scott1999

Thanks people. I am still in shock a bit. sorry I am not being very clear. But thought I would post the Time Line I gave to the court yesterday.

Time line of events

In December 2008 I separated from my wife, we had been living apart for some time. Phimpha was living in Thailand with my daughter Dnee, and I wanted to live near or with my daughter.

So I trained to be a teacher in February 09. Then in March my Daughter and I started at Somapa School. I took care of my daughter 90% of the time. As my wife would be out 7 days a week from 7am till 9 or 10 pm at night, saying she was working. Dnee would sleep two nights of the week with the mother, and rest with me in my condo.

On September the 3rd 2009 my wife went to live in England. She would ring Dnee once a week to check on her. I bought Dnee a phone so her mum could ring Dnee direct. The mother’s family I.E. Two half-sisters and the half-brother, Ann Mod and Pig would never come to see Dnee, only ring her.

Dnee's mother and I spoke on the phone about ( when she comes back to Thailand we need to divorce). When she did come back on the 27th of August 2010, she would not talk about divorce, and would fill Dnees head with ideas of Dnee living in England with her. I said “I would need to know where Dnee would live and how she could take care of Dnee”. As the mother was a night worker, before I would say if Dnee could go or not. Dnee was not sure either as she liked her life here in Thailand. Dnee liked her school and her friends. I gave Phimpha a letter asking for her details, of which I had none. She never filled it in.

Phimpha went back to England on the 1st of September2010. Dnee was sad but ok, the sisters started to ring more as I found out Mod was now not working, and on Sunday the 12th of September 2010. Mod came to the condo complex and asked Dnee to go and see her, I said “ok”. As I have never tried to stop Dnee seeing them. I went to work asking Dnee to come back at 7pm. At 8pm I went to look for her and found the condo locked up. I went to the police station to report Dnee was missing, and Mod and Dnees phones were turned off.

Mod was arrested for kidnapping 4th November 2010 released on 100,000 BT bail. Mod would not tell the police where my daughter was. I did not know where my Daughter was, if she was ok and who was taking care of her. As I knew the mother was out of the country.

The next thing that happened of importance was the mother coming back from England on the 28^th February 2011 for the first of 7 court appearances the first was the 6th march 2011 Dnee came running into the court screaming that she is frightened of me, and that she wants to go and live in England with the mother. The judge asked Dnee “why are you so frightened of your father how many times has he hit you”? Dnee said "once." . I would endure many more court appearances where Dnee would throw here hands up in fear at the very sight of me. Then within 30 minutes or so, she would be a sleep in my arms. Very abnormal behavior for a child.

July 6th 2011 hearing at court.

At each and every court hearing the mother would agree with the court, that the mother and the father should be friends. Plus she would say she does not deny access to the father. But as always after each hearing I was denied access straight away, as I have always been denied.

Mother left for England 1st of August 2011, four days after the court hearing on the 6th I lost contact with Dnee.

Till I found Dnee's school in Rama 2. I would go to see her every Wednesday at lunch time the journey would take 4 hours, which I would see Dnee for 20 minutes. But it was well worth it. We would have fun and I have video of Dnee saying she wants to go on holiday with us. Plus wanted a party with all her old friends from Somapa School. Plus that she cannot be friends with me till after the 19th of October 2011 court hearing had past. Because that’s what the mother has told her to do.

On the 19th of October 2011, court hearing, the mother was a no show. The mother only arrived in Thailand on the 19th with her boyfriend. Mr. David Tighe. They stayed in Bangkok till the 4th November 2011 then went to Pattaya. Not sure if Dnee went or where Dnee was? I believe Dnee was up country with who I do not know.

From the 12th November 2011. I made contact with Dnee on face book. But after the boyfriend went back to England on 19th November 2011. Dnee was not been allowed to have any contact with me. Please see Dnees and my face book messages together. I have now found out that Dnees home address is the father of mod and pig. As stated by Dnees address from her school. It is of great concern that Dnee is living with this man. Plus even when the mother is in Thailand she is not taking care of Dnee.

After the Juvenile Court agreement dated 24th Jan 2012 I went with my lawyer to the land office at Lam Luk Ka on the 1st of February 2012. To transfer condo 88/117 to my daughter name. The mother said she would not come. Soon after the mother did not come to Dnee's new school, by appointment. In so doing breaking the court agreement, dated the 24th January 2012.

