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I failed to read her mind that she wanted my four fingers to already be on the fingerprint scanner. So her opening line was a scream that I should put my fingers on the scanner. Kinda like a psychopathic dictator would behave. I know you really, really, really wanna paint all Thai women as angels and all western women as evil racist slags... That doesn't fly with me... Sorry buddy.

How dare they express opinions that you personally disagree with!? HOW DARE THEY!?!?????!!!

Thank you so much!

Indeed ! ????

Does it have a meaning or is it just a name?

+1 Went thru immigration line last week in Chiang Mai. Unfortunately, the IO was really rude and screamy. Having come from Australia and Taiwan where everyone is so nice (although in different ways)... It was a total shock to the system. I can't comprehend why you'd welcome a tourist to your country in that way. They make it so obvious that they think we are cockroaches. This will be my last time in Thailand.

yes, it's nature's way... men chase and women choose. Some guys say "women should do the chasing" but that is delusion.... those guys will be waiting until the end of time.

It's rape ofc. That's the only way of looking at it. Also, I agree with you, some drunk Australian girls will have sex for no particular reason. You don't need to spend money on them. But you do need to have a good personality... according to the specific tastes of drunken Australian women ????????????... Which can be a difficult feat for foreign men to achieve, if they aren't familiar with the subtleties of Oz culture.

Core, not only, duty ????. But, yes, I agree with you.

I heard it changes with menstrual cycle ... When menstruating they are attracted to the nice guy but 2 weeks later when highly fertile, they are attracted to Mr Muscles. Nature is a b*tch... Ofc many women, like many men, can overcome natural urges and choose according to their long-term goals.

Sex is THE core wifely duty of marriage and any woman who can't see that is just plain stoopid. Are there so many unintelligent wives in the west?

If the definition of an incel is a woman hater (and I don't think it is, but let's leave that aside for the moment...). If the definition of an incel is a white guy who is actively hostile toward all western women then the answer to OP's question would be yes... Thailand is flooded with them.

Woman are the weaker sex and each woman needs a man to emotionally/chemically bond to her, and to then give her some measure of protection (not only emotional but also simply bringing his masculine perspective and skillset into her world). Each in our natural states, women actually need men more than men need women. You are on the right path. Guys who refuse to date are leading society down a path that ends in more brutality and ugliness. Feminism was invented by rich men to destroy the middle class. Many men today use it as an excuse to persue selfish goals that are socially unconstructive. Women everywhere in the world desperately need good men like you. (They just don realise it in the west because of big government and other artificial conditions there). Loving, unpaid sex from a sensible woman who respects you is very healthy for your body and mind. You are on the right path and everything will work out for you in the end ????. Don't listen to the peanut gallery. They are clueless.

Yes. There is little competition in the Oz banking industry.

Eh? Are there any German men on this forum; I think they are super reliable & responsible. ???? A happy relationship is all about attending to the details. ???? A German man would be top of my wishlist... ????????????

I know three people who handed over their passports to immigration officials at the government immigration office in Phuket in the 1990s ("we need your passport for photocopying.") Passports confiscated for one week. "You want your passport back? Meet me in the Friendship Cafe, bring US dollars." I've heard stories of employers confiscating passports in Chiang Mai. I've heard stories of seaside motorcycle hire shops selling tourist passports to international criminals. Carry your passport with you if you wish. Travel with it, certainly (because, what if you needed to leave Thailand in a hurry?). But only pull it out when absolutely necessary. Consider the difference between holding it in your hands to show someone, versus handing it to them. When it's taken, try to keep it in your sight. Illegally confiscated passport, now your ass belongs to the Thai justice system... and who needs that drama?

Definitely not an overstayer or border-dasher ????

It's true, so many "luxury" condos are located beside shanty towns, open sewers & cow paddocks. Sucks big time

I know my words were harsh but it's a big leap in thinking that we (westerners) ALL need to make if we're going to survive here. Pretty much every foreigner here has made decisions they regret... Mostly involving money... It's normal, a rite of passage. The clash of cultures can really catch you unawares. Hope you can find a brighter future soon. Sometimes 'mai bpen rai' and everything works out just fine. Hang in there buddy.

Oh that's awesome! Thank U. Would you mind if I PMed you, please?

U r clueless. Their culture is racist against us. Put on an objective thinking hat and compare the legal systems of western countries versus southeast Asian. How are immigrants and visitors treated in Thailand? Like royalty (as in the west) or like gutter trash (in SE Asia). Read 'Deadly Destination' by John Stapleton, find an English language translation of the Thai national anthem, study the Thai land ownership laws, and reflect upon the true meaning of Thai Cultural Mandate Number 2 of 3 July 1939. What you can't see is that you are wearing western goggles. You grew up in a place that has a very long history of Christianity, public trials, jury trials, elected officials, the Socratic method, the scientific method, the values of the French revolution, etc. You carry this with you and you expect everyone else to think as you do. You're in a totally foreign environment here. Christianity has never been popular here. Education & critical thinking have never been top priorities here. Stop assuming it is going to be what you WANT it to be, what you EXPECT it to be, or what you would LIKE it to be. It is Thailand. It is its own place. They are doing THEIR thing on THEIR land. Let go of your delusions that you are still in the west.

That at least is an answer. Thank you for at least answering. But, may I ask why you say that? What's your opinion based on?

Just go with the flow and allow yourself to be treated like a second class citizen. That's the essence of it. Thailand - like it or leave!!!!

Thailand is NOT the west. Stop expecting Thailand to be something other than what it is.

Thailand belongs to the Thai. Like it or leave. There are many flights leaving every day.