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Ajarn_Jonesy

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  1. I feel that i am highly qualified to make that statement, having lived among the poorest in asia and seeing how much they waste. Alcoholics drinking their entire month's paychecks on a single night's drunk and only having enough money left to buy some plastic wrapped junk food for their hungry children. No pitty from me, except for the children that they breed that will grow up to be just like them.

    apparently ignorance is bliss with you. You should remove the name "jaideeguy" from your name.

    Smoking marijuana, snorting coke, shooting Methamphetamine while your children watch as they are starving for food in the metropolis like LA, Detroit and NY is different?

    This happens all over the world not just in Asia. These people are missing something called opportunity and education, so blaming and condemning them because of they are a product of their environment is utterly pathetic.

    Correct.... It is easy for us to see them and make judgements, have to remeber we have three fingers pointing back at us..... However ours is not the right to judge. Ours obligation (whether from moral/religious or whatever) is to do everything we can to help them..... What they do with that help is between them and their maker so to speak....

  2. I hate to sound terribly negative, but there's few new items that rock my socks. Tell me about security improvements, increased hardware support, better suspend to ram/standby, improved rendering speed, enchancements to the kernel for greater stability, etc. There's a reason that this distro is disparaginly called 'noobuntu' by the old guard.

    But it's not aimed at the old guard, is it? I thought the point of Ubuntu was a Linux for everyone else?

    In Place upgrades suck..... Plan to spend some time if you are upgrading an existing 7.10 or 8.0.4 version. in particular if you are running server as a vmware host.

  3. hrmmm... it was like that already... but thanks :o

    If it was like that already and as you said (you are bypassing your router). That means your apartment complex already has a DHCP server in the network. if you want to use your wireless router it will need to be set to accept a dhcp address.

    If you can do the following we can likely help you get that router working.

    on your internet connected laptop...

    go to START then RUN and type CMD and open the command prompt.

    type the following.

    ipconfig /all

    this will show your internal network connection information including DHCP, DNS, WINS if used.

    From that information we should be able explain the router set up.

    Also what make/model router are you attempting to use?

  4. Sorry girl x but men and women are different. Men have something different which makes them naturally attracted to other women even if they are married. Im not talking about cheating im talking about how to deal with it?

    Maybe im just weak biggrin.gif

    you must be weak, and pretty stupid too if you believe women are not attracted to anyone other than their husbands. it's called self control and loyalty. learn some.

    The difference between MENS and BOYS is simply SELF CONTROL.

    What did I do about it? NOTHING.....I look, I enjoy, but I never touch. Not hard really!

    Men or old men and boys? You got me confused now because im a man not a boy.

    Anyway keep the topic rolliing as im still none the wiser.

    Hmm I don't think that he was talking about physical age......

    "by their fruits you will know them" or something like that... "When I was a child I spake as a child, when I became a man I put aside childish things" This whole conversation is starting to lend more support to the old saying that women mature earlier than men..... Never thought of it but in some cases that is certainly true it seems.

  5. Since moving to bangkok and bringing my thai wife with me, Everytime i go out i found it increasingly hard to be sincere to her. I dont just mean BGs btw.

    How do you handle it guys?

    The girls are so cute its hard isnt it?

    Maybe its impossible anyway im just being honest.

    This is Bangkok dude. Its not the UK.

    From what you guys are saying it is all in the cities name huh??? Bang_kok.

    :o but ya know u were thinkin it:)

    But seriously! Temptation is always there just in different forms..... Most people just need to grow up and accept the responsability of the vows they took... And no I am not saying you did anything wrong, but there are many that do and lay the blame on the temptation and how hard it is. Besides grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence.

  6. Well Midori... a couple of things here...

    1. You should at least be pleased that farang guys are ASKING you for sex as opposed to NOT asking..... Think of it as a compliment.... :o

    2. I have and keep a number of different Thai female friends here in BKK where we comfortably have ongoing non-sexual relationships.

    For me, as a single man, GFs may come and go (such is life and romance), but my women Thai friends and I stay in touch and together because we like each other, feel comfortable together, and typically have some history together...

