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Lolothai

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  1. Hi, I left Thailand recently and I need to transfer money from my Thai bank to my French bank. I can do it from a kasikorn application but unfortunately I need an OTP code they send on my Thai number that I can't access now that I am in France. I tried without success to send an email to kasikorn. Does anyone know how to contact kasikorn from abroad?
  2. So she can't even come here unexpectedely? She is ok to take them back but she told me that she knows French education system is better. She would live with them and her boyfriend who pay her 3000 bahts daily. She is going to marry him the thai way, that's 1 month they are together... I will stop to contact her, I'm very depressed and lonely but it just make things worse, now she doesn't want to speak with me at all. I went from telling her how horrible she is to how sorry I am. I'm losing my mind but I control myself quite well with the kids so they are very happy. In one week they already learn so much, eating at the right time and at the table, much better sleep, 10 hours instead of 7 etc I want to find love again and I really like Thai girl physically, I suppose I will have to divorce eventually if I want to bring a thai lady home. I won't fall in love the same way. She was very happy with how the things were going, now her son left her too, she has no children except her niece whose mother left. Hopefully she replace her kids with her and forget us but I think she doesn't realize where she is heading and when she finally get rich but no family to share what she has then she could be trying to get back the children. I suppose I have a year front of me, at 90 000 per month and the boyfriend making 500 000 a month she will quickly feel very strong. As I'm normally working in oil and gas I can't find job with my 2 girls so I'm going to get the minimum salary restarting life, maybe 60 000 a month at best. She also start with a house land and car that I paid through the years.
  3. It's only one week, I went through many feelings already and now I want to cut her out of our life but the girls still miss their mother sometimes. I'm just worried that once she get rich she wants to get them back, like cute little toys. They will start school soon and without passport I suppose it's hard for her to kidnap them. I have also videos of her saying that she prefer fun than family and that she is a prostitute.
  4. I'm sorry, indeed it's a pain in the ass to read, I was a bit upset. I won't ever send them to her, however she will come to stay with us for one month and I will hide the passports.
  5. thank you very much, I don't mind about the land, I have enjoyed it for quite long time and it was the price to pay to get my children. I will have to becareful that she doesn't try to get them back later once she feels rich, it's only few day but she doesn't look like she care. I need to find a job get a better situation then I can meet again, most important is that my children will start to get a good education, it was a disaster.
  6. Thank you, I'm looking for people who pass by the same problem. She was not a prostitute when I met her. I don't mind about the house if it's the price to keep my children. Still it's very fresh and I'm devastated, I try to keep smiling for them, I'm making plan to heal my heart. I need to replace her like she replaced me. I'm still sending pictures of our children but she doesn't react much. She is supposed to come to see them in one month but I don't see her motivated enought to go through the paperwork.
  7. Hi, I'm married to a Thai and we have 2 girls together and she had a 6 year old son when I met her. Things were never easy but we got some love moment, then with the children we never had private moments and always struggling with money. I managed to keep her family at bay as they were ruining our family life. I bought a land, a house, a car and 2 years ago as I was working hundred km away we were running out of money because of some construction in our small house, she stole the little remaining we had to give to her mother and I could not even go back to work, we had 10 000 in bank and she gave all. I lost my job and she wanted to go to work as a prostitute, I cried and she stop after 2 weeks then we struggled again and she went slowly back to it through working in massage. She was not a prostitute when I met her, she was 25 and me 34. Everything were more or less ok but with still a lot of family love until a day a rich thai guy started to take all her time and made her dream. I got angry and could not stay like this, she accepted that I leave with our 2 girls. I tried to take her to France with me but she wants to be free and continue her business. She get 3000 a day with many bonus from this guy but she has to be with him constantly, he is crazy about her. So I lost the land, house and car but I don't want it anyway. She still took 60 000 from me by making me believe that she would come to France in few month after clearing her life here but finally she used it to buy a cow and some she keeps to come to visit her kids here in one month. I'm completely depressed, lonely with my 2 girls at my father's house in a very beautiful village but small and empty. I tried to get her back before to leave by spending a week with our family in very nice hotel and water park, it was magical and she was again mine for a moment but as soon as we were in the flight she was with her boyfriend and she kept lying that she broke up. She lies about everything all the time but I feel sometimes that there is still love. Since 3 days we left she doesn't answer much of my call or to see the kids, maybe 5 minutes per day, during this time she is full of love, even with me. She did provide for me during 2 years, I was paying nothing as I could not go to work. Now she agrees to come 1 month every 3 months in France. It could be a temporary situation. She is also very often sick, chocolate cyst and thyroiditis leading to hyperthyroidism so her mood swing quite often. Maybe I should leave her alone for sometimes and see how she feels in our house with her family and her boyfriend, she tends to get bored fast by people. Also I wonder how long this guy will keep paying for her, he is making 600 000 bahts a month with a coconut business but I suppose he could find other than her. She agreed also to stay with our kids here in France for 6 months the time I go to work abroad for a mission but I don't think she can support it, she would be very lonely. So I'm stuck with my kids but I prefer this than them staying with there mother doing prostitution and having sex in our house while my daughter are playing near. I don't trust her with the kids over there. I'm so desperate, I really want to save our family but I can see that she doesn't want family life anymore. She wants to be independent. She is a bit slow and not good with business, I tried a shop few year ago but it failed. I don't think her cow business would work and I hope also that she will get fed up with her very invasive new boyfriend or maybe that she would miss us.
