Prubangboy

Do you have them? Do you want them? Does she want them?

Relationship expert, Cameron Diaz, says they're a must:

https://edition.cnn.com/2023/12/20/health/sleep-divorce-separate-bedrooms-wellness/index.html

Me: No. I miss her when I sleep alone.  She turns the a/c down to 18, so sometimes I can see my breath in the bedroom.

8 minutes ago, smallchungus said:

 just moving way further out from cities in the US.

I moved here from Appalachia. No GF pay day there for you, partic with your fat phobia. Hope you love Jesus.

The problem may not be geography. It may just be down to You-ology.

43 minutes ago, smallchungus said:

Chiang Mai when the air is good would be my dream location, but having to move out every year during smoke season is just too much of a hassle to deal with every year.

I live in CM, and I do have to vacate my apartment for 2 months a year and either go traveling or chill out in Hua Hin. But I love Chiang Mai at the level where it's worth it.

I'd rather be super-happy for 10 months a year here than so-so happy elsewhere for 12 months a year. If you're not a beach lover, CM is really the only expat game in town.

And full of mixed race Thai's, who sort of run the town, who will be a better fit for you. Plus a sizable Christian community because you like 'em trad. A whitie Christian can date a Christian 10 here. 

This isn't another life-plan where THEY have to be super trad and you're more like trad-lite, is it?  Because those logic-defying schemes comically blow up 100% of the time.

5 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

 

My first paper "crush" was a woman in a bath in a shampoo ad in a magazine. Nothing visible below the shoulders.

 

So I'm guessing that was a blowey fantasy from a disembodied head?

19 hours ago, ChaiyaTH said:

'One can almost be 98% certain that a question like this comes from an American at all times lol.

There is a trope here that Americans ONLY want to talk about money and how much they have.

And that they will not shut up about how cheap healthcare is here (OK, that part is true).

Excuse me, I have to go and prevent a German from hogging a sun bed.

23 minutes ago, Andre0720 said:

 

'How much money from your pocket have you contributed to help Immigrants, or refugees?.

I tossed a $20 bill into a can at Refugee World Music Day in Baltimore. Honduran women did a saucy little dance where they pretend to court by extending a pineapple to the audience. "They come every year", said the organizer, "and they come with their own pineapples".

Refugee programs are pretty miniscule and usually church-based, so not much strain on taxpayers. They get two months in a motel in Baltimore. Usually, they are in some kind of employment within two days of arriving.

Donald Trump urged people to stick a light bulb up back there.

So your hot GF was a million times more rational than the leader of the free world.

57 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

 

A hospital cleaner shouldn't be posting?

 

Don't you act in a supervisory position over Philipino cleaners who you disdain to their faces as too accomodating to the hospital?

Please don't hide your considerable light under a bushel.

Just to add some value, my friend is a refugee co-ordinator in Baltimore. Refugees have really helped bring that dire pit of a city back a bit. 

Refugees and Immigrants are very different issues. But dull facts shouldn't get in the way of entertaining stupidity.

33 minutes ago, smallchungus said:

You are very upset.  I present the novel you just replied as evidence.  🤣

A novel? Like 100 words? Def rode the short school bus syndrome. Maybe have a lie down after reading that.

2 parts to your crazy equation: you and them.

On the them-side, I see no evidence of you learning about them. They're just trad girl cutouts.

On the you-side, I see no evidence of you pondering how you might change to have an intercultural relationship.

It's all just a screaming maw of I WANT.

Hence, the extreme thirst diagnosis. 

Aint no sin to be thirsty. Like you said, in your home country, you had zero luck.

1 minute ago, smallchungus said:

You are telling me what to not say out loud or share.  

No, I am not dictating what you do.

When I say, keep it to yourself, that means -to everyone else on earth- that I advise you to do so to forestall negative reactions and consequences.

I'm not outraged. You made that up whole cloth. You like to have arguments with imaginary people. That indicates that most of your arguments with real people typically go nowhere.