    When you're dating, it's typically a much more regular schedule of meeting and going out... But for my platonic friends, it's more sporadic... We may not get together for a month or two... But when we do, it's just picking up like nothing happened in the meantime.

    It's also kind of nice...because it's break from all the game-playing and occasional strife associated with romance. Given the choice of a night out with the guys or a night out with one or more Thai women (platonic), I'd choose the ladies any day...

    I completely agree...!!

  7. I think that a lot of men don't really see the point in being 'just friends' with girls. They can get everything they want out of friendship with other dudes.

    I wholeheartedly disagree with this statement...... There is such a different dynamic in mens friendship with other men than with women. My best friend is a girl who i have known since school. We are still the best of friends even though we both have great marriages... The friendship that I have with my guy friends is completely different.

  8. Thanks Dave and Niller for the insights.
    I am running Virtual Box in Ubuntu on my Vaio. I have been quite happy with it, except the graphics performance is pretty limited. There is not much acceleration available for programs like Adobe and absolutely no 3D acceleration. Adobe programs is the main reason for me to even run Virtual Box. When doing some 3D in Maya or playing a game I am forced to reboot to a 'pure' Windows.

    Can you tell me if the lack of video acceleration is the fault of VirtualBox or is it inherent to running Windows in a VM? Would using another VM application, possibly VMware, alleviate that limitation? This is key for me as I use Adobe PhotoShop CS3 on a (near) daily basis.

    It's a problem with all Virtualisation programmes. I suppose that in the future simple devices could be emulated by using an open intel driver that makes calls to opengl natively, but then you start getting into a Wine implementation......

    I currently use Windows XP in a vmware environment. We constantly use Macromedia tools, and have not had any issues with them. 2 things here. Make sure that you have Vmware tools or virtual box version. The other is to make sure that you have enough CPU / Ram given to the os. If you are running xp on less than a gig of ram in a virtual environment then you are going to see issues with the programs you are running.

    Another thought is that it sounds like you are using the Virtual box console to use your xp box. Is that a correct assumption? Try using remote desktop from your linux desktop.... you will find that this will be a lot smoother. I watch videos through mine with no loss of quality.

    1 other thing that struck me when I was reading this post ..... Gaming... If you are a serious game or semi serious. Try installing wine then download and install an engine called Cedaga which runs in conjunction with wine. I use this on my ubuntu workstation and my games work just as well as they did from my windows xp install... here again though you have to make sure that you have ram/graphics/cpu enough to run it correctly.

  9. WOW>.. This has seriously been the most enlightening group of admissions/reflections I have ever seen..... :o:D

    What I can't believe is that there are 12 pages worth of posts on this topic......(can anyone actually read that much on the subject) Okay I will admit i started reading but after the first couple of pages I kinda lost interest.

    Here is the thing...... Who actually cares how many people come to LOS and What their Reasons are?

    We all have our reasons for what we do even if we don't admit it... I mean obviously just because I have loved everything about ASIA since I was little I must have come to Thailand for sex...thats garbage.....

    The one thing that has really stood out in this thread is the way that people view *thai* women in general.

    I am so exasperated I don't even know what to say.......

    Later.

  10. If you refuse to take the hints and keep hiding

    in the bedroom, this may happen:

    One day a Thai man will

    come and talk to you.

    He will say:"You can leave now"

    "It is time for you to go home to Aus

    she is my wife, it is our house and we dont need you here

    anymore"

    "The entire Village knew she was my wife

    since the beginning, goodbye go home to Aus"

    That is possible, however wouldn't you want to know ASAP?

    But it's only some people who are that way. I have found the majority of Thais to be genuine and very good hearted.

  11. It's no wonder that so many mixed relationships fall apart here. No woman will ever respect a wimp, they need someone stronger to provide security. So many times I see guys crying about having been taken for a ride, submitting to all the demands and accepting being sodomized, then being dumped or ignored.

    Grow some backbone. Don't come bitch on a forum. Throw out the family, workers and maybe even the TV. Just maybe she'll get some respect for you.

    Being nice to your wife doesn't mean turning into a lapdog. What use would she have for you then?

    I am not saying I disagree with you here, however a thought occurs to me.. And maybe.

