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The evidence is all there. Beyond the poles there are also various other reliable metrics. It's clear she is winning:

Agreed. Another excellent reason.

Here you are doubling down on stupid again. You really can't get enough of plunging your own foot into your own mouth, can you?

This is about as stupid as it gets. This is a public forum. Anyone is free to comment on whatever they like. You don't get to set any rules just because you posted a bunch of baiting fluff. In fact, you should be banned for some of the racist things you have already said. Plus, you put some rubbish out there about there being no good reason to vote for Harris and everyone is then free to comment however they see fit. And, and, and you don't have to be an American citizen or a US registered voter to have a useful opinion on the upcoming US presidential election. Many people from all over the world have very interesting viewpoints on US politics. In fact, many non-citizens will have better, clearer and more objective opinions on the subject since they are not directly and/or emotionally involved. So you have really boxed yourself in with your ignorance and painted yourself into a corner of oversized foolishness.

Racist topic. Talking about Thais smelling bad, being overweight, having bad breath. Why all the Thai bashing?

I hear many different narratives from people as to why many Thai women desire to marry foreign men. The most common one I hear about is for purposes financial security. Others will say it is because Thai men treat them so poorly. I realize there are also millions of Thai women who aren't interested in foreign men. But it seems millions are and is there a chance they are simply attracted to something opposite to what they are familiar with? Is it perhaps they find foreign men attractive? Is it sexually driven in any way? Is it because they want to give birth to mixed race children? Or is it all of the above? In your opinion, what is the main attraction for Thai women to foreign men?

Useless garbage topic.

Another nothing topic.

Oh Bob, an adventure from Thailand to the UK by boat? How splendidly audacious! You must have been inspired by those old-timey explorers who thought maps were optional and the world was flat. To get the ball rolling, you could start by striding confidently into the nearest port, waving a flag, and declaring your intent to sail across the globe. I’m sure seasoned sailors will be lining up to join your bold expedition. Is it easy to organize? Absolutely. Just as easy as herding cats or nailing jelly to a wall. You’ll need a boat, of course, preferably one that floats and has more than a vague notion of where the UK is. Minor details like navigation, fuel, supplies, and avoiding pirate-infested waters will sort themselves out, surely. Don’t care where the boat departs from or lands? Excellent. Just close your eyes and point at a map – that's the spirit of true adventure. Ports around the world are well-known for their flexibility and willingness to accommodate spontaneous, unplanned voyages. Advice? Oh, where to start? Bring a parrot – every great adventurer needs one. Stock up on hardtack and grog, because nothing says adventure like eating food that predates refrigeration. And a compass might be useful, unless you’re planning to navigate by the stars, in which case, a telescope might be handy too. Best of luck, Bob! I’m sure your tales of navigating the high seas, dodging sea monsters, and possibly discovering new continents will be the stuff of legends. The world awaits your nautical exploits!

Oh Bob, the horror! How dare they treat a decade-long patron like you with anything less than a red carpet welcome and a brass band? I mean, after all those years of gracing them with your presence and your unparalleled ability to “speak Thai,” the least they could do is bow down as you enter. Maybe it was your outfit – they probably mistook you for royalty and got so flustered they forgot basic manners. Or perhaps your cologne was so overwhelmingly sophisticated it stunned them into silence. And the bill! Thrown on the table? Utterly scandalous. Maybe next time you should consider bringing your own velvet cushion for them to place it on delicately. Clearly, the service in “Thailand” (which should count its blessings to have you) has plummeted. Those “fresh off the boat” tourists simply can’t appreciate the nuance of your long-term commitment to the country and generous tipping. Yes, Bob, stick it to them! No more baht from you until they can properly cater to your refined expectations. How dare they not grovel at the feet of such a well-integrated, beloved regular? The nerve!

I'm planning to eat all meals out, stay in a nice services apartment, hire a car and driver, send my laundry out, have a maid come in every other day to clean my place, go designer clothing shopping once a week in the big malls, hit the nightlife 2-3 times a week, will 600-800K a month be enough?