Around the same time, the 12th of February 2012 I had a phone call from Dnee , she was screaming at me, she said “mummy has to go back to England because mummy has to find the money to pay for my schooling”. I said, “I do not understand Dnee? As mummy can sell her condo now, so she can stay here in Thailand and take care of you”.

Soon after, I and my lawyer went to the land office and found out Phimpha had sold the condo 88/194 on the 10th of February 2012. I had also found out she was trying to sell Dnee's condo to the man she was renting it to, for 850,000 if he moved quickly.

I had a phone call on the 19th of Feb 2012, from the Phimpha she was very drunk and screaming at me and laughing at the same time. Saying she was off to England tomorrow and that she had won, she said” she only went to the court on the 24th so she could sell condo 88/194”. She said “all men are stupid” and that she had beat them all. She said “she will never let me be with Dnee again”. Then she put the phone down laughing.

The mother then went back to England on the 20th of February 2012 .

I went to see Dnee in March 2012, and she was happy and said she can go to England when she is 19, I said “yes”. We had a cuddle and I went back to work.

The next week I went to Dnee's school she was crying I said what's the matter; she said “mummy said I can go to England only if I do not speak to you”. Dnee also said “mummy said that I have to call papa father, from now on” that’s Mods father. I was shocked and worried for my daughter health as she was very much unset, so I left the school.

I went to Dnee School on the 10th of April 2012 in the school holidays for the sign out papers as promised to me by the principal. Only to find Mod was waiting we had a meeting with the principle and after Mod crying and shouting that Dnee is frightened of me. The principle refused to hand over the papers, so I left.

In May 2012 made missing persons report at Lam lu ka police station. Also the police wrote a letter to Ann to ask her to contact the police so she could tell us where my Daughter was. As of the date of this letter she has not contacted the police or me. Since the Kidnapping of my daughter 12th September 2010 Ann has not spoken to me once. Apart from telling the Judge on the 24th of Jan 2012, that if the mother was out of the country, then it was up to Dnee who she stayed with. The judge explained to her that, “no if the mother is out of the country then it's up to the father” Ann has disregarded that information, and still denying me access to my daughter.

Went to the Appeals Court on the 25th of July 2012 for the verdict of the mothers appeal. The mother did not come and was still in England. Ann did not come as summonsed and Dnee did not come as summonsed. The appeal was thrown out, the verdict also said they cannot appeal to the Supreme Court unless, please read the end of the Courts verdict. Mod and the mother’s lawyer were in court. The judge got very angry when she asked Mod and the lawyer where the mother and Ann were. They said they did not know. The judge told me not to wait any longer and use paragraph 61 of Thai law to get Dnee into her new boarding school. I said I will contact Dnee's principle at Rama 2 as she has promised Dnee can stay for only one more term at her school. When I went there on the 10th April 2012 for the sign out papers, as to help me with a smooth change of schools for Dnee.

On the 22nd of February 2013 I Paul Scott and Bebe my Girlfriend, went to see my Daughter Dnee Scott at her school. While talking with my Daughter Bebe and the Head Mistress. Dnee said she wanted to come with me and Bebe for the weekend, and not to tell Ann or Mod as they would stop her. Dnee said to us, “just come and take me, don’t tell Ann or Mod because they will be angry to me”. So we just left the school with Dnee. Mod and Ann went to the school, and somehow got the Head Mistress to ask us by phone to turn round and go back to the school so Mod could talk to Dnee. The Principal also asked me to speak to Mods mother so that the mother could try and calm Mod down as she said she did not want to fight with anyone. I said “I do not have the mother’s phone number in England”. But I said we were on the toll way now, and I was not turning round. Anyway Dnee had a great time in Pattaya, and told the Head Mistress when we got back to school on the Tuesday 26th February. That she wanted to go back to Pattaya in the school holidays, and in no way did she want to go to Sukhothai, the same place Dnee went last year when Mod and Ann were hiding Dnee from me. For which I have a police missing persons report that Ann never replied to. The Head Mistress recorded Dnee talking and so did I.

I could not speak to Dnee anymore till today the 6^th March 2013 when I came to get Dnee to go on holiday. I found Mod and Ann at the school coaching Dnee to say she did not want to come with me. Because Dnee said to the Principal, that she wants to stay with the half-sisters as her mother is coming back to Thailand tomorrow the 7th of march 2013,( of course this was a lie,) and that Dnee wants to do some Thai dancing at the school tomorrow. For a show on Saturday. The Principal also said that in the talk she had with Dnee. That Dnee said the half-sisters had said that I Paul Scott had paid the Principal money to talk nice about me. (Of course this is a complete lie.)