Let's review. You are:

-a professional victim

-prone to name calling

-always a bit butt hurt and angry

-fatuous in your pretend-knowledge of "culture"

-can only find dysfunction relationships back home

-the thirstiest man in thirst-dom

Is this the profile of the kind of guy who ends up happily coupled over here?

Read here about people who are living your dream. They present very, very differently from you.

5 minutes ago, smallchungus said:

Why do you feel the need to control what others say? 

 

This is completely barking mad paranoia. No one has "controlled" what you say. You know that. Jesus, what a whiner.

You can have all the "preferences" you want. But claiming that one race is superior to another is not a preference, it is the simple definition of racism.

I won't go down that stupid rabbit hole where you claim to be a PC victim of "the type of person I am" -a person who wishes you well on your zany plan and has given you good faith advice on how not to get hosed.

Only the tiniest scintilla of western men move to SEA -and that's for every reason under the sun. Claiming that you are part of a mass movement, throwing off the shackles of feminism means that you need to get off of Reddit and touch grass. Your posts are full of red pill rage.

Anger makes you stupid; try to be less stupid when get over here. Or not. I see some very entertaining posts from you in my future.

7 hours ago, smallchungus said:

Thai women are better than Western women, 

 

This is a racist statement. Benign, flattering racism is still racism.

This is another sentiment best kept yourself.

I am the least qualified person here to give you advice. I am married to an older white woman and live over here, BUT:

My lack of need for a relationship brings high quality Thai women within flirting range of me often. If my wife dies, at least 2 of them will be getting in touch. Coming over here thirsty is a big disadvantage. And another thing you should keep to yourself. 

-Like Andy Capp's dumber brother above me urges.

7 hours ago, smallchungus said:

 

 

I said Thai women are better than Western women

 

This belief is going to cause you problems. People are pretty much morally the same everywhere.

Poor people everywhere lack options and tend towards opportunism when it presents itself.

The west is full of women who would be (and often already are) great moms. That you choose a place where the women are "better"  and also happen to be a size two and (supposedly) deferential, indicates that pumping out a kid is not your sole, altruistic concern.

Thai people will tell you what they think you want to hear -that poor person problem again. Your belief that poor, uneducated Thai women can frictionlessly solve your long running dating incompatibility issues will def make you a target for opportunists.

I'm not dissing your goals or plans. I am def saying: keep them to yourself.

I hate to admit it, but if she was good looking enough........

10 minutes ago, Morch said:

 

I did have some Italian girl (again...the cuteness factor) do some crystal stuff on me. To her disappointment, I drew the line when it came to the backdoor.

Was this a case of shove that quartz where the sun don't shine?

I just had my first Reiki treatment (I know nothing about it, booked it on a whim). It was very relaxing, a cross between a mental foot massage and a pre-dream state.

Not a lot to it: a sweetie gently touched me on the head and  ribs. I noticed my breathing changing and tension coming and going. The hour went fast.

I'm resistant to spa stuff and new age-anything. I fear crystal worship is next. But it did make me feel better.

Any Reiki, esoteric massage, acupuncture, or other alternative-type stuff that people have tried?

The English are def people of the parsnip. Never seen it much anywhere else. 'Waitrose Ginger Parsnip Soup, had it at least weekly.

Americans will tolerate a bit of parsnip in a 4 to 1 carrot/parsnip ratio.

1 hour ago, charleskerins said:

ever heard of a restaurant by the name of Allegria? 

Yeah someone else from here recco'd it. Time for the quickly aborted Chiang Mai meetup? My last offer was a bit of a drubbing.

I went to a soapie in Udon in 1988 and the place is still there. 

So def go there.

Punchline from my youth:

Help me find my car and we'll drive out.

Grease 'er up good, Bob.

26 minutes ago, bob smith said:

 

 

theres always a tube of KY at the side of our bed…

Quite the big spender, lubricant-wise.

I guess you spent it all on the Rolex.

6 minutes ago, Stanton681 said:

Sick stuff :(

Sorry, lovin' the new, ultra-lite moderation style.