falang1969

Only thing that matters is do you like her and does she like you.

Problems will only come if you are embarrassed to be seen with her or she is embarrassed to be seen with you.

If the first is a yes and the second is a no then live a little and have some fun!

Question 1 - Yes

Question 2 - Not at all, for either of us.

I do not look or act my age and she is more mature for her age than your average Thai giggling 24 year old!

Why are you asking anonymous strangers about your future? Are you not capable of making your own decisions?

Of course I am, but much more fun getting some feedback from some worldy and knowledgable TV members. Also, thought it would make a good topic of conversation, rather than who sells the best Pizza.

You mean I've kept reading all this and you're never going to tell us why things did not work out with the 27 year-old 500K per month non-HiSo Isaan girl?

Easy one, stayed with her a few days and she was way to committed to her work than having a relationship...I was almost like a 'spare part' or 'play thing'....actually felt a little inferior to her which is not my thing! Still, had fun for a few days.

Can't be bothered reading through all the usual TV negitive dross when this subject comes up so will answer the ops question.

Yes it is possible. My wife is 21 years my junior. We have been married for 7 years now. We have the usual relationship ups and downs but all in all I wouldn't change anything. It's all about mutual respect and communication, just like any other human relationship.

Good sensible post.

Mine is 21 years younger too and the age gap has never been a problem, though she had to give it a lot of thought initially.

Can't be bothered reading through all the usual TV negitive dross when this subject comes up so will answer the ops question.

Yes it is possible. My wife is 21 years my junior. We have been married for 7 years now. We have the usual relationship ups and downs but all in all I wouldn't change anything. It's all about mutual respect and communication, just like any other human relationship.

Good sensible post.

Mine is 21 years younger too and the age gap has never been a problem, though she had to give it a lot of thought initially.

Thank you for some positive responses, correct I am not talking about trust, I am talking about the age gap and you have answered the question.

So, is there anyone out there who has had a successful relationship with a 20 year age gap?

Of course. What do you want to know, falang1969? In fact, don't ask.

Make your own mind up. Insecurity is all part of the process.

You'll either get along, or you won't.

Take a very deep breath and consider your feelings.

I think that is my best option in this instance! They have never let me down in the past! Was just interested to know if anyone had had an experience good or bad (excluding the usual Bar girl scenario) of such an age difference.

There truly are women in every culture who prefer an older man. Pick your reason - stability, maturity, wild oats all sewn, and more. But they are the minority when it comes to 20 years.

There truly are younger women who will marry an older man for money. See Donald Trump. Be sure the money doesn't run out.

Prefers farang to Thai men? I think that's largely the same scam as prefers older men. Prefers money maybe. I think most Thai women would prefer a Thai man every time if he had money. Many have a Thai boyfriend brother the whole time.

Sorry, I'm cynical. Don't bet the farm on it or invest all you have.

Very true...but are Thai men are sooooo faithful and honest that a Falang is not a viable alternative for some 'educated' girls?! Yes no there is no older brother....yet? Don't worry I will be looking out for him, if there is one! I will not be betting on the farm....you have read my initial post? Been there, got the T-Shirt a long time ago! Lol

Are the "older" falangs in Thailand all that hot themselves? IMHO most come here for the girls. I can tell you a lot of stories of unfaithful or downright scamming farangs.

Here are some girls who like only older farangs.

"IMHO most come here for the girls"...correct, but not all. And that IS Number One 1 bar!

get girl that makes the same amount you get a month, then atleast you can share on everything and you never get bored dating poor girls? i notice some hi-so girls takes better care of you then poor issan-girls..

Is that the best you have got? I also notice that some Hiso girls just sit in front of a mirror or phone all day taking pics of herself! Waiting for Mr Rich Thai to take care of her! No she is not your "normal" poor Issan girl! Lives nowhere near Issan (not that there is anything wrong with an Isaan girl!) In fact, dated one a few months ago who owned her own English school worked in the UK for a few years and worked hard to get where she is today, a successful business woman earning 500k a month and employing around 10 staff, 27 years old and spoke perfect English and passionate about it...was she Hiso? Not at all!

And before I get questioned on the 500k, she also did translation work at a ridiculous fee for translating scientific documents with words in the English language even I had never heard of!

Like 'True story'?

Sorry mate, you have lost me on that one! Maybe, you should play Scrabble with her? Then you can judge...as you lose!

So, is there anyone out there who has had a successful relationship with a 20 year age gap?

There truly are women in every culture who prefer an older man. Pick your reason - stability, maturity, wild oats all sewn, and more. But they are the minority when it comes to 20 years.

There truly are younger women who will marry an older man for money. See Donald Trump. Be sure the money doesn't run out.

Prefers farang to Thai men? I think that's largely the same scam as prefers older men. Prefers money maybe. I think most Thai women would prefer a Thai man every time if he had money. Many have a Thai boyfriend brother the whole time.