To my shock and sadness while having the meeting about my Daughter, the Principal told me that Dnee was taken out of the school by the half-sisters. The principal said she will help me any way she can. So she said she would tell me anything about the school papers being asked for, in the near future. So if they try to move Dnee again to a different school the Principal will let me know straight away.

I did not know where my daughter was, nor could I contact her in the summer holidays. Dnee’s school opened on the 16^th of May 2013 and I found out she was attending the new term.

Dnee school principal became less willing to help me in anyway and sent me Emails to me that stated that Dnee lives with her two half-sisters and that I can only come and visit here at her lunch time, for 15 minutes or so. She did tell me over the phone that she was frightened of the mother’s family and if I wanted. I should just come and take Dnee from her school, and not come back.

Around August I had word that the appeal from the mother to the Supreme Court of Thailand had finished. The reading of the verdict was on the 24^th October 2013. The appeal was dismissed.

On 30^th of October I went with my lawyer to see the principal of Dnee’s school and to the police in Rama 2. Both were unwilling to help, without further letters from the court.

In November: I spoke to my daughter for only 3 minutes on the phone, as the school would follow the mother’s wishes and do things to obstruct any contact with my daughter.

In December: No contact with my daughter. This is the third Christmas I have been denied any access to my daughter. I fear this will be the case from now on.

January: No contact.

February: No contact.

Conclusion

Mother has been in Thailand for only 10 months, since September 2009,

The mother’s family has broken the law every day since 12^th September 2010.

My daughter has been abused and lied to, on a daily basis since the day of the kidnapping. But she still loves us; I think this fact is a modern day miracle.

Lies told to.

Lies told to Dnee

1 Mother needs to go to England to pay for Dnee’s schooling.

2 Telling Dnee she must show fear of her father that way Dnee can go to England with the mother.

3 Mother told Dnee that she went to court on the 19^th October 2011.

4. That I paid money to the principal to talk nice about me.

Lies told to the court

1 Dnee is frightened of the father.

2 They do not deny access to the father.

Lies told to the police

Mod acted with no malice or gain when she kidnapped Dnee 12^th September 2010

Malice still denying me access. Gain 1400,000 condo

Lies told to the principal

1 That they do not deny access to the father.

2 Father beat Dnee many times.

Lies told to my old principal Narisa Somapa

I beat my Daughter

I have been in prison in England for hurting my ex-wife.

Laws broken.

Ann has been told by a high court judge that if the mother is not in the country it is up to the father where Dnee lives and which school Dnee goes to, she has disregarded a high court judge,

Ann sold condo /88/190 which was a marriage asset without repaying money to me.

Mod

Kidnapping of Dnee,

1400,000 condo in her name

Child abuse

Benefits for each person

The mother revenge and condo 88/190 value 1400,000

Mod does not have to work for her money and benefited by having condo 88/117 put in her name, 1400,000 should be in Dnee name re agreement 24^th Jan 2012

Ann benefits by living above her means, iPhones’ I pads sale of condo 88/184 value 1400,000

Dnee not as good an education as she could have. No mother, no father.

Appendix

2 court orders

4 condo deed paper work

Good luck tomorrow Paul.

Have had everything crossed for you and your daughter, for the last 3 + years.

Will you actually know the results of the decision tomorrow or will that be at a later date?

Hi Kevjohn thanks for thinking of me and my daughter. I do hope I will find out tomorrow. I find it hard to believe that the judge can do anything but give me the 100% custody.

As I have recently discovered where the mother is working in England and it is not good is all I can say at this moment. (oldest swinger in town) springs to mind with the (work) she is doing.

Plus I do think she will be a no show, But will have to wait and see. The court officers have said there has been no contact from the mother. But have to wait and see.

As for my feeling I am 50-50 on any help from the court tomorrow. I am just happy the day is here now. BIG THANK YOU to all the people that have followed this matter.

Good luck tomorrow Paul, if that date is still on. I hope this long saga can finally reap some rewards.

You would think that surely by now they will see it your way.

Holding thumbs!

Thank you rhodie, I am feeling calm that I have done all I can for tomorrow. Thanks for thinking of me. I will post as soon as I can tomorrow.