    To me this sounds familiar. you were with her for 5 years in oz and things were great....( I would be willing to bet that she didn't really have a close network of friends/family at least not like she had in LOS.) and you were the really the single source of strength/caring in her life. I think you got used to the way things were obviously. Then you move back to LOS (I dont think I would have moved next door to the family, but that is neither here nor there) now things have changed..

    Could part of the problem be that you felt out of place and with all the relatives/friends in the house all speaking Thai? Speaking from experience, it is easier just to retreat off by your self and stay out of the way... but then hindsight is 20/20. Having gone through this here is what I found to work.... Even though you may not want to do some of the things that were posted earlier...... Just start participating, make sure you are involved, make an effort to be a part of the group learn Thai and so on.... you are going to need to do this before you can really sit her down and talk with her about it. Other wise she is gonna throw it back and say you don't take part/ don't want to be involved.... Also agree with the sentiment that you need to be a little more forceful and stand up for your self.... Make sure you are taking an interest and make her explain what is going on ( certainly if your money is going in to it) That is your right...

    Big thing is you are going to have to make an effort and show some interest before you can expect her to change the way she is living. I would almost bet that this is the way her lifestyle was like when she lived at home.

    One other thought, and only the OP can see what is happening.... To those comments that she is cheating on you/ doesn't need you.... These folks sound like someone who have failed relationships... only you the OP knows whether she is spending a lot of time away from the house and you.... Dude! get involved even if you don't want to.... stand up for your self and make sure everyone knows you are going to take part... I suspect just making your self a part of the group, and being involved will change a lot of things with your wife and the family / friends...

    Well that is my 2 cents.... but this hits home to me as I have been through it... It took some time for me to make my self get involved and that was thanks to another Farang who had seen the same thing.. we have been married for 10 years now and life is good... Good luck to you.....!!

  12. If you don't want to be marginalised and spend every night on the reserves bench you should try getting more involved with ' them '. Firstly, start learning to speak more thai or lao so that you can join in more with the conversation. Like the Alpha dog you will have to excert you position on them. Don't stay upstairs, sit downstairs amongst them and read a book or the paper or whittle wood, anything but just try to avoid totally surrendering your space to them. Get in your mother in laws good books by whatever means possible so that she takes your part. Buy her small gifts of fruit etc. Make visitors bring their own booze by not keeping any in the house yourself. Talk to your wife and tell her you want everyone out of the house by 11.00 p.m. except on special occasions.

    Finally if 11.p.m. comes around and the relos are still cluttering up the house, wear you smallest Y fronts and start pottering around in front of them, collecting glasses and emptying ashtrays. EXERT YOUR PRESENCE or you'll end up in the dog house. Woof !

    This man/lady makes sense.

    SPOT ON

    I think no Thai like you.

    "Them" and us???

    Can you not sleep with "Them" in your house.

    "Alpha dog"..............Sit.

    No reserve bench for you,

    RED CARD.

    Are you a scientologist?

  13. :D kerosene is what I use. Direct shot and no more dog. :D

    Other solutions might be found at BarkingDogs.net

    Just trying to be civil. :D

    :(

    If the dogs come across the street and attacks you.... Well you have a bat use it... 1 time upside the head and problem solved.. :D . But please refrain from the poison :o , I hate seeing an animal made to suffer. But that said the best option for everyone involved would be to go to the authorities.....

  14. nothing, but then I'm not American and maybe i can live overseas without going on about lack of beer choice or steak :D

    I don't see any Americans whining about not having Marmite, Vegemite, or spotted dick. :o

    I doubt you see wnyone whining about not having spotted dick :D

    Well...I miss FAGGOTS and peas, and that will really get the Americans wondering!

    Meatball and peas in gravy YUM!!

    You don`t mean Savoury Ducks do you !!!!!we will have them blowing a gasget with TOAD in THE HOLE from another posting ,Welsh Rarebit , Hot Pot ...Neeps ,Tatties and Haggis , Stoties and barm cakes ... that should keep them going for a while .

    Toad in the Hole...... Sausage backed in batter. Kinda like pig in the blanket:)

    Welsh Rarebit---- chease on toast?? not sure....

    Hot Pot--- have a thought of what this is but well I am probably wrong.

