I'm no expert and I was lucky to find a partner whose company I enjoy and never get tired of. I think it's a tall order for most people to find. I was lucky, especially after being married for 30 years to a woman who I thought was my 'soul mate' (I hate that word). I never imagined I would find someone who I could spend 24/7/365 with and not get tired of them, but I wasn't looking when I found her, either.