Short update

Yesterday the 20th of Feb I went to the Juvenile Court to had in my L.O.I. I have had great help from the good people here on Thaivisa doing a little rewrite of my original letter. But had a small hiccup when told by the court officers that the judge cannot read English. So I had to translate into Thai. So my letter lost some of my or our words, but the assents of the letter is still there I hope?

25 กุมภาพันธ์ 2014

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เนื่องด้วยข้าพเจ้า Mr. Paul Scott ได้อยู่กินฉันสามีภรรยากับนางพิมพา สก๊อตต์ และมีบุตรสาวด้วยกันหนึ่งคน คือ เด็กหญิงดีนี่ สก๊อตต์ แต่ภายหลังได้มีปัญหาหลายประการที่ต้องหย่าร้างกัน และได้ยื่นฟ้องต่อศาลเพื่อขออำนาจในการดูแลบุตร และได้ตกลงยินยอมทำสัญญาประนีประนอมยอมความ ลงวันที่ 24 มกราคม 2012 ตามที่ศาลได้ให้ความยุติธรรมทั้งสองฝ่ายแล้วนั้น หลังจากวันนั้นมารดาของดีนี่ได้เดินทางกลับไปอยู่ประเทศอังกฤษ ตั้งแต่วันที่ 20 กุมภาพันธ์ 2012 โดยคำพูดสารถาพของเธอเองว่า (โปรดดู ข้อความจาก Facebook ที่แนบมาพร้อมนี้) เธอไม่ได้อยู่ดูแล เด็กหญิงดีนี่ตั้งแต่นั้นมา เริ่มตั้งแต่ยื่นอุทธรณ์ต่อศาล ทั้งสองศาล คือศาลอุทธรณ์และศาลฎีกา ขณะที่ยื่นอุทธรณ์ต่อศาลเธอได้มอบหมายให้ทนายเป็นผู้ดำเนินการแทนทุกขั้นตอน ซึ่งขณะนั้นเธอก็ยังอาศัยอยู่ในประเทศอังกฤษ และทนายของข้าพเจ้าแนะนำให้รอฟังคำพิพากษาจากศาลอุทธรณ์ให้เรียบร้อยก่อนที่ จะทำหน้าที่ของบิดาเพื่อทำในสิ่งที่ดีและถูกต้องที่สุดให้กับลูกสาวของข้าพเจ้า เรื่องการศึกษาของบุตรสาว เพื่อทำตามสัญญาประนีประนอมยอมความที่ได้ทำไว้กับมารดาของเธอ และข้าพเจ้าได้เดินทางไปพบและดูแลความเป็นอยู่ของบุตรสาวของข้าพเจ้า ให้ได้มากที่สุดเท่าที่จะทำได้ ที่โรงเรียนของเธอ (โปรดดูรูปถ่าย) และในวันที่ 26 กุมภาพันธ์ 2012 บุตรสาวของข้าพเจ้าได้บอกกับข้าพเจ้าว่า อยากไปเที่ยวในวันหยุดกับข้าพเจ้า ดังนั้นข้าพเจ้าจึงได้ขออนุญาตครูใหญ่ที่โรงเรียนของบุตรสาว เพื่อพาเธอไปเที่ยวทะเลด้วยกันและเธอไม่ให้ทางโรงเรียนบอกพี่สาวต่างบิดาทั้งสองคนของเธอ เพราะเกรงว่าพวกเขาจะไม่ยอม ให้เธอไปกับข้าพเจ้า พวกเราได้ออกจากโรงเรียนและข้าพเจ้าให้สัญญากับครูใหญ่ว่าจะพาดีนี่กลับมาส่งที่โรงเรียน เพื่อได้เธอสอบปลายภาคเรียนอย่างถูกต้อง หลังจากนั้นเมื่อพี่สาวต่างบิดาของเธอทั้งสองคนทราบพวกเขาโกรธมาก และได้ต่อว่าทางโรงเรียนรวมทั้งครูใหญ่ และโกรธข้าพเจ้ามากที่ทางโรงเรียนปล่อยให้บุตรสาวเดินทางไปเที่ยวกับข้าพเจ้า พวกเขาโทรตามดีนี่และแสดงอาการโกรธเธอมากที่ไปกับข้าพเจ้าโดยที่ไม่ขออนุญาตพวกเขาก่อน ในระหว่างที่ข้าพเจ้ากับบุตรสาวอยู่ที่ทะเล ดีนี่ดูไม่ได้กังกลอะไรและก็มีความสุขดี และข้าพเจ้าได้พาบุตรสาวกลับมาส่งที่โรงเรียนตามที่ได้สัญญาไว้ และดีนี่ได้บอกกับครูใหญ่ว่า “ จะไปอยู่กับพ่อช่วงวันหยุดปิดเทอม ” โดยเริ่มตั้งแต่วันที่ 6 มีนาคม 2013 และในวันนั้นข้าพเจ้าได้กลับไปหาบุตรสาวที่โรงเรียนเพื่อไปรับเธอไปเที่ยวกับข้าพเจ้าในวันหยุดปิดภาคเรียน แต่พี่สาวต่างบิดาของเธอทั้งสองคนได้พาเธอออกไปจากโรงเรียนโดยที่ไม่ได้รับความยินยอมจากข้าพเจ้า (โปรดดูจดหมายจากครูใหญ่ ) หลังจากนั้นข้าพเจ้าก็ไม่ทราบว่าบุตรสาวของข้าพเจ้าอยู่ที่ไหน จนกระทั่งวันที่ 16 พฤษภาคม 2013 โรงเรียนเปิดภาคเรียน ตั้งแต่นั้นมาข้าพเจ้าได้เดินทางไปเยี่ยมบุตรสาวที่โรงเรียนแต่ทางโรงเรียนได้กีดกัน และจำกัดเวลาในการพบบุตรสาว โดยคำสั่งของมารดาและพี่สาวต่างบิดาของเธอ

