I am not particularly interested in relationships with Thais.
The women are trouble.
And the men, well, we have nothing in common besides drinking beer.
But they don't even know how to drink beer properly.
They try to pour it so there is no head on their beer at all; they don't like that. Then they put ice in it.
Whereas, I like a thick head of froth on my beer (because I am a real man).
I could never really connect with any Thai male relatives or colleagues even after years. A little maybe, but not more than when I meet a random farang in a bar and just have a few drinks n a few laughs.
I find them shady, even in their dealings with their own family and friends.
You won't find loyalty or honesty in this country. Well, maybe if you get a dog.
There are perhaps a few exceptions though.