You really are unbelievable, or just trolling, who in their right mind agrees or even offers to pay anyone anything "because she said:" ? Its nonsense, you dont even know if its yours, you are being taken for a farang ride !
And whats this "my ex wife wont allow" ? Whats wrong with you ! Shes your EX and its got nothing to do with her who you choose to have relationships with. This gotta be a troll thread.