Cameroni

Well, you have to look at the substance, not the dust jacket. Trump seems a bona fide right wing nationalist, and nationalists are always conservative. Of course Trump is conservative, he wants to conserve the non-hispanic, non-black make up of the US with his anti-immigration policy, he wants to save US industry with tariffs, abortion moderation, how is he NOT conservative?

Ooooooh... Controversial.

Yes, he even wrote an essay saying he was not a conservative. However, he was in fact a conservative: F A Hayek was in fact a Conservative https://www.adamsmith.org/blog/f-a-hayek-was-in-fact-a-conservative

No, it doesn't. Trump followers are not idiots. Conservatives are not idiots. Friedrich Hayek was a conservative and he was intellectually more gifted than any Kamala Harris voter ever will be.

Where is the evidence? Nothing then?

Not thinking enough has been a bigger problem in my life, trust me. A certain laissez faire is a good thing though, I do agree with you.

That's the word on the street. A very wise move. Like you say, now with dating apps the 24 year olds can play at will sadly.

It's a puzzle with many pieces, but family and friends are not the hardest ones. The biggest problem is if she is beauty queen Hollywood MTV beautiful, and she knows it. She will always wonder "Is this guy the best I can get?" Her natural instinct will push her to keep trying to find out, humans are not monogamous like the Albatros. Humans are naturally promiscuous. So a woman has to have great integrity of character, has to be convinced that you are truly the cream of the very top, so she is convinced to stay. A man can never relax. That's the hardest puzzle piece. You.

If you look up how many women and men cheat, the figures vary from 25% to 78%, there are many different figures given. Because even what defines adultery is a matter of dispute. Not to mention if you ask people outright, they are likely to lie about the answer to this. So, you may well be right.

Absolutely, you should keep your finances to yourself, however, if your ex wife is in the same city as you and your kids go to a private school in the city you live, you pick them up, then the Thai gf would know what school they go to and can just figure out that you pay at least half the school fees. They're not idiots.

The bad boy also does not care if he comes across as dislikeable, he knows he will but he doesn't care. So he comes across as genuine. That is a major attraction if someone is genuine, because 99% of men are not, they will tell her what they think she wants to hear to sleep with her. That'll be boring and unattractive and predictable. Yes, you can limit your financial investment. But you can't limit your investment of trust, if you're in a relationship you have to give your trust. If you hold that back, it won't work. So you're always "out of pocket" in the area of trust, and she can always betray your trust You are right of course, the pain if you break up would be temporary, and can be used for good in your own character development.

Of course she's not working, she's probably making 60K a month defrauding this carousel of men she lies to. It's hard for guys with kids. If you pay private school the Thai gf will demand the same amount for her (Or you support ex wife more than me??) Imagine this were your girlfriend. It would be hell.

This girl is a liar, plan and simple. She is lying to all these guys. Very obviously she has no integrity. Effectively she is useless, except for one thing.

If you mourn the loss of a fantasy, because after all you had an image of her that did not correspond to reality, it was fantasy, you are mourning over losing something you never had. It's incredible this happens at all.

That's almost always how it goes, sometimes they surprise us and overperform, other times they fall short. I think the reason why the bad boy is so attractive to women, is they think "If I'm with him nobody will mess with me". That's how it should be, you should only be with a woman ticks all the boxes, the question is will she do something bad that detracts from all she brings to the table, or not.

Genuine is key. The more genuine you are, the more women will be drawn to you.

So Will, if you found a video of your girl kissing and hugging another guy, how would you react?

What took me time to understand, you have to provide drama. Entertainment. If they don't get drama, they will look for it.

Because I look at it from my perspective, and I don't date men. However, I understand your point and it is correct, a woman may cheat because she was cheated on before. However, that is not the only reason, she may cheat because of revenge, love, sex, a sense of adventure, shopping around, boredom, the list is endless. It's not just "what comes around goes around". Sometimes it just "happens".

Lol, Geraldo should be writing for "Hola". His time is well past. Nobody listens to him.

Horrific as this story is, it illustrates how easy it has become for girls with dating apps, social media etc, to monetize their vaginas. There is one silver lining though, as it is all done via the phone, this is their achilles heel. Once you have suspicions always make sure you see the phone, by any means necessary. It will all be there. Girls even have a habit of showing off with their illicit affairs to their sisters and friends and send them videos. This is how I caught them both times. One even gave me her phone with sang froid as if she had nothing to hide, thinking I would not be thorough enough to find the video of her kissing another guy. Always insist to see the phone. If they refuse, they have something to hide and do not care about you. If they show it, by God, make sure you check it thoroughly. The last one who showed her phone had this affair and came back to me, and if i had not found the video in her phone, it would have gone on for a while yet.

Another horrific story. This one is really bad though, that woman is an out and out whore. There is a lot wrong with what she's doing, she is taking money from guys by lying to them and giving them hope that she'll be their girl. Of course you can bang her, but no man in his right mind would want a relationship with her. The problem is she'll lie to all of them she's had 2 boyfriends and will love them long time. They won't know what she's really like. How did you find out? Qute a feat.

Such a deep and philosophical question. It's both really, isn't it? You can rightly expect your current partner stays loyal to you. That's a fair expectation. If that is not met by her cheating, she is the one causing the pain, but yes, it is also our attachment to a common standard, fidelity, that plays a part. Yes, for girls in particualr relationships can be games, they want to see how much they can get, how far the wonderland goes. This is another reason why a man should hold back on his feelings until he is certain of the girl's commitment. However, it is hard to be certain, I had a girl move in with me, sleep with me, make me breakfast, make an effort to remind me of work deadlines, do dishes, play with my 7 year old daughter, give <deleted> out of herself, you would have thought this girl is all in after one year. But no, she cheated. Same here, the juice is worth the squeeze, the pleasure a woman can give, I don't just mean sex, is something no man wants to live without. And if it means going through the valley of pain, then off we go.

It's really a case by case scenario with thousands of possibilities, a woman can cheat for a long list of motives, some related to the man, others not at all. Whilst of course those women who want kids and a family try to settle down around age 31 to 32 at the latest, usually earlier, this also is not an ironclad rule. The statistics, in any event, say that older women cheat more than younger women. In terms of Korea and Europe, what surprises me is how clueless Thais and Filipinas are, Romanians, Ukrainians, Albanians, Russians, all these Balkan and East Europeans are top quality white males to them, but I've seen young girls in their twenties choosing black guys and all kinds. They're not exactly clued in what a top shelf male is. Of course the female's own sense of self esteem is a huge factor, if she was treated very poorly by her family she may well have low self esteem, despite being attractive, and even in her 20s will be loyal to one man. However, the same problem, low self esteem can also go the other way, that she over compensates and thinks she's too good for everyone, but jumps from low quality male to low quality male. It's hard to make iron clad rules in this area. Normally speaking if you do things right, within 6 weeks she should be in love with you, but there are girls who are not capable of love in the sense of open affection due to childhood issues. As a man you assume if she comes to be with you then she is attracted to you, if she has sex with you and enjoys it. I purposely avoid to give huge amounts of money now to avoid any notion of "sugar daddy". Of course geniuine attraction is the ideal, but we are men, we will bed any woman that offers the opportunity almost. If you notice that genuine attraction is not there, it is indeed better to break it off.

So what. Exactly. Whilst a partner that cheats, a separation is very painful, so what. Pain is a part of life, and we can use it to forge the understanding we have. It is just something all of us go through. So if this pain happens, it is not just a bad thing, it is also a good thing. You can train yourself to handle this pain.