Mansell

You seem either very naive, or immature, or haven’t dated a lot of women. …….maybe both! In love after a month….Yikes! Where are you from? It sounds like you are heading down the road that runs off a Cliff……put the brakes on and slow down before you hit the forty foot wall in front of the cliff. Can you speak Thai….can she speak good English? If the answers No to both of those be very careful because there will be some huge misunderstandings now and down the road. Good luck.

It looks like she was turning right and completely oblivious to the dividers. These dividers are obviously a bad idea and will create many more accidents. The place where you can attempt a U turn isn’t big enough for trucks and they have to make many maneuvers to make the turn. Not very well thought out.

Life after 40 is downhill mostly……Wow! You are not the person to ask for advice with such a defeatist and negative attitude. I’ll be 80 next year and having the time of my life. I play tennis, bicycle, swim, and walk most days of the week. Having the best sex ever with a 34 year old girlfriend. Life is a gift to be enjoyed, not to be giving up at 40. Come on, you can do better than that. Retirement for me is the best part to be enjoyed.

Sadly it sounds like you have to take the Tough Love approach. Sit her down and lay out the options for her. I would put dates on things, if you don’t stop by this date….I am gone. I would say, gambling for 24 hours straight is a problem. Now ask her to tell you why it isn’t a problem. And then ask her at what point does it become a problem? If she hasn’t got any answers, I’m afraid you have run out of choices. There really isn’t any difference between addictions to alcohol, drugs, food, sex, or gambling. Set a bye bye date to her, explain it clearly to her. Ask do you have any questions? If nothing changes by the bye bye date…….then their is your answer. Good luck. Remember, you have to take care of yourself first.