when someone uses a word like disdain they have very clear intention with their choice. disdain is quite a negative emotion and harbors nothing but as you put it primitive thoughts.
growing up all of my friends made fun of my parents. they called my dad marble mouth. i actually had to translate at times. they are both from glasgow but i was born in canada.
if the contradiction wasn't there i would not of said anything. however it was too blatant to ignore. i cannot relate to that story much at all. it would never of escalated to the point he talked about.