mostly given to us by her father, nice man, washer, dishwasher, some small appliances and an oven.