Cameroni

I think that's correct. If a girl feels like you are her best, what she really wants, then she will not cheat. If a girl cheats it's basically her saying I want DNA from this other guy, not from you. It shows she does not rate you highly, but instead wants someone better. Unless she just enjoys the thrills of new relationships. If she's a new relationship junike she may well cheat even if she is into you, what do you think? How long were you with the 19 and 21 year olds? Why did it end?

Interesting point, so you mean to participate in her emotions. Everyone likes empathy I suppose. If you focus on this you could eliminate this one reason. The problem is there are many other reasons why she could choose to cheat. Some are wholly unconnected with you, like if she had poor parenting and saw her aprents break up, if she just does not value relationships or loyalty. None of these can be impacted by your behaviour.

That is a cardinal rule, that you never hit up a girl that's been on there 2 years, a year, 6 months. Ideally you want a girl that's just signed up. After 2 weeks, better you don't contact them.

I still can't get over that story. But the thing is this can happen whilst you live in the same country and in the same house. So yes, being so far away can be a factor, but ultimately a woman who cheats decides to cheat herself. Whether you are far away, psychologically not invested enough, or emotionally, well, girls just want to have fun happens in all distances.

Good point, let's make it a minimum 1 year relationship to weed out casual hook ups.

That's very interesting. So both at the higher end when they proved to be faithful. Could be that by age 30 a woman has gone through the stage of party experiments and learnt that these are not welcome or forgiven by a man in a relationship? Hence by age 30 they are more likely to be faithful? Or ist that nonsense?

How old was she when you first met her?

How old was she when you first met her?

Because precisely then men with sufficient life experience would have the stories to tell. Don't you think?

My God. What a story. You say, you have to be in Bangkok. It's a bit like SavetheFrogs above. If a man does this, if a man does that, the girl won't cheat. I think, if a woman cheats, it's not the fault of the man. The woman decided to cheat. It is her fault. Whether you are in Bangkok, or whether you invest emotionally, a woman can still choose to cheat.

What exactly do you mean by "invest emotionally"?

Surely that is correct, but I was really asking for real life stories that have happened to you. If you have had a rel with a Thai girl aged 18 to 32. Let's do an empirical exercise.

Some fascinating statistics: Women's cheating rates have increased by 40% in the last 30 years 45% of women reported having had an affair while married 75% of women say they would have an affair if they knew they wouldn't get caught. https://gitnux.org/women-cheating-statistics/

We have all seen the survey claiming Thai women are the second least faithful women in the world. I would be interested to hear from your personal experience, if you have or had a relationship with a Thai girl aged 18 to 32 that was attractive. Please do not write in to say how loyal your 52 year old ladyfriend with 2 kids is, she would be, wouldn't she? I am sure she's lovely, but this thread is for men who have dated Thai girls aged 18 to 32 long term. How loyal are they really? Shocking disappointment or surprising fidelity? What is your story?

Yes, now you're known as from the "Land of street defecators".

It's nice you were involved in an association to help guys. In terms of Thai women, however, I think we need to be careful too. I hear too many stories of men really taken advantage of in Thailand, disloyal Thai women who cheat and lie, I don't think we can assume Thai women are angels in this regard.

Thank you for your kind comments. Some people can look at reality and judge it on its merits. Others have to invent a wholly imaginary narrative since they want to view Ukraine as the innocent hero, but it is a lot more complicated than that. I still stand by what I said, in this conflict it was Russia that was lied to and Russia has a right to protect its territorial integrity, including by the means of war.

No women are inherently not happy. What is worse, they used to have moral authority but now they have become the most immoral people of all. All they are after is their advantage, like men. Just look at Kamala Harris, bending with the wind, whatever direction, to pretend she believes in tough immigration rules, gun ownership, fracking. All transparent lies. This breakdown of trust permeates society now, men cannot trust women anymore, and even if they can then only because they are ugly and have no other option and depend on the money of the man. A loyal, grateful, happy and attractive woman who cares for others but not herself, only for her children at most, you could basically look for gold. As a man, you have to assume they just want your lifestyle. It's so sad.

What's really interesting is that in Thailand too now the dating apps have women specifying an age range and reply rates are similar to the US.

Then there's that of course, the laws favour women massively.

This sounds like a joke, but data from dating sites shows that around 80% of women like only the top 20% of men in terms of attractiveness. So indeed sexual access is more and more concentrated in the hands of a few men. Tinder usage data was collected and statistically analyzed to determine the inequality in the Tinder economy. It was determined that the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men. The Gini coefficient for the Tinder economy based on “like” percentages was calculated to be 0.58. This means that the Tinder economy has more inequality than 95.1% of all the world’s national economies. In addition, it was determined that a man of average attractiveness would be “liked” by approximately 0.87% (1 in 115) of women on Tinder. https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

Yes, it is hard to understand why more men do not flood to Asia, though I suppose the cultural obstacles, language, education, economic class do present serious issues for many who want a long term relationship. The ideal clearly is to marry someone from your own culture, who speaks your language, shares your background and is better to communicate with. Clearly not at any price though, if she insists on things that are unreasonable Thailand, Russia, Brasil, there are many other options.

' They have become a little more demanding now, 200,000 USD a year, 6ft and minor celebrity status is what you see on Tik Tok as common demands. I suppose if you have great sense of humour it still helps to stand out and show you have some social status, though hard to make the transition from clown to sexual option. Even if that is accomplished the real stress would start in terms of waiting to see if there is loyalty, an absence of neuroticism, bipolar issues, etc.

Exactly right, and NATO is a military organisation that was expressly formed to fight with the Russians on top. Its whole reason for being is to defeat Russia.

No, I have had excellent experience with women, there was only one truly bad person, but she was excellent in bed. Only a few decades ago nobody would have doubted a woman's place in society. The only reason you say that is because our society is no longer a society. It's a woman's playground now.