I think the point you are missing is that those “performance” vehicles you mention are not mass market production vehicles.
They come with premium pricing, so though there is no guarantee, anyone who can afford one will hopefully have the time and money to develop the skills to handle that power (wisdom however cannot be helped…)
Now think about our high performance Chinese ev’s and their drivers…
Lastly, I have mentioned this before and it may well be a “media” bias but e v e r y pic of an accident damaged Tesla I’ve seen, shows a tangled and torn lump of plastic and metal that I am usually unable to id as a brand and sometimes even as a vehicle…
How do you think Somchai will go when you throw him the fob to your ev ?