ตั้งแต่วันที่ 12 กันยายน 2010 พวกเขาพาบุตรสาวไปจากข้าพเจ้าโดยไม่ได้รับความยิมยอมจากข้าพเจ้า และข้าพเจ้า ต้องทนทุกข์อยู่กับชีวิตเหมือนคนที่ตายทั้งเป็น และทุก ๆ วันข้าพเจ้าต้องศึกษาเกี่ยวกับประสบการณ์การสูญเสียลูกจากบุคคลทั่วไปที่เคยสูญเสียมาแล้วและนี่คือเหตุผลที่ข้าพเจ้าให้คำมั่นสัญญาว่าจะไม่มีทางกีดกันความสัมพันธ์ระหว่างแม่กับลูก หรือทางญาติ ๆ ของบุตรสาวเพราะข้าพเจ้ารู้สึกถึงความเจ็บปวดถ้าต้องถูกกระทำแบบนั้น และไม่เป็นผลดีทั้งกับตัวเด็กเอง ข้าพเจ้ามีความประสงค์ที่จะให้ศาลหรือเจ้าหน้าที่จากศาลได้รับทราบข้อมูลทั้งหมดของบุตรสาวของข้าพเจ้า

ดังนั้น ข้าพเจ้าจึงมีความประสงค์ที่จะขออำนาจในการดูแลบุตรสาวแต่เพียงผู้เดียวจากศาล เพื่อความเป็นอยู่ด้วยความความปลอดภัยขณะที่มารดาของเธอไม่ได้อยู่ดูแลในประเทศไทย รวมทั้งเพื่อบุตรสาวของข้าพเจ้าจะได้รับการศึกษาที่ดี และสามารถใช้ชีวิตแบบปกติสุขเหมือนเด็กทั่วไปกับบิดาและมารดา ข้าพเจ้ามีความประสงค์ที่จะขอคำแนะนำจากผู้พิพากษาเพื่อไม่ให้มีเหตุการณ์ที่จะทำให้การศึกษาของบุตรสาวต้องหยุดชะงัก เพราะสาเหตุความขัดแย้งดังกล่าวข้างต้นเกิดขึ้นอีก ข้าพเจ้าได้เดินทางไป ที่กระทรวงศึกษาธิการเพื่อขอคำแนะนำต่างๆ เกี่ยวกับการดำเนินการทางการศึกษาของบุตรสาว แต่เนื่องจากข้าพเจ้ายังไม่มีอำนาจการดูแลบุตรสาวอย่างถูกต้องทางกระทรวงศึกษาธิการจึงไม่สามารถกระทำการใด ๆ ตามสัญญาประนีประนอมยอมความดังกล่าว ตามที่ข้าพเจ้าร้องขอ และไม่สามารถให้ความช่วยเหลือใด ๆ จนกว่าข้าพเจ้าจะได้รับอำนาจในการดูแลบุตรสาวแต่พียงผู้เดียว และทางโรงเรียน ณ ปัจจุบัน ของบุตรสาวจะไม่ยอมเซ็นเอกสารในการส่งตัวเพื่อย้ายเข้าไปอยู่ในโรงเรียนใหม่ที่ข้าพเจ้าได้จัดหาให้แล้วนั้น ซึ่งตามคำสั่งศาล (โปรดดู อีเมลจากโรงเรียน) อำนาจในการดูแลบุตรสาวตามที่ข้าพเจ้าร้องขอเพียงผู้เดียวนั้น จะทำให้ทุกอย่างสะดวกมากยิ่งขึ้น และจะไม่ทำให้เกิดเหตุการณ์เหมือนที่เคยเกิดขึ้นอีกหลังจากที่บุตรสาวของข้าพเจ้าย้ายเข้าไปอยู่ในโรงเรียนใหม่ ของเธอ ซึ่งอำนาจในการดูแลบุตรจากศาลจะทำให้พี่สาวต่างบิดาทั้งสองคนของเธอไม่สามารถพาเธอหนีออกไปจากโรงเรียนใหม่ได้อีกถ้าไม่ได้รับความยินยอมจากข้าพเจ้า และจะไม่ทำให้เกิดผลกระทบต่อการศึกษาของบุตรสาวอีก ข้าพเจ้าต้องการทำทุกอย่างให้ถูกต้องตามกฎหมายเพื่อจะไม่ให้มีสิ่งใดทำลายอนาคตทางการศึกษาของบุตรสาวได้อีก

