Before being posted to East Asia I lived and worked, from the late 1960s to the mid 1980s, in northern Nigeria, Abu Dhabi, Qatar and Saudi Arabia. I speak Arabic, and during my time in the foregoing countries I became aware of a central theme, not openly spoken of these days, of islamic teaching, namely that the taking of an infidel's life (eg a Christian or a Jew) will be rewarded with a place in heaven. I suspect that, while you are enjoying kissing Muslim men, you have no idea of the harsh realities of Islamisation that the UK, and several other countries in western Europe, are facing today. Naivety is the word that comes to mind.