Sorry, I'm cynical. Don't bet the farm on it or invest all you have.

Yes because all girls are in love with their Father,Freud called it the Electra complex,the male equivalent is the Oedipus complex!

An interesting theory...and she is an only child and does seem a little resentful of the fact.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oedipus_complex

get girl that makes the same amount you get a month, then atleast you can share on everything and you never get bored dating poor girls? i notice some hi-so girls takes better care of you then poor issan-girls..

Is that the best you have got? I also notice that some Hiso girls just sit in front of a mirror or phone all day taking pics of herself! Waiting for Mr Rich Thai to take care of her! No she is not your "normal" poor Issan girl! Lives nowhere near Issan (not that there is anything wrong with an Isaan girl!) In fact, dated one a few months ago who owned her own English school worked in the UK for a few years and worked hard to get where she is today, a successful business woman earning 500k a month and employing around 10 staff, 27 years old and spoke perfect English and passionate about it...was she Hiso? Not at all!

And before I get questioned on the 500k, she also did translation work at a ridiculous fee for translating scientific documents with words in the English language even I had never heard of!

Don't want to rain on the OP's parade but

university educated and not into Thai men

Is that what she told you or what you're assuming?

Maybe, just maybe, she is looking for an honest older guy, not a 24 year old Thai guy with 3 dicks out to shag whatever he can ....just a possibility maybe?

There truly are women in every culture who prefer an older man. Pick your reason - stability, maturity, wild oats all sewn, and more. But they are the minority when it comes to 20 years.

There truly are younger women who will marry an older man for money. See Donald Trump. Be sure the money doesn't run out.

Prefers farang to Thai men? I think that's largely the same scam as prefers older men. Prefers money maybe. I think most Thai women would prefer a Thai man every time if he had money. Many have a Thai boyfriend brother the whole time.

Sorry, I'm cynical. Don't bet the farm on it or invest all you have.

Very true...but are Thai men are sooooo faithful and honest that a Falang is not a viable alternative for some 'educated' girls?! Yes no there is no older brother....yet? Don't worry I will be looking out for him, if there is one! I will not be betting on the farm....you have read my initial post? Been there, got the T-Shirt a long time ago! Lol

get girl that makes the same amount you get a month, then atleast you can share on everything and you never get bored dating poor girls? i notice some hi-so girls takes better care of you then poor issan-girls..

Is that the best you have got? I also notice that some Hiso girls just sit in front of a mirror or phone all day taking pics of herself! Waiting for Mr Rich Thai to take care of her! No she is not your "normal" poor Issan girl! Lives nowhere near Issan (not that there is anything wrong with an Isaan girl!) In fact, dated one a few months ago who owned her own English school worked in the UK for a few years and worked hard to get where she is today, a successful business woman earning 500k a month and employing around 10 staff, 27 years old and spoke perfect English and passionate about it...was she Hiso? Not at all!

Next......

First post eh?

Uni educated and working in a factory?

Hmmmmm!

Why shouldn't she be working a factory? Not all graduates skip out of university in to well-paid careers. No different to the UK.

A very tunnel vision and slightly unfair.

Very good, top of the class! I know many Uni educated kids in the UK working fork lift trucks! You are someone with an ounce of reality! Thank you.

First post eh?

Uni educated and working in a factory?

Hmmmmm!

Oh please....a new profile been on here years.....she is an analyst testing samples of milk...remember 25 years old...not going to be in the advanced stages of her career! Also, a uni eductation here does not give you direct access to the best jobs...have you seen some of the Uni's here???? Lol

Here is the first one....well done!

Ok my life has come to something to ask for advice here!

1. I am 45 male

2. She is 25 girl

3. I have been around the block

4. Lived in Thailand 8 years and have heard, known of ALL the horror stories and more!

5. Done the lot and lost the lot (well not all) but you get the idea!

6. Me, previous relationship with Thai bar girl 6 years, nothing bad, I live here 95% of the year, just grew apart from each other.

Ok, that's out of the way, before I get the usual TV abuse!

No, not a troll!

Ok I will continue.....met a girl, known her for a few months, started online, then Skype, then met, etc normal gal, works in a factory, cute (as you would expect) and she is an only child and is just a normal girl, not a bar girl, in fact she has probably never even seen a girly bar!

Been out with her a few times, cool girl, university educated and not into Thai men, only one Thai BF in last 5 years, works all the time like a dog for peanuts...normal income, relatively poor family who owns a farm.

She says age not important (English language maybe 40%) but easy to communicate with my 25% Thai language skills.

So, what I want to hear from is older (not whoremongers) TV members who have met and had a successful relationship with a girl a lot younger than themselves!

No alarm bells ringing at the moment and taking everything at face value.

So....is it possible?