ChrisKC

I don't have any problems deep or otherwise when it comes to my understanding of my philosophy of life. I have already said, what strangers say or do I am unaffected by, so I don't need to care trusting or not trusting, Internet or not.

My policy is, I trust everybody until discover I cannot. In your case I discovered I haven't trusted you for a long time. What's true, what's false could be just about anything. But for me,.. I am unaffected either way, so I am not bothered. With those who matter, I am not checking up all the time If I discover dishonesty or downright lying or obvious deception, it's goodbye from me.

No difference at all. We are talking respect and just a hint of loyalty by both parties. At least while you both talk of love. In case you didnt realise it, real love expressed should be reserved for one. In fact the situation is worse than you think. Both being disrespectful with each other at the same time as engaging with others. As for you, you consider it a right and think nothing of it while openly sharing confidences on an open forum all of whom are effectively strangers. Shameless indeed!

Talking about who loves who after a few days is both premature and immature, specially considering the fragilities between you both already.

Like you, she believes in a "pipeline". If its OK for you, why not for her?

You have simply ignored what I said. Don't bother about replying if you continue to be so dismissive. Not surprising your "perfect" girl is resisting. We don't know much about the girl but we have certainly learned a lot about you and most us are not impressed. Quite a lot of attitude adjustment is recommended.

Nothing wrong with them, you are the wrong one for making an issue that is not remotely lmportant. Why make trouble for others by "having a go" at someone because you don't understand Thai culture?

I fear we are not going to reach 100 Pages,

You seem not to be aware that asking someone to walk for 45 minutes with someone who does it routinely is not easy. Why are you thinking she should be the same as you? Dont act like you are the boss or be dominant. After only three days, there is no way either of you can know some very basic habits or preferences of each other. Nose jobs and walking already signs of conflict. You are already sowing the seeds of relationship failure after making the very bold claim of "she is perfect". Quick to judge, quick to change your mind. I wanted this to work for you but alas...

I am an unaffected outside observer only

Praying to a god won't get you anywhere, try allowing her make her own decisions about her own body. Its not what you want that counts. You know her less than a week and already showing her and us, that to please you is more important. You cannot be sure of her long term intentions or just her ideas about her future. If you want to be useful, it's a matter of her doing the research to discover risks and so on. It should not be an argument for one of you to win.

One thing that seems strange to me: If it were me with so much love and attention being virtually imposed on me (with my ready acceptance) I am surprised you spend so much time sharing it all on this forum while she is there. Doesn't she ask you what you are doing and why tell everybody what we are doing behind closed doors? Betraying what should be sexual confidences in an open forum shows something about you that is just not nice. Out of common decency and respect, I would never do such a thing.

You don't need to defend it for the benefit of those who feel the need to rubbish it. It is a very nice photo, that person whoever she is attractive and cute. What would be important is that she is honest for you to trust her. And you certainly have not enough experiences of her to know it now as an indisputable fact.

If I were you, I would have an early night

Good point about doi suthep. From phuket maybe she never been there. In my experience, many Thai people want to go there

I have been thinking that for some time, but Mr. OP hasn't said anything here to suggest HE thinks that.

No need for two sentences, not even one, just answering the question with something like, 1.8m. Your "why" automatically implies your thinking something sinister in the question - maybe, maybe not. If you went to Law school, did they tell you anything about "innocent until proven guilty".

If you must know, all your unnecessary speculative waffle that in 78 pages has only made it more evident that you have no idea what you are doing. Please don't bother with a response - I have not learned anything new.

He's getting worse fellow Members - you have noticed I am sure.

Some time ago, I stated that I never lie to anyone about anything. That is true. I am straight up. That must have hit you real hard. You might like to consider that others are sussing you and the women out by observation from your ramblings and the women's alleged responses that they are the ones arriving at conclusions a lot sooner than you.

Thank goodness, I don't NEED to trust you. You carry on believing everybody is the same as you. I for one am not!

It is NOT a game. Honesty not your interest is it? It is true that some others may have a hidden agenda. Suss it out from observation and then move on.

The next person will be different. You could try just being yourself, no strategy needed.

Can't forget it can you? Have a mutual exchange of the facts - see how that goes!

The worst mistake you have made is pursuing a lost cause, recognised by many of us as such. You don't trust her and for your antics with multiple other women she has the right not to trust you. Lets see if you can get it a bit more right with Phuket girl.