I've been thinking a lot lately about why foreigners might think Thailand is so wonderful and, thus I'm trying to truly figure out why. What is it about the country that draws so many people in? There are the obvious things everyone talks about: the beaches, the vibrant nightlife, the elephants, the bustling markets, the food, and the temples. These are all fantastic attractions, but I wonder if there's something deeper that makes Thailand such a chosen destination. Is it merely just an issue of lower cost, lax everything, and more bang for your buck? Let's start with the beaches. Sure, they're gorgeous, but what makes them truly special? Is it the sense of peace you feel when you watch the sunset over the horizon, or the warm, friendly vibe surrounding many of the beach areas? Thailand certainly isn't the only place in SE Asia with nice beaches. Many of the other countries have them too including Vietnam, Philippines, etc. So why are Thai beaches so great? Then there's the nightlife. Bangkok and Pattaya are famous for their lively scenes as we know. But beyond the clubs and bars, isn't it the energy and the diversity of experiences that makes nightlife anywhere unforgettable? The street food, the late-night markets, the chance to meet people from all over the world—these elements add a unique flavor to Thailand's nightlife, maybe? The elephants seem to be another big draw. They're magnificent creatures, and seeing them up close is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. But is it really something people will travel half way around the world for? Markets and temples are also high on the list. The markets are a sensory overload with their sights, sounds, and smells. And they also offer a glimpse into the daily lives of Thai people and their rich culinary traditions. But nearly every country in Asia has fresh markets. Is it really something people are going to travel to Thailand for? Then some of the temples are breathtakingly beautiful, and they also represent the spiritual heart of Thailand. But, again, travel all the way to Thailand just to see them? So, what are the real things about Thailand that make it so appealing? Maybe it's the sense of freedom and adventure that travelers feel when they're here. I don't know. I'd love to hear from others—what do you think makes Thailand perceived to be so wonderful? Are there any deeper, perhaps less obvious, reasons that draw people by the millions to the country?

Something that's been on my mind a lot is all the negative stereotypes Iv'e read in AN forum posts surrounding relationships with Thai women. I wonder how true they are or if there are a lot of misconceptions and false statements being made. One exhausting stereotype I read over and over again is the idea that Thai women are only interested in Western men for financial security. While I know that money can be a factor in any relationship, is it fair to paint so many Thai women with the same brush? They can't all be looking for just one superficial thing. I've also seen firsthand a few long-term relationships between foreigners and Thai women that seem to be based on genuine love and mutual respect, but I can't be sure because it's very easy for people to act a certain way in public amongst groups of friends versus when they are alone together in private. Another stereotype is that Thai women are submissive or passive in relationships. Hard to imagine that is true across the board either. Thai society appears fairly diverse so I assume that so are many of the Thai women as well. I'll bet there are plenty who are assertive, independent, and equal partners in their relationships. In fact, I've also read stereotypes about Thai women saying the complete opposite and that they're aggressive, sometimes even violent, and emotionally immature and unstable. So I've seen two stereotypes that contradict each other. I assume both have some degree of accuracy, but I'm wondering which is the more dominant stereotype in daily reality. Local media doesn't help though with its added amount of sensationalized stories often reinforcing these stereotypes. It's like they're wanting to always paint this one-dimensional picture of Thai women that probably doesn't do justice to the real complexities of an actual romantic relationship. What really matters in any relationship I think are things like shared interests, an emotional connection, and a degree of mutual understanding and willingness to compromise at times when needed. Those are the things that make a relationship work it seems, regardless of cultural backgrounds. I wonder if others have encountered these stereotypes in their own real life experiences or if in reality it's something completely different in the real world than what I've observed so heavily written about here online.

Hi Gamma, Reading your thoughts on Jill and Joe, a peculiar image popped into my head: Jill, draped in a cloak of ambition, wielding the trappings of the White House like a modern-day sorceress, casting spells of charm and poise over the nation. When she praised Joe for answering questions, it did seem a bit like a teacher's nod to a star pupil. Perhaps she’s just proud of him, or maybe, as you suggest, there’s more to it—a secret potion she’s brewing, perhaps? Is Jill's unwavering support for Joe a mask for her own thirst for power? Or is it loyalty, pure and simple? Could it be she has a hidden agenda, a mystical quest for the Oval Office throne? The comparison to Hill is intriguing. Both women, strong and steadfast, seem to mirror each other’s drive and determination. It’s almost as if they’re characters from a fantastical novel, bound by destiny and political prowess. Imagining Jill on the ballot is an interesting twist. Would the electorate rally behind her with the same fervor? Picture campaign posters with Jill riding a unicorn, wielding a scepter of policy reforms! Indeed, Jill is astute and capable. A Jill presidency would undoubtedly shake things up, bringing a new narrative to our political stage. It might even involve enchanted executive orders and magical press conferences. As for Joe brokering a Jill takeover, one wonders if such a scenario has crossed their minds in private moments, whispered under the moonlight like a plot from a fantastical political drama. Jill could inject a fresh sense of unpredictability, keeping both the media and the public on their toes. Far more intriguing than the well-worn paths of a Trump presidency. Imagine the headlines: "Jill Casts New Spell Over Healthcare Reform!" Here’s hoping that if Jill steps into the limelight, her story will unfold more favorably than Hill’s did. Perhaps she’ll conjure a happy ending from her political cauldron. Best, Alpha Note: It would certainly be fascinating to see more of Jill and her dynamic with Joe. Their story is like a modern fairy tale with a twist of political intrigue. Note2: One can’t help but wonder what calculations and emotions are swirling in Jill’s mind as she navigates this complex landscape. Is she plotting her next move on a chessboard of power, or simply trying to support her king?