ดังนั้น ข้าพเจ้าจึงใคร่ขอความกรุณาจากศาลที่เคารพ เพื่อช่วยให้มีศักยภาพความเป็นบิดาและการดูแลเต็มความสามารถ และความเป็นอยู่ของบุตรสาวของข้าพเจ้า เพื่อให้เธอได้มีโอกาสที่ดีทางการศึกษาและเธอยังสามารถพูดได้หลายภาษาจากโรงเรียนใหม่ของเธอ และจะมีความสุขกับโรงเรียนใหม่ของเธอ ซึ่งโรงเรียนที่ข้าพเจ้าได้จัดเตรียมไว้ให้บุตรสาวนั้น มีการเปิดสอนภาษาต่าง ๆ หลายภาษา อาทิเช่น ภาษาอังกฤษ ภาษาจีน ฯ ซึ่งจะเป็นผลดีต่ออนาคตของตัวเด็กเอง และดีนี่ต้องแสดงให้ทุกคนได้เห็นว่าเธอรัก ทุกคนในครอบครัว แต่ไม่ใช่ต้องทำตามที่มารดาหรือพี่สาวต่างบิดาของเธอบอกให้ทำ ซึ่งมีตัวอย่างบางประการให้เห็น ก่อนหน้านี้เธอเดินทางมาที่ศาลกับมารดาและพี่สาวต่างบิดาของเธอ โดยการแสดงอาการหวาดกลัวต่อหน้าข้าพเจ้าแต่หลังจากนั้นในช่วงระยะเวลาสั้น ๆ เธอกลับนอนหลับอยู่ในอ้อมแขนของข้าพเจ้าต่อหน้าผู้พิพากษา นั่นแสดงให้เห็นว่าเธอไม่ได้หวาดกลัวและยังคงมีความผูกพันธ์ระหว่างพ่อกับลูก แต่เมื่อเธอถูกสอนให้เกลียด หรือให้พูดไม่ดีกับข้าพเจ้าโดยมารดาและพี่สาว หรือคนใดคนหนึ่งที่อยู่กับฝ่ายมารดาของเธอ โดยธรรมชาติของเด็กแล้วจะไม่สามารถแยกแยะได้สิ่งไหนควรหรือสิ่งไหนไม่ควรกระทำ ถ้าเธอได้อยู่ในที่ที่ปลอดภัยจากสิ่งบีบบังคับ ยั่วยุเหล่านั้นแล้ว และสามารถแสดงความคิดของตัวเอง ซึ่งทั้งหมดที่กล่าวมาข้างต้นทำให้บุตรสาวของข้าพเจ้าสับสนและในความสับสนนี้ต้องจบสิ้นเสียที แต่ทุกอย่างจะไม่สามารถดำเนินการได้ถ้าสัญญาประนีประนอมยอมความระหว่างข้าพเจ้ากับมารดาของเธอยังไม่มีผลบังคับใช้ และมารดาของเธอยังแสดงให้เห็นว่าเธอจะไม่ยอมทำตามสัญญาประนีประนอมยอมความตามที่ได้ตกตงกันในศาลนั้น

