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Harveyboy

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  1. 1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

    It's biological programming, pure and simple. In the 'good old days' the most violent men were the best hunters and providers, and that's who they are programmed to want. Yeah, you might take a few licks from the guy when he's in a bad mood, but at least you and your kids get to eat every day.

     

    The guys that 'love and honour' all women get nothing, but like all wokes double down and still get nothing.

     

    The average number of sexual partners for men in their lifetime in the west is FOUR!

    Most of us have managed that (or more) in a week in Thailand.

    Or even a weekend ..when the pound was strong eh ..ha

  2. On 2/8/2023 at 5:30 PM, 4MyEgo said:

    No need to be sorry for disagreeing, I have no idea if Goat is right or wrong, I don't know the girl, and I don't know the guy, I am not disagreeing with Goat either, this intending marriage sounds like it will go south for reasons I stated in my 1st reply to Goat.

     

    The above said, there are also lots of married guys to "bar girls" who are happy as can be, in my opinion, the ones who hand over their money because they love the girl, are the ones who lose all the time, you can work the rest out.

     

    All relationships need attention, effort also has to be put in from both sides, sorting cultural differences, understanding, etc, judging a book by it's cover isn't the way to go, knowing the character of the person your going to spend the rest of your life with is a must, and people change, hence the reason ones finances must remain separate, in other words, why on earth men hand over their money is beyond me, things don't always last forever, so if one invested heavily, e.g. all in, then they walk away with very little if anything, suffice to say, if one invested say between 10% and 20% they walk away with 80% to 90%, now that sounds much better to me and if the women, "bar girl" or other is needy or wants more, then show her the door as these are early warning signs, on the other hand, is she is content and knows your doing the right thing and have her interests at heart and you also have a will in place, a life insurance policy, and your taking care of "her" i.e. a better quality life than she had and she is looking after you and your interests, then all and good.

     

    I could paint ALL women with the same brush, but I won't, if men just kept their finances separate i.e. had balls and understood what's at stake if things went pair shape, it saves a lot of future problems for them because once they are older, it gets harder to recoup the loss.

     

    That's all.

     

    I did suggest to Goat to warn his friend, but I also read in another post reply from him to someone else that he wasn't a friend but did business with him and didn't want to go to the weeding, so I believe it's a troll, or is about him.

    Ok mate tks for the reply  H

  3. 13 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said:

    You need to read the comment to which I responded properly,  I made no reference to my having "a bad experience".

    sorry old pal this isn't the one I tried to reply to it was an op saying never marry a Thai who has a son that they are trouble..seems we had crossed lines.. ain't got no crayons anyway   ha have a good day H 

  4. 10 minutes ago, Harveyboy said:

    hey Lou why the laughing face you on the grog again ..or perhaps it's the difficulty in understanding English ...I can always put it in capital letters in Crayon if you want 

    my post was a reply in which you answered .it said never marry a thai with sons as they are trouble or something to that effect..my post was directed to this 

  5. 2 minutes ago, Harveyboy said:

    my wife has a son from a previous marriage..he was 3 when we met he is now 11 ..I also have a son with his mother ..these 2 brothers are as close as any one can be both my son's..as I've always been dad to both ..total incorrect what you said perhaps you have had a bad experience.. if so I'm sorry I'm just stating my relationship..

    hey Lou why the laughing face you on the grog again ..or perhaps it's the difficulty in understanding English ...I can always put it in capital letters in Crayon if you want 

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  6. 1 hour ago, Liverpool Lou said:

    Why?  Rationally.

    my wife has a son from a previous marriage..he was 3 when we met he is now 11 ..I also have a son with his mother ..these 2 brothers are as close as any one can be both my son's..as I've always been dad to both ..total incorrect what you said perhaps you have had a bad experience.. if so I'm sorry I'm just stating my relationship..

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  7. 19 hours ago, 4MyEgo said:

    I really feel sorry for some people who don't get it, but in your case, I don't.

     

    You obviously have no concept of women or Thailand, or how it works, something tells me that your an Electrical Engineer or something along those lines, i.e. someone who cannot see things for what they are outside of them creating their own reality.

     

    It also sounds like you got burnt by a bar girl and can't get over it, well, get it over it.

    sorry but I think from a lot of my mates experience Goat is mostly right on this one ..I'm not a Thai basher..I have a Thai wife ..but have seena lot of my mates get scammed and F over by these girls ..just stating a point H

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  8. On 2/6/2023 at 5:07 PM, Myran said:

    Of course, plenty of people lead happy lives with former bar girls. But you might as well take precautions.

    I would think success of the % of marriages with bar girls is low I've got 4 mate all been bitten ..all regret ..what's the saying one born every Minuit ...at least where he wants to move to is good Phetchabun I've been here happily married got 2 wonderfully kids  sorry not a bar girl so if he goes ahead take your chance eh.

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  9. On 2/1/2023 at 3:28 PM, BigStar said:

    And go on not worrying about things you can't change. ????

    yep grab a cold one and chill Sabai Sabai..could be worse ..could be in the UK eh...just sayin  H

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  10. 22 hours ago, Freddy42OZ said:

    Not only is it viable, it's popular with Thais. 

    However, you couldn't bring yours in from France as no second hand vehicles are allowed to be imported.

     

    I've seen a lot of  foreign campers here I spoke to a couple of people in jomtien in a french camper they had driven here ....how would that work...how long could they stay ?.. as I said the cons outweigh the pros to having a camper here ..but nevermind it's stl in a lock up in France so can use it a few times a year ..did a 6 week road trip France Spain last year ..magic ..

  11. 7 hours ago, Bundooman said:

    Not all members, perhaps, I might add. I think it is unreasonable to mention the 'no ID' fact.

    How many people do you know who go out without money on them, sometimes contained in a wallet.

    The article fails to mention if he had money on his person and if you're riding an expensive machine as he was, wouldn't most people have reserve money on them?

    It is reasonable to speculate whether the guy had had money on him when the accident occured.

    This is a forum. Why get so 'offended' by what others write?

    But help yourself if you are offended by my comments, OK

    Don't forget your wallet when you go out .............!

    isn't it compulsory to carry a driver's license..if the bike was rented there should be papers or even a sticker on the bike to what company rented it  ..not rocket science eh ..RIP mate 

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