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Lolothai

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  1. No my embassy doesn't issue income letter.
  2. So they are right, I would need 1 year salary. They just told me that they could increase my company capital and charge me 35 000 bahts with 100% garanty to get business visa
  3. Hi, I have a visa based upon marriage that will end on 29 August. I will divorce soon and not in good term with my wife anymore. She agreed to give me full custody of my daughter. The agency that got my work permit said that I can't get a visa as a thai father because I need 12 months salary and I can't get a business visa as the company hiring me has a capital of 1 million bahts only. I can't renew has husband as I just got my work permit too and can't show my other month salaries. Only way I see would be savanakhet before to divorce. Do I need my wife for this? Any other alternative? Arrangement with officer?
  4. thank you very much for your answer, that could be a very good alternative and quite easy to go, even for one day only. I will look today and see for tonight.
  5. Thank you for your answer, so it means it's not going to be ok before October? Is there some days better than others. I live in Sriracha, it would not take too long to go there, I could take 2 days off anytime.
  6. Hi, I would like to go to Koh Chang with my 7 year old Daughter, enjoy the beaches, ride elephant, kayak, snorkeling etc but apparently the weather is quite bad, is it raining all the time now or just from time to time with some sunny moments?
  7. Hi, I'm living and working in Thailand, as a side job I would like to sell online. I'm thinking to start on Lazada or Shopee, any guideline or tips to give me?
  8. ok I just made a transfer with K bank app, I tried with 1000 euros only to test, waiting to see when my friend receive the money and if he received 1000 or less. Fee to send are 250 bahts.
  9. kasikorn is asking my work permit that I should receive soon but my friend is in a hurry. So I can use deemoney and transfer from kasikorn to deemoney and then from deemoney to my friend? is it safe?
  10. Hi, I need to pay back my friend in France, I use kasikorn bank, I would like to use wise to make the transfer, how does it work. I downloaded the app but I understand nothing. I suppose I have to put money on my wise account but I can't even find my wise account details.
  11. How she could force me to pay? she left me for a rich man, got the land house and car I paid, <deleted> with him in the house I paid and the bed I bought and we slept for 7 years. She has way more money than me, firstly because she own everything I paid and work for secondly because her very rich boyfriend is spitting ton of money every now and then. She bought a second hand pick up that she sold for 300 000 then he just bought her a new car (struggle to put the credit in her name) with a 600 000 down payment. She has a plastic shop and a massage shop now. The kids are still with me and she never paid anything for them, when I was struggling she got a marriage ceremony with her boyfriend and he spent 200 000 for it and gave her 60 000 in gold. She didn't help me for school or for the doctor or anything for the kids, having a beautiful dress and a nice wedding ceremony was more important. So unless thai law require me to give half my salary to an unfaithful wife I don't think I should help. Do you have an idea of how much I'm supposed to pay in alimony? I still hope that a lawyer could help here, I will take one soon, I wait to see where it is going. Right now we are like lovers, or husband and wife and I'm super cuckold I don't know. I have many pictures from her facebook of her wedding ceremony and a video where she explains she left us to have fun and happy life.
  12. I don't have an extension now, I have 3 month non O that will end at the end of August. So at any time before the end of my current visa I can go to make a business visa and keep my work permit. I can also try to get a marriage extension or a multi entry if I can support to be a cuckold a bit longer and then go to make a business visa once my Non O end or even before. In all these possibilities I don't need to do anything regarding my work permit, as long as I work and have a valid visa it's ok right?
  13. I still want to know if I can switch from a marriage visa to a business visa and keep the same work permit
  14. Maybe I should avoid making kilometer of my story but for some reason it feels good to share, thanks for having the courage to read all.
  15. My salary is 70 000 per month, with free accommodation but indeed I forgot that they reopened the border so that would be one more possibility. Again here she can't cancel my visa by just going to immigration and stating that we are not together anymore? If like this I will leave her after getting the extension or a multi entry.
  16. So it would worth it to get the marriage visa end of august, and then I won't need her every 3 months for reporting? We already changed my address to where I work. and once I start the divorce process she can't just go to immigration and tell them we are not together anymore and block me?