    Neeps--- Turnips eemmmm love fried..

    Tatties and Haggis..... You can keep'em.... If I remember right they don't sound all that appealing... Taters I am okay with but the other... Keep it.. :D

    Stoties and barm cakes.... Have to admit I have never heard of it......

    Oh yeah and just so it is not completely offtopic ..... when living there I missed out door sports that we have in the states..... not quite the same in LOS>... But of course there are good hunts in LOS that you don's need quite the same gun for...... :D

  15. "RakJungTorlae": still trying to get your post count up there with the 'big dogs' by your well thought out inane remarks I see….

    No, Ive passed 1000. im all good now.

    I do have a story but I think it will just be censored out or deleted.…

    Its got to do with me and my black "cat" and this Chinese chick, me and my friend where really on the floor laughing our butts off.

    BTW my cats name Starts with P. You should be able to work it out. :o

    Thats about as funny as having an enema. :D

    Uhhh this one time at band camp....... doh... wrong story:)

  16. I met my wife in MN 1997 and came to visit in 1998. Loved it so much I spent a couple of years and a lot of trips in LOS>

    after we we were married in 2k we decided to come back to the states, until I could get the experience needed to make the kind of life we want. We are close to coming back to LOS and cant wait.....

  17. Farang are very bad you know.

    They smell very bad and have ugly skin that is why they called: Bak Si Daa. I admit that a lot of people don't care how they look or smell :o

    They try to change our culture and no understand about face. Some of us actually care about Thai culture....

    Also they want to steal the land and make big house to show they have big money. kind of like Thaksin right?

    Alsoo, they not care about how the hair look, hair must look stylish everyday. Hmmm After looking around my office I must confess this

    might be true.

    Alsoooo, they want brown and dark skin, it is very bad! Kind of Like Thai's using creams to have white skin?

    Alsooo, they wear sandals with sock!!!!!! You try wearing sandals without socks when it is -10 C out side. Funny thing I have seen a couple of Thai's try this...... But they changed their minds very quickly.

    And alsooooo, they cannot and want not speak the Thai language or if they speak they not speak very well. hmmm I confess I am trying to learn but it is not easy.....

    :D

    Just kidding, ha ha ha!

    absolutely why I still cant meet good farang guy? haha and you too ?

    i say it again. many good farang all over the world but not many in thailand. what would a good man do in thailand? hang with bad girls? enjoy the weather? eat thai food? ---- Uhmm good people can't find enough *good* things to do in Thailand then well there may not be any hope for them.

    GENEREALLY SPEAKING LOS ATTRACTS PLEASURE SEEKING SINGLE GUYS!

    I will agree that there are a lot of *@$$h0l3$ that come to Thailand for the bars and girls (maybe not in that order). But we seem to forget about the number of people who come to Thailand for fun or business that never set foot in Soi cowboy. or nana plaza.....

  18. i dont understand thai girls

    they ask 1 thousand baht then they want to hold your hand and call you everyday...

    make sense to me.

    the first 1000 is the hardest, then it gets easier.

    Both of you guys got it wrong, if your giving them 1000 baht it's not for them to stay, its so they leave afterwords LOL!

    Wow.... I think he got it right..!! :o

  19. Guiness, Chang, Sapporo, Happoshu, Asahi, Suntory..... Depending on where you are..:D

    :o:D

    Oh yeah and there is some great stuff that comes out of the Microbrewries in Japan as well!!! :D

  20. Wow!! There many amazing people in this world, are there not?

    I love the idea of saying i am this or that, and if that doesn't work then I am something else. :o

    While i can see a valid point here or there (remarking Buddhism lends it's self to other religions) I don't agree with this. The mantra of today "We are all right, and if they are not right you must make them feel they are right"; Now I am sure there are a lot of good people saying they are jubu's or whatever. Not that it matters, people have the right to do as they choose. I know it's a freedom of expression but do they realize how *eccentric and out of touch they really sound? I am not Buddhist however I find it to be a beautiful religion that I have enjoyed studying. Also these people seem to be forgetting just how strait-edge the Judaeo Christian religions are. So yeah I have to agree with a comment in an earlier post, this is really confusing. I can only tell them one thing. again.... WOW!!

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