Cameroni

You don't even know what "mongering" means. It's when you seek out professional sex workers. I specifically avoid them. I look only for girls that have a normal job and take care of themselves. Snoopy had a job, a mortgage, a condo. She is a quality girl by any standard. When she found out I had arrived 2 days earlier she made a clear decision to end it. The girl has a real moral compass. The more I think about it, the more I regret not telling her the truth. She was perhaps an excellent choice on a deeper level, for a long term relationship. When she was giving, she gave all. When she was done, she took all and never looked back. You have to respect that. It actually affects me a bit, to think this girl in whose eyes you could see how much she wanted a long term relationship with you, now has no interest in you at all. It's hard to take. If I was "mongering" this wouldn't affect me at all.

No, they are beautiful meetings of mind and body, you unfortunately appear not to have experienced in a long time. I have a lot in common with 24 year old from Isaan or Philippines. We both want and need love, sex, money, company, fun, emotional support. I most certainly was in a very long term relationship with Filipina, and also with one Isaan girl. You don't know whaty you're talking about.

You don't have the full information. I did not cheat on my partner.

What you clearly fail to understand is that it takes two to sustain a relationship. It's not up to the man alone. The woman has to do her part. Starting with loyalty,

Can be 15, 18, who knows I don't time it. I just listen to the moans of ecstasy and happiness .

No it doesn't. That's a fallacy. There are creepy ugly looking dudes bedding 9s in Thailand, without paying money. Some girls do not care for looks.

That's definitely not the case. I don't time it, but I make sure to please the lady, it's crucial, so that takes time, it's usually 10 minute or thereabouts I think. EACH time.

Interesting. I guess with 10 times on the first day that relationship never stood a chance.

No, my standards are quite high actually. I look for 3 areas: Hotness, Sexual Compatability and Personality. For a rel only a 9 would do. Honesty, easy going, funny, relaxed, helpful and must enjoy sex. Unfortunately women do not display their true personality until a year, or years down the line. That's what makes dating such a casino. Despite qualifying.

How can it be "cheating" if we've not even met yet? And we're not in a relationship yet? It's just normal dating.

That's fantastic, cause I never wanted to engage with you. Cheerio!

Well, this gives me hope. Thank you for sharing. All it takes is a girl like this, and the search is over. My current chaos is due to the girl I had cheating. You throw the dice, and you win some and lose some.

By the time I met Snoopy the Filipina had not confirmed and had not responded to texts anymore, so I understood the likelihood of her turning up in Bangkok like she said she would was close to none. Unfortunately, my carelessness of not checking a receipt for a deposit by the hotel, coupled with Snoopy's snoopiness, led to her not returning to the hotel for day 2, as we had agreed. I was quite taken aback by this, because even if one withheld the info of arriving 2 days earlier, she had no proof of me having another girl in the room. She simply took no chances. Despite offers of Michelin starred restaurant, shopping trip at Siam Paragaon, apologies on bended knees, nothing would sway her. She would not have got the job, maybe she could sense that.

Definitely not a cheater. I may have withheld one small detail from the second girl, that I arrived two days earlier. That was purely to spare her feelings. I did it for her, as Patrice O'Neal said. I'm a humanist really.

Apparently these OAP homes really are hotbeds for STDs. God knows what goes on there. It is quite sickening.

Whatever, you''re on about, social status, upbringing, money, it is all trumped by character.

Not honesty, pure nonsense.

Now it's "cheating" if you have sex BEFORE you meet her? Before you even have a relationship?

Family really is the ultimate nightmare. The family of the first girl ruined my first night. I like that girl, but I would forever be at war with her family. I understand they keep borrowing money from her as well. Friends and family, are the ultimate enemies of the boyfriend. Time and time again, this has proven to be the case.

No, no, no, I felt something was "off" about this girl. Her demand for the 10000 upfront was very unusual and direct. She was also very intense when she doubted if I wanted a long term rel. Despite being unbelievably good in bed, she had some skin issues and she was only a 7 in the grand scheme of things. So I did not consider her real long term rel material in the end. However, I respect her honesty and upfront attitude. Ultimately she snooped through my papers, which is a big "no-no" for me. So yah, she was not my preferred option. Though a wildcat in bed. I mean there is a reason why I saw her second, and not first. My qualifying was spot on.

No, she bought a condo. If she moved to another city that would mean losing her job. But she'd still have to make the repayment on the condo. So, 10000 would have been perfectly reasonable. A typical moderate allowance. After all she'd have given up her job to move where you are. I don't think that was gold digging or unreasonable.

It's true. Just did it two days ago.

Yah, I have absolutely no interest in "professional thai women", and if you think a woman having a high paying job means she is of higher quality than a 711 girl who makes her own living and bought herself her own condo at 24, I think you are quite mistaken. I have met plenty of professional Thai women, and they are the last ones I'd be interested in.

Oh I see what you mean. I think we have wildly divergent views on this. I don't think a girl agreeing to have sex on the first date means she is "low quality". It just means she is in tune with her sexuality. You could make an argument about sexual self control and loyalty, but you failed to do so.

' Lol, how am I "low quality"? Low quality in what?