Based on what most of you lot are saying I would have grounds enough to punch people every night I took my wife out, as she is hit on all the time. It's Pattaya for gods sake, men think every woman is available, and even when they know someone is hooked up that's even more motivation for some of them. Thankfully I'm not in general a jealous guy and in a perverse way I quite enjoy it knowing they will get nowhere, but would I hit someone? Maybe if it got to the point where they grabbed (or worse) an inappropriate body part, but more likely just an angry verbal warning. I try and see it from the other blokes side, thinking he's going to get a hot non bar worker, to me the violence is almost always unnecessary.