Danderman123

I am not entirely sure why I should have a girlfriend in Thailand. I just came back from an extended trip to Brazil with a Thai lady. I don't know how she convinced her Farang boyfriend to let her go. Nor her Thai husband.

I have had 3 bouts of coughing in the last year. Antibiotics don't help. Covid PCR is negative. The first 2 rounds took about 10 days to go away, followed by a brief cold. This round has been going on for 10 days, still going strong. I get a persistent cough attack that lasts 10 or 15 minutes a few times a day; otherwise, it's just a single cough every few minutes.

It seems there are more younger Russian men here since the war started.

I used to work in Russia, and can converse in Russian. Since the war, I don't talk to Russians. And there are plenty of them around now, especially in places like Foodmart.

Huge numbers of day shoppers from Malaysia in those numbers. But there really are big numbers of South Asians arriving every day, per my experience at Suvarnaphumi. And Russians, they are in Jomtien in big numbers.

I went to Brazil with a bargirl for 3 weeks. She told her Farang boyfriend that she was going to a temple. I have no idea what she told her Thai husband. I assume that everything she told me was a lie. Her twin sister will sometimes tell me an alternate version of events, but maybe she is lying, too. Not that it matters, as long as I get value for my money.

Here in Pattaya "borrowing" baht is rampant among the bargirls. The most common tactic is for a lady to borrow from everyone before going home to Isaan. Generally, they ask for a few hundred baht. Another tactic is to use a photo of a relative in the hospital as a reason for borrowing money. Or a death in the family. Of course, for ladies with families in Isaan, deaths in the family are common.

I live in Pattaya, but don't hang out with any Farangs. When I go to a bar, I avoid getting trapped into conversations with Farangs. I am amazed to see Farangs congregating in lady bars, ignoring the ladies. Okay, that's more ladies for me.

Remember that this is the topic about Famous Bar Girl Lies.

Not just Beach Road ladies hit the boy bars, plenty of bargirls go there when their bar closes. Or, if they go Long Time with a customer, at 1 am they announce that they have to leave because their roommate lost her room key (the "key trick"). Then, money in hand, they go to a boy bar.

Yep. The best response is no response. Sometimes the ladies crave male company after their bar closes, and find themselves with no money. In desperation, they try messaging for money. Sometimes they get baht from some sucker, and then can hit the karaoke bar.

or they talk about their Thai boyfriend that their Farang "boyfriend" has no clue about. I am currently traveling with a Thai lady who has a Thai husband, and a Farang "boyfriend" who lives in Pattaya and gives her a monthly stipend. Basically, a very high percent of the ladies in Pattaya have a Thai man stashed somewhere.

Most of them love their Thai boyfriend, and are really upset if he goes with another lady. One lady I know lives with a younger man, and is very happy with him, except his dick is too small. But everything else is okay.

If you are in Pattaya long time, you are bombarded with money requests from the ladies. Most claim they don't have rent money. I suspect that the ladies are simply looking for free money for tonight's entertainment.

https://www.tatnews.org/2023/01/thailand-maintains-fully-reopen-entry-rules/?fbclid=IwAR1eSLslJhF5_M1JRNLH6ndy4l24RNz2wIG3M_ykzZHrf9MD_XfJBJzKKmY Never mind.

Yeah, I know lady who tells me that, but I ignore her, because of her 19 year old boyfriend.

I know a bargirl who turns into a girlfriend for every customer (she usually goes with customers for a couple of weeks at a time). Specifically, a clingy girlfriend. At first I thought it was just marketing on her part, but after talking to her for a long time, she told me that her father abandoned her at a young age. So, its probably not marketing that causes her to cling to men.

"I only in Pattaya for 2 weeks" is not 100% a lie, since the lady may mean she went home for holiday, and came back to Pattaya 2 weeks ago.

and we never heard from this guy again.

about a month ago, I went shopping in Foodmart in Jomtien. Every customer was from Russia. At least they spoke Russian.

Bargirls are surprisingly credulous when subjected to customer lies. Partially because they don't care. I knew one lady who had a foreign "boyfriend" who came to Thailand for three months every year. She went with him for 12 years. He paid her very little during those 3 months. He never told her his real name, he used a variant of his name, including on a Facebook account. She didn't really care to know his real name.

There is a bit of competition in some bars, among the ladies, as to who has the youngest and cutest Thai boy.

This is what the bargirls say, but what they do in real life is to swarm any young guy who cmes into their bar.

Most are no longer living with their baby daddy. But, as soon as they are in Pattaya and have money, they pair off with some Thai guy. Sometimes they go for young guys, often half their age.

Ladies who work bar are well known for their lies, with the most famous being "I no like young man". There was even an enormous pop hit about this a few years ago ("Mayores"). Even though its not true, its really a white lie, and no one believes it anyway. If a Pattaya bargirl is not sick, not asexual, or a lesbian, there is a 90% chance she has a boyfriend. Of course, available Thai men in Pattaya are at a premium, so the bargirl has to support them. Which leads to the next lie "I not give money to my boyfriend". If you have extended contact with a bargirl, you will see her getting hit up for cash by her boyfriend, which leads to the lie "first time he ask for money". Thai men are experts in "borrowing" money from their girlfriends. No money, no honey. This often leads to the bargirl not having enough cash to send home to whoever is taking care of their children. Many bargirls with boyfriends are flat broke at month end.