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I met this girl in a thai nightclub last night, she came over to me to talk, where no other thai would cause i was the only farang

later on she asked me to go to her place with her friends i declined,

because i am not sure of her intentions good girl bad girl, want money from me?

she has a job selling houses was driving i think her dads toyato pick up so she does seem to have a few bob

Met her friends today they seem middle class like her but they look like they never spoke with farang before a bit shy you know...

Tonight we will go out again but if she is good girl in thai culture she should not be asking me home straight away even if its her own rented apertment....

Any ideas just go for it i thinking.........

This is Bangkok, do not believe everything you read about this Thai culture thing, it does not apply to Bkk.

BKK is a big cosmopolitan city and girls here these days are not much different than what they are in most big cities in this world...

Well has any of you out there going thro the same situaion has me?!.......

I have been with the same women for over a year now.

She let me go out with my mates has much has I wonted.

Never quizzed me about other women.

I realy thought this place is truly paradise.

Life was never better until she started talking about babys.

So I sat down one day and scratched my head until I came up with a master plan.

So we both sat down together and started to have a right good chat on the subject.

I thought I had convinced her it would be best if we bought a house first and had a good lump in the bank for the kids schooling befor we whent down that road.

At the time she seemed to agree with me.

I also said I wonted a kid with her but at the stage where we can provide a perfect start for the baby.

Any way I started counting her birth control pills each morning when she was not around just to be on the safe side.

Well wait for it.

yes I got caught with them red handed.

It did not bother me at first because the right number of tablets were gone.

Only not down her throat but down the toilet.

The biggest thing Pi##ing me off is that she keeps flushing the toilet and laugthing at me.

I thought i was the smart one

Has any one managed to pull the wool over a thai girls eyes?

Or can they just see right throw us?.

Truely gutted.

Not too sure it is a Thai girl thing only.

Could it be a girl thing?

The new law, he said, would see a strict control on alcohol outlets and an establishment of drinking free zones.

And we thought that with Thaksin gone, life would get better...

Just out of curiousity.... care to share...?

What they did not get from a farang girl...

Tightness??

Well, not really...

Just out of curiousity.... care to share...?

What they did not get from a farang girl...

I need the right words here or I'm in trouble

Well I think nobody can help you...

Tricky. I'll leave this to somebody who knows. I can't think of a good one either, the ones that spring to mind could easily be misinterpreted.

Right, she will think he loves her and actually what he wants to say is that he does not...

Reminds me of the Elite Card...

It doesnt bother me in the least, so why should it bother you?

I have to say that it bothered me more in the past than these days.

Am I getting old...?

I like to think I am older and wiser, and I did not get sucked under on that first visit, amongst the good time girls I did meet one really nice girl of 30, she looked more chinese than Thai, and sooooooooooooo good in the bedroom.

She looked more Chinese than Thai?

So she's better?

You're sure getting older.

Wiser, well...

Like you have just said, a 20 and under girl and a 60 plus (farang, asian whatever) have nothing in common and the girl 99.99% of them would not be with you for looks. Which only leaves the cash

Well, not too sure there must be a 40 years difference for that to happen.

When girls are poor and cash is there, any difference will do, from 0 to whatever.

The lower the better, of course, at least for the girl...

My wife was just offered 8 rai of farmland somewhere in Issan, for 100,000 baht.

Well, it is worth nothing (probably the reason why she was offered the 8 rai).

So 100,000 baht is as good a deal as any deal can be...

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Well, as much as I hate to say it, I was expecting much about the new airport and well, I got little.

Competing with Changi?

Not the airport I have seen...

Well, this isn't really another discussion of Thai girls and their relationships with farang men, I think a large number of the Ladies in this forum have heard enough of that to last us all a lifetime

Anyway....

Right but it seems men never heard enough...

The logic behind the visa crackdown

Thais have many reasons to do what they do.

And most of them we will never understand.

But there is sure no 'western' logic...

Put simply, more than enough guys coming to Thailand don’t know what they want themselves, let alone care to really understand what the woman they take on really wants.

And when it goes wrong, they blame the woman, like they blamed the last woman before that.

Right.

Anyone who crying about the poor Thai girls has never bothered to spend any time with them.

These girls are not raised to be delicate flowers like western women.

I do not agree on that.

Education of most Thai girls is far, far more conservative that their 'sisters' in the west receive.

They are sure more delicate flowers as you put it than their western couterpart.

And it is the majority.

The minority farangs met is really that, a minority.

But whoever they are, they have a very high emotional intelligence and well, they learn fast once in a 'free' environment.

They learn fast how to take advantage of the farangs, or men in general.

And these are the ones farangs usually meet.

But still the minority.

And the ones who think otherwise never bothered to spend any time with 'them'

Hey guys, you know what they are telling us. Show us the money and bring it to Thailand and then we see what we can do for you?

That's right, this is the way it is for the time being.

But well, not worse than in many other countries, I mean 'developping' countries.

And nobody should forget that Thailand is still one of them...

and has several design flaws.

Toilets, toilets, toilets...

I agree with what one of the above poster said, my wife really admires my butts as they are plump and strong too. However it does appear somewhat strange to me as the butts do not have any function while partners are having sex or being intimate. Anyways it may be described as something which gives viewing pleasure to all of us irrespective of the sex, so I guess I too start concentrating on women who have big butts!

"Do not have any function while patners are having sex or being intimate" ??? Hello! I have encountered butts that are expert at multitasking during sex and intimacy!

Well, most parts of the body have no function as far as being intimate is concerned.

But quite a few of them play a big part as wanting you to be intimate.

And well, for me a nice round butt is one of them...

If you discover your niche and market it, you can try your skeleton key on 1000 locks and open some of them.

Well, men are usually not that patient, especially in Thailand.

A mistake most of the time, I agree...

I'm in the process of buying a beer bar in my girlfriends name and want to know if there is anyway to protect my investment.

I would like to have some kind of idea what would be expected from me, can anyone tell me?

The same that what is expected from a girlfriend from your own country.

Security and 'children making' potential.

But you're a foreigner in Thailand, hence the security is not a given, whatever your social status.

So money comes into play...

Is BKK conducive for dating? Or are singles stuck in a rut?

Well, dating and sex are 2 different things, especially in Thailand.

So do you mean dating or sex?

If the basis of the relationship is cash and the cash stops flowing then don't be shocked that the relationship stops too.

If you pay to play, don't expect to play if you don't pay.

So true...

Many guys go there and flash the cash, money they have saved for months to get there....they get involved with the girls and make promises they cant keep. Then when they cant keep up the rich farang pretence the girls go looking for better pastures. Who can blame them?? They werent the dishonest ones to start with.

The girls will tell you that they look for money or good heart....good heart doesnt mean no money...it means that they are looking for someone who will at least try as much as they can to look after them financially. However...it doesnt mean they will put up with deadbeats...

If you wanna play expect to pay...How much is upto you and her....just dont bullshit her

That's right.

If you start a relationship based on money you do not have but said you had, do not expect it to last when she finds out.

But well, make it simpler, just tell the Thai girls you meet you have no money and will never have any, will save you the trouble of any relationship with them.

I can feel the angry comments coming already...