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mike787

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  1. 18 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

    I tried to add to my previous reply, but past time to edit it.

    Do you not consider that every one of those girls is there by choice, that they know exactly what they are doing, and that many of them will have a far far better life by having sex with strangers for a few years than they ever would by working as a farm labourer, or in a sweat shop, or worst of all as a maid?

    Many bar girls like the life style, they enjoy sex, even with strangers, and they especially like the money they make. If they get lucky, some even get to go to other countries with customers, or have a holiday at a beach. Beats having to shuffle around a pole all night. It's not hard work, and it pays well.

    God has nothing against prostitutes.

    None of them was forced to do that, and they can stop doing it whenever they like. I had a gogo girlfriend for about 8 years till she found a rich guy to marry. I got to know her pretty well during that time and no one forced her to do anything she didn't want to do.

    I'm not claiming that all are undamaged, but if they are it was not being a bar girl that caused it.

    Seriously, that is a brilliant perspective.  Many I know, bar girls, expats, thai families/culture have the same thoughts.

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  2. 2 minutes ago, AsianAtHeart said:

    Mike, take a closer look.  At their faces.  Do you see true happiness, joy, peace, or love there?  I don't.  I see fear, embarrassment, anxiety, sadness, insecurity and timidity in most of those expressions.  In one or two, there may be a little impudent impishness, but this is not to be confused with either confidence or happiness.  Their smiles are not genuine, they are the kind that are bought.  

     

    The kind of true love, joy, peace, and happiness that God offers as a gift is not the kind which may be found in worldly pursuits, nor can any amount of money purchase it.  It is life-giving, and worth the sacrifice of any earthly good to obtain it. 

    Beauty and happiness is in the eyes of the beholder...therefore I see love, fun, land of smiles and lust.  Not saying you're wrong, rather we have different perspectives is true.  Beyond that everything is a matter of interpretation.    

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