  8. can she just write a permission on a blank paper or does it have to be an official document?
  9. I have a permission, she can come to the airport with me. She loves her kids but she wants to be free with her lover. Is there a form for the permission? Do I need atk or pcr test?
  10. Hi, after 9 years together my wife is leaving me for another man and I have to leave Thailand as fast as possible. I don't want to stay and see her betraying me, I'm heartbroken and shocked. I have 2 daughters 5 and 6 year old, what is the process to leave Thailand. Should I buy tickets first? what about covid test? I'm vaccinated with moderna, 2 shots, I didn't get the covid passport yet.
  11. at Phnom Phen they don't require the 400 000 bahts fund proof to get non O immigrant visa based upon marriage?
  12. I meant outside of Thailand, like Cambodia. My wife just contacted me and told me it's all good, indeed as you said I can get an extension to visit my wife. They will also help if there is a bit time missing. Apparently I don't need to get out of the country to get the Non O visa with the funds. So I will get 2 months extension (probably visit my wife) then make a Non O visa with the funds. They told us to prepare all the documents next week even if we don't have the funds there yet. Thank you again Ubon Joe
  13. My wife is at the immigration asking, she is working not far. Please could you tell me if it's possible to get 3 months non O visa without funds? It's going to be expensive to go anywhere with all the covid requirement. They also told us some time ago that for non O visa when you have kids the requirement is to hold the fund only 1 month.
  14. Ok I see the covid 19 mention in Thai, but I have no stamps from 13 May to 24 September 2020, I don't understand. So I have 2 stamps missing and I don't know if it's covid extension or visit my wife. No page missing, just no stamps, weird.
  15. I can't remember if I took an extension to visit my wife since I got my non o visa, I got it on 14 February 2020 just when covid started then I don't remember if I took a covid extension after 3 months or visit my wife. How can I check this? is there a mention on the stamp? Also could I get a marriage visa without fund and then extend once I get the fund?
  16. Hi, I'm currently on covid extension after a non O based upon marriage. My extension will end on 19 March, I will get the 400 000 needed for Non O between now and 30 March. I will try to get another covid extension and explain that I'm going to get the money but I need a bit time. If they don't accept what are my option? - Could I go and back to get a 30 days visa exempt and what would be the best place to go? do I need a covid insurance? - Can I get 3 months Non O marriage without the proof of funds? what insurance are required? (I have a French insurance CFE but no covid coverage)
  17. I'm 43 year old with 2 kids with my Thai wife. I stayed many years on non O visa based upon marriage that I made at Savannakhet, at the beginning I had 400 000 and didn't need to get out of the country but I have more expenses with my family. I don't have job since 2 years, my wife is working and it covers our expenses for now, it's quite complicated, I need to be there for my kids, we want to stay together as a family, we have a land, house and car, we are very happy here. I'm a bit worry to let my kids alone here but I want to go to work. There is also the school term to pay and the vacation during which my wife won't be able to work if I'm not there. I will try to get again 2 months covid extension, see if they accept tea money. Best would be a new visa in Laos, I also wait for a job answer which would clear all our financial difficulties, last is to make a visa from France but I think it's quite costly. I haven't been in France since 13 years. If anyone has information about the visa in Savannakhet and how to get it I would appreciate very much.
  18. on 14 February 2020 my visa ended on 12 February 2021, I don't think you can get a visa at the immigration without the 400 000 bahts requirement.
  19. Hi, I'm staying on covid extension since the beginning of covid, at my last extension the immigration informed me that it will probably be the last. I would like to get a new visa based on marriage, is it possible to go to Laos by flight? and is it still possible to get non immigrant O visa at savanakhet?
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