  17. This time I need to know about the visa, the story is optional. By the way that would be another question, if I divorce after getting the marriage extension would it cancel the visa as soon as the divorce process start?
  18. Hi, I got a work permit with a non O immigrant visa based upon marriage. I have to renew my visa end of August, I will probably have only 1 month salary to show, almost 2 months and that's maybe not enough. I would like to switch to business visa, do I have to redo my work permit or can I keep this one? The company that is hiring me has a registered capital of 1 000 000 bahts only and with a business visa it's supposed to be 2 000 000 bahts. The agency I used to get my work permit is saying that it doesn't matter and I can keep my work permit so I would like to double check here. There is 2 reasons I need to switch first I'm not sure to get the 2 months salary required, second my wife is blackmailing me with this and hold my life. She left me few months ago for a rich guy (that she married at the temple, fake marriage) then we went back together but she is still with him too, she comes to stay with me and my daughters around a week per month. I have to please her and accept everything, play love. It's emotionally exhausting and depressing, I really wish to respect myself again but my life is here, my job and career and my children. So with a business visa, I could be independent, pay my debt and start my life over. I could take a lawyer and protect myself as she would probably take back the kids and ask me more than 30 000 per month that's half my salary to take care the kids. She is making a lot of money with her boyfriend and her new business, really a lot so I don't see the point in asking me that much. She also got a car a land and a house that I paid and build through many years. For now she is all sweet, we have happy family week-ends and I close my eyes when she calls her boyfriend but damn it's painful. I wish we could stay just friend and get my freedom but she won't let me having a girlfriend when I have the kids, as she doesn't want another woman to replace her and don't trust a stranger to live alone with the kids and I have to agree with her on this. When she speaks about getting the kids back I agree but she immediately continue by I should pay her more than 30 000. I know that it's probably not the law but she is the key to my visa. So a business visa would mean I can tell her nicely to <deleted>-off and start my life over. For now I have to seduce her and make her happy.
  19. I don't understand well your post sorry but about trolling that would be even sadder than my story. For someone to make up such story...
  20. She was blackmailing me before when I needed her for my visa. Now things are a bit different. She can still take my daughters away and I would see them only after winning a trial. I would prefer to avoid this fight as I don't know yet my chances to win. Also now that this girl is pregnant it could be difficult to sue the boyfriend of my wife. Other problem is that I still have very strong feelings for her and she starts to have some for me. We had our first really romantic time in 9 years and I do understand a lot more about her but I can't completely forgive what she did to me. Now if she leaves him she would lose her future and also a better future for our daughters. She wants to be independant and free from men. She invested in a shop that I will likely succeed well and in parallel she has businesses with her rich boyfriend. She made near 800 000 in 3 months that she reinvested in businesses, she is obsessed by that. She said before when she didn't care to hurt me that her boyfriend fullfilled all her needs, sexually, emotionally and financially. He care about everything in her while I was treating her like a mate and thinking only about putting the money in our family. I'm making 70 000 a month and can save maybe 20 000 as I have my daughters, car rental, school nursery etc to pay. The only thing I have over him is that he is small and far to be handsome but apparently she doesn't care. It looks like he is going to get a harder time once she is autonomous. It's a complicated story, I understand her about many things but I think she went too far and I was in shock when I lost the family that I love so much, my world collapsed, it was a living nightmare. I'm reconnecting with her and it's like we meet for the first time. I want to give it a chance but if in 6 month or a year she is still with him then I will move on. I want to be with someone I love and who love me too. I want something stable, I fought a lot to be a good father and provide for my family but in the end I got this. I love my wonderful daughters and I want to be there for them.
  21. Well I'm not in love with her and my wife will not allow me to keep my daughters with another woman. I offer her to pay for abortion already, she said she will raise the child alone and never bother me. If the worse is to pay 3500/month it's not the end of my life. She should respect my choice too, I don't want to make family with a girl I know since 2 weeks.
  22. Can she sue me to force me to get paternity test and pay child support?
  23. I have a hard time to smile right now but it's still funny. I have never bought a lottery ticket in my life but maybe with all this bad luck or wrong choices maybe my hidden luck is there. I will try and tell you soon
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