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2 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   You want the girlfriend experience ?

This is getting mire and more costly all the time 

I'm leaning toward a professional nurse now after thinking about security issues. It was Spider Mike or someone who reminded me of risks involved with living with a stranger. OK, good point. 

I spoke to the take-care woman again tonight. Yes, the GF experience was on offer for 20,000 a month with a 6 month commitment. She started talking about the possibility of love and romance. Then, drama entered the picture and I opted out.

A nurse seems like the way to go, not some gray-area woman I don't know. Good to get feedback here. 

5 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

I just noticed that your avatar looks real innocent and "baby-ish" as well 😂. 

 

Being an "adult baby" is a fetish in the Usa and there are fetish groups that do that. It's called Paraphilic Infantilism.

If I poop myself after surgery, I can claim it was intentional! Thanks again! 

Just now, JimTripper said:

I just noticed that your avatar looks real innocent and "baby-ish" as well 😂. 

Thank you. 

3 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

It's interesting that you are using baby-talk in the thread title and question. "take care me"

 

I wonder if there is something else going on here other then the physical assistance requested.

If spoken in Thai, the sentence would be close to "take care me." Do-leh chan. ดูแลฉัน

36 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Plenty of houses to rent at the 8-10K baht/month level.

Where? Seriously? A decent house in the suburbs of Bangkok or Pattaya is at least 20k baht, no? 

4 hours ago, Smithson said:

As the cannabis advocates have pointed out, it's not really possible to differentiate between medical and recreational - I have insomnia, so I've enjoyed smoking to relax since I was a teen. In some countries I'm a criminal, in others a patient.

I'd take it a step farther. Relaxation is a vital part of healing. Stress itself can cause or exacerbate illnesses. A medication that promotes relaxation without addiction is a treasure. 

1 hour ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Do you mean sex ?

Will the salary include her having sex with you whenever you want to ?

The normal salary would be double if sex was included in the job description tasks

She offered me a kind of relaxing, healing massage as part of her care. Sounds good. The focus would be on healing and regaining mobility, but I wouldn't be shocked or horrified if the therapeutic face and body massage went terribly awry! 

2 minutes ago, Woof999 said:

 

 

Without trying to sound rude, you're asking the community for wage rates and then telling them it's not right.

Those quotes are not me. I didn't tell anyone they're not right. I appreciate all advice given here and it's given me some useful information. 

9 minutes ago, mran66 said:

 

 

Contact him for details, he also in fb. 

 

Apparently, I can get a full-time nurse for 20k. And, that would bypass the security issue. I'll reflect on all this. I also wouldn't mind companionship during my recovery. I won't be "DTF" for a while after surgery. Massage would be nice though. Thanks for this lead. 

2 hours ago, Lacessit said:

Do not, under any circumstances, disclose what assets you have. Or what you can afford.

She knows the URL of my ecommerce website (an asset). Was this a big mistake? I guess I should conceal Thai bank books. Other statements are online only. It's been helpful to think through these issues. 

1 hour ago, mran66 said:

Rides 4 Kickz had a video in youtube about a year back, have a look. I recall live in nurse was around 20k+ a month or something like that. Rented from a service provider, not hired I think. 

I've been looking for it. Do you happen to have a link? 

Thanks for responses. I haven't thought much about the security angle. I have credit cards, ATM cards, bank books, passport, utility bills, birth certificate, and a wallet with cash. Computers are encrypted and passwords aren't written down, but could conceivably be stolen. Installing a safe is the best way to protect myself? I'd need to ask landlord, I guess. Thoughts on security? 

I'm not fishing for a relationship with this woman. But sure, the company might be nice. Money was brought up very quickly, and she had been a beer bar "owner but not worker" in the past. I understand the LOS love-game rules. 

Just now, AndyAndyAndy said:

 

Yes.

11 minutes ago, proton said:

15k-18k would be fair

To be clear, this is for her to live with me full time for a month, right? Seems pretty reasonable to me. If she must work out of town on weekends, does it lower the monthly cost? Thanks for your input. 

18 minutes ago, Adumbration said:

How much can you afford to pay?

That's what she asked me. If I determine I need it for recovery, I can afford to pay whatever it takes. I read that a nurse is perhaps 50,000 baht a month. I don't need that or medical services per se. I need all-around shopping, cooking, cleaning, laundry, massage, and whatever comes up. My mobility will be effected. My goal is to pay fairly and not exorbitantly. 

On 1/12/2024 at 10:43 AM, Mr Meeseeks said:

They cannot ban or stop recreational use unless they put cannabis back on the narcotics list, which realistically is not possible.

 

There are hundreds of thousands of people registered to grow cannabis at home now. 

 

If the government bungles this bill, the lawsuits being filed will clog up the courts for decades and could potentially cost the government billions.

Your post seems sensible. Two questions: 

1) How do you see this playing out in terms of access to people who use cannabis medically (and recreationally) like myself. 

2) I'm concerned about what I read here about banning flowers. I can't take edibles or extracts due to gastritis. Do you think flowers will still be available for medical use? 

Thanks. 

Just now, baansgr said:

Why not allow coke, heroin and crack...?

The consequences of a cannabis overdose are: sleepy, horny, hungry. The consequences of the others you name are death. Withdrawal from alcohol can actually kill you. Ban alcohol. Hell, ban coffee, unless you agree that adults should have the ability to exercise some autonomy over their own bodies and minds. 

Fast forward 6 months from now:

"I have back pain. Take my word for it. Here is my 10,000 baht medical fee, payable every three months."

1 hour ago, Neeranam said:

MSG also works

And it is more delicious (adds Umami flavor). 

Why are Thai cops able to arrest him without putting 11 holes in him first, but the US isn't? 

22 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

 

In the many years that I've been here in Thailand I've pushed back against  corrupt cops or ones who were out of bounds, on many occasions. I've never been jailed for it, I've never had anything horrible happen to me, and in many instances they have backed down.

 

So when they say jump I do not jump, when most people say jump, I do not jump. We make choices in life. 

Are you sure it's illegal for a cop to demand my urine sample if I'm sitting in a bar? Is it legal to film the cops while you talk to them here? I'm thinking it would end poorly if I ever tried that. 

What's worked for me so far is total submission.