เพื่อความยุติธรรมกับบุตรสาวและตัวของข้าพเจ้าจะได้เป็นอิสระ และยังสามารถแสดงออกถึงความรักและความผูกพันธ์ ที่มีต่อบิดาและมารดาของเธอ โดยไม่ต้องมีใครคอยบังคับจิตใจเธอ จึงใคร่ขอความเป็นธรรมต่อศาลเรื่องขออำนาจในการดูแลบุตรสาวแต่เพียงผู้เดียวตามที่กล่าวมาข้างต้น ข้าพเจ้าขอให้คำมั่นสัญญาว่าจะทำตามทุกประการ

ขอแสดงความนับถืออย่างสูง

(MR. PAUL SCOTT)

Thanks again for every ones help in my matters, Let's see how the judge reacts to this on Tuesday?

Thanks Krisb for making me laugh out loud. Have a great day Sir.

My daughter at 12

If you and your ex have 50% parental responsibility how is her family able to stop you seeing your child when the mother isn't there? surely that is criminal in itself? These half sisters have no parental power. Usually the court will give visitation to the mother if the mother turns up and requests visitation. You should be able to get main custody as you have been seeking this and she abandoned the child. What do you mean 100% sole custody? I know sole custody can include visitation to the other parent but what is the 100%? does that mean the mother wouldn't have visitation?

Hi cjchoas

(If you and your ex have 50% parental responsibility how is her family able to stop you seeing your child when the mother isn't there? surely that is criminal in itself?)

Very good question. It is because firstly: I could not find my daughter. Secondly: when I did find my daughter, court proceedings had commenced and I could not prove the mother was out of the country.

Thirdly: After the compromise contract made in court with me and the mother on the 24th of Jan 2012. The mother appealed her own agreement to the Appeals court then the Supreme court. Which in affect made my daughter king maker till the appeals had finished.

(What do you mean 100% sole custody?)

In the agreement of the 24th of Jan 2012 it states that any party who does not follow the agreement will forfeit 100% physical custody to the other party.

main points of the agreement.

1: My daughter goes to a school of my choice as I have 100% education over my daughter.

2: My daughter to receive said condo from the assets of the marriage.

3: A mentioned car to be signed over to myself so that it can be sold as marriage asset.

4: Mother is free to sell one condo from marriage assets.

"​What has the mother complied with from the compromise contract? O of course only number 4."

What I mean by 100% physical custody is the mother will still have 50% parental powers but I have 100% educational powers. Which means only I can sign her in or out of any school. Plus with 100% physical custody it is up to me and only me where my daughter lives and sleeps.

(does that mean the mother wouldn't have visitation?)

In the compromise contract it is up to my daughter who she spends the school holidays with. As it has never been my thinking to stop the mother seeing my daughter. "For me to make sure my daughter has a good to great education opportunities here in Thailand and later overseas. Plus have a safe living environment and be free to see all her family with out being pressured into anything from anyone, even me. Is what I want for my daughter."

As my L.O.I. States and by the way I am getting the best help from the best brains from Thaivisa in getting best prepared for the 25th of Feb when of course I will be making the best case I can for my daughter to be able to have a mother and a father in her life with out the heinous parental alienation which she and I have had to endure over the last three years.

Thanks again for your questions cjchoas, This (horror) story sound strange even to me. But these are the facts.

Thanks Mario some nicely simplified points you have made I will not rewrite but just take out my sentences and add yours. As yours say the same as mine but with less words, and your words are clearer. Mario you know the goal. Say as much as possible as clearly as possible, with as least words as possible. That you Sir for help in my matters.

Update the mother as I was writing this post the mother has sent me via Facebook proof that she is out of the country.

mother

I will tell you how good I do not know you're hurting children. Sent from Leicester, England, United Kingdom.

me

oops your mobile has just told me where you are. You should check the settings if you want to keep secret where you are. So you will not be in court on the 25th?

Tips for dealing with an Alienating Parent!

Things That DO NOT WORK!

WAITING - That means waiting for things to get better, waiting for the alienating parent to get over his or her upset or to become more reasonable, or waiting for the children to come around on their own.

NEGOTIATING - Alienating parents are not interested in negotiating because they will not consider anything that deviates from their own agenda.

MEDIATION - The process of mediation can only work if the parties involved enter into the process in good faith and with the purpose of finding a mutually agreeable solution based on compromise. The alienating parent is not interested in compromise anymore than he or she is interested in negotiations.

