No...its not me...
My long time GF has 7 brothers and one older sister most of whom are working overseas in Korea, Taiwan, Israel....etc
Her family is way up north on the Mekong. Mum and Dad have some nice land that backs onto a giant fresh water lake.
Her oldest brother (58) lives in Mum and Dads house and has a couple of little wooden boats that he takes out on the lake to catch fish....mostly small stuff that sells for 50-60 baht a kilo.
On a good day he will make 300 baht and does not get out every day because of weather. He is basically broke.
I should say up front that her family as a whole is very good. They have never asked me for a cent. My GF makes her own money and sends some up to Mum and Dad when she can. They are fine because they have so many kids (working overseas).
Anyway the older brother rang up drunk late the other night, asking my GF to transfer him a couple of 100 baht so he could eat moo gattat (Pork Barbeque). This has happened a handful of times in the past but I have been with my girl a long time.
My GF told him to go home and did not transfer him any money.
Yesterday, my GF informs me that the older brother is getting married to a 17 year old girl from the village (his first marriage by the way and no kids to date) and, I quote:
The girl is very attractive apparently (I have requested a photo) and has several boys and men in the village that want to marry her, but she has choosen her brother...get this... because he has a stable income with his fishing boats
He is already sleeping with the girl (she is staying in the GF's Mum and Dad's house) and has been for at least 12 months
The girl's parents are happy to ignore the underage sex issue provided my GF's brother pays them 10K baht
The brother has asked to lend 10K from my GF's older sister who is working in Korea
The date for the pukan marriage ceremony in the village, and the sinsot amount, has yet to be set. But at this stage the sinsot is expected to be in the 20k baht range
Source of money for sinsot has yet to be confirmed, but I image will also be borrowed from sister in Korea
My GF has again asked me when we are having our pukan ceremony (this issue comes up about once every year) but has been ignored by me, for well over a decade now
As you can see there is a whole raft of morality and TIT issues that should provide for an interesting discussion and susequent thread. For those of you seeking to marry a young hot Thai girl in her teens have you considered buying two little wooden canoes yet?
Over to you...