God knows what you are going on about, I seem to understand quite clearly as under your parameters nowhere is family friendly in Thailand.
Is Bangkok family friendly with bombs going off, active shooter in Paragon?
How about the tourist hotspots of Hua Hin, Patong, Surat Thani, Trang, Phang Na which all suffered from terrorism in the past?
I think the chances of surviving a night out in Pattaya are higher that surviving the journey home on the roads!
Nowhere is completely safe these days, not just Pattaya.