ATTEMPTS TO REASON WITH THE ALIENATING PARENT - Many targeted parents invest tremendous energy and time in attempts to convince the alienating parent that what they are doing is harmful and unfair to the children and themselves. This is a complete waste and in most cases, it actually makes things worse because it provides more opportunities to create conflict.

ATTEMPTS TO APPEASE THE ALIENATING PARENT - This can never happen since the alienating parent is driven by a desire to destroy the targeted parent.

Hi Mr. P.

Take your own advice, the AP words are meaningless and are only designed to slow you down. Good luck with your kids and try and have some fun with them.

Good luck man I think the year of the Horse could be your year!

Thank you eezergood, "I do hope so" and happy new year to you too! It's 41 days till the hearing at Juvenile court, But I'm not counting! Ha ha ha. Thanks again for your support.

Super article Mr. P. You are learning very quickly about this subject.

I hope you are well and rested for your up and coming duties, relating to your children?

I am sure your children will have a better future because of your support and understanding of this situation.

It may not seem a total win, but the way I read it your daughter will at worst have to be enrolled at your school of choice.

Is that right?

Things move so slowly it is unbearable. I hope things improve on the 24th to 27th.

Good luck.

Thanks rhodie

for your support in this matter. Holidays are always hard. But this holiday is very different from many before, because I can go to the court and the Ministry of Education, and the police to fight my corner. So of course I would love to see my daughter, but I must try to make sure she is not put in the middle to choice for herself. Because from my experience, the child will mostly do what the alienating parent wants them to do. Because the alienating parents love is not unconditional and of course the child is in fear of losing that love.

Anyway I am off to the court this week and will update.

Thanks rhodie

for your support in this matter. Holidays are always hard. But this holiday is very different from many before, because I can go to the Juvenile Court, Ministry of Education, and the police headquarters to fight my corner. So of course I would love to see my daughter, but I must try to make sure she is not put in the middle to choose for herself. Because from my experience, the child will mostly do what the alienating parent wants them to do. Because the alienating parents love is not unconditional and of course the child is in fear of losing that love.

Anyway I am off to the court this week and will update.

I must proof read my posts before pressing the ADD REPLY button, sorry for my spelling and grammar mistakes.

It may not seem a total win, but the way I read it your daughter will at worst have to be enrolled at your school of choice.

Is that right?

Things move so slowly it is unbearable. I hope things improve on the 24th to 27th.

Good luck.

Thanks rhodie

for your support in this matter. Holidays are always hard. But this holiday is very different from many before, because I can go to the court and the Ministry of Education, and the police to fight my corner. So of course I would love to see my daughter, but I must try to make sure she is not put in the middle to choice for herself. Because from my experience, the child will mostly do what the alienating parent wants them to do. Because the alienating parents love is not unconditional and of course the child is in fear of losing that love.

Anyway I am off to the court this week and will update.

Sorry, I can't ever see you winning this one.

But you get 'A' for effort.

I wished you would have a merrier Christmas. There seems no end to it, but never give up. It is simply not an option and in the end the mother and her family will have to comply. And who knows, the court might decide that there might be a Santa Claus after all.

Am just flabbergasted Paul.

Its all surreal to read ur quest for the right thing for ur daughter and urself.

Good luck !

Thanks Mario and Mr. P.

I do understand how the court is behaving. They never want to give soul custody to either parent. That is why they have the term 100% physical custody, because the latter term does not take away parent power from either parent.

Michael and I have come so far now quitting is not an option. So Christmas is gone again, so what, I'm used to it.

I am doing what I have to do, Never give up never surrender. Ha ha that quote from one of my favorite movies galaxy quest. And I won't !

Let the court give the mother's side more chances, I hope it works. But the court cannot say that I will not get 100% physical custody, only to say not yet, OK ! Understand.

As I get older I can look back on myself, with a more true full understanding of who I am and was. Something was very wrong with me to be attracted, to a certain type of person.

I was over confident about myself. how I have been taught a lesson. Ha ha,

Anyway this is so my daughter can have a mother and a father. Plus the best start in life for my daughter in this ever more challenging world.

I will get there I promise, One day closer.

Thanks to every one for your support or your comments. I do hope this horror of a thread will help people in the future.

I will meet with my lawyer tomorrow, so I will update next week.

Sorry, I can't ever see you winning this one.

But you get 'A' for effort.

Thanks for you comment, I will hold off on the verdict for just a little longer.