I am wondering how many people abstain from casual sex and quick hookups in Thailand simply because they fear catching an STI/STD? Also, is it common for people to engage with sex workers in Thailand, but avoid having full intercourse and only engage in touching because of that same fear?

Sounds like the winner!

Marrying a Thai woman and putting her on a stipend of 50,000 Baht per month or staying single and spending that same money on short-times? Now don't post any drivel about companionship, love, a deeper understanding, relationship, family, kids, etc. That isn't the question.

What do they want men for? They don't need financial security and support. So are they more sincere and altruistic in their intentions when looking for a male life partner?

Owning means your paying the mortgage every month on that 4" squared piece of real estate and not using it very much of the time. Renting means you only pay per serving based on what you consume. Far better value for money and a much lower average per unit cost.

I read on a blog that the top 3 male qualities that the average Thai woman looks for are as follows: 1 - Having a lot of money. 2 - Same as number 1. 3 - Revert to number 2. It also said that the 5 most useful things to remember about women in Thailand is: 1 - You never lose the girl, you only lose your turn. 2 - It’s cheaper to rent than to own. 3 - Whatever unscrupulous things they did to the last guy will be the same that you can look forward to. 4 - It’s purely the bulge in your back pocket that they like to feel the most. 5 - They are all special and different. Is any of this true???

Thank you all for the great advice and feedback. Sounds like I just need to bring my wallet and leave my brain at home because that's all that will be needed. And thankfully it seems like the only thing about my appearance that will matter will be the size of the bulge in my back pocket. So no worries that I don't look like Brad Pitt. It's Danny Devito with the protruding right buttt cheek all the way!

So I’ve decided I’m not going to get involved with any ladyboys whatsoever. And, when I arrive in Thailand, I’m not even sure yet if I really want to try and get involved with any real Thai women from any of the dating sites based on all the mixed things I’ve read and all the feedback I have gotten. But, if I do make an attempt to meet some Thai females, then what are my chances of meeting a real woman who is truly interested in having a real romantic relationship with a foreigner an not solely just for his money? I mean, let’s face it, I’m not Brad Pitt. In fact, some people have even told me they have seen better heads come out of zippers if I’m to be honest.

Besides the fact that some are physically very attractive, if I do choose to have a long term relationship, or to eventually marry a Thai woman, then what are considered to be some of the greatest positive and negative aspects of getting so deeply involved with a Thai woman? I am trying to develop an understanding of what one might expect and what the possible upsides and downsides are to having a serious romantic relationship with a Thai woman in Thailand. On the surface they appear to have a lot to offer, but I don't know about anything beyond that. Are things like honesty, integrity, sincerity, infidelity, reliability and morality areas of general concern or are they not an issue? What about other things like materialism and superficiality, intellectuality and emotional maturity? Thanks.

Thanks for the feedback. I was hoping for something a bit more substantive. A few people have given some good guidance, and I appreciate that, but I still have unanswered questions and many replies were short subjective opinions that I can’t really apply in a useful way. I will try and take what is helpful here and do some more online searching to see if I can find some good additional guidance.

I found this forum after many posts came up while searching online for information about transsexuals in Thailand. I'm straight, not married and I'm half East Asian, half Caucasian. So I have some understanding of Asian culture from my upbringing. I'm now living in Dublin where I have been based for 4 years. I like the place here very much, better than Singapore where I was based for 12 years prior, and now I'm planning a first trip to Thailand for a 2 week jaunt next month. I'm excited about exploring SE Asian culture in Thailand and reconnecting with some of my own Asian roots. I am also interested in meeting some local women if that's at all possible. However, I've heard that it can sometimes be challenging to distinguish between Thai ladyboys and real Thai women. I want to ensure that I don't accidentally end up in a situation where I mistake a ladyboy for a real woman, that is if I am going to attempt to engage with the opposite gender over there at all. I guess I have several questions on the subject before I decide if I am going to venture out socially or not and would appreciate any advice or tips from the community on how to avoid making such a grave miscalculation. Are there any specific physical characteristics that can help me to differentiate a ladyboy from a cisgender woman? I don't mean the obvious differences in genitalia. For example, should I look for differences in certain features like lips, eyes, hands, feet, or something particular about body structure? Can the tone or pitch of someone's voice also be a reliable indicator of a Thai transgender versus a real Thai female? Are there particular ladyboy speech patterns, behavioral nuances or personality characteristics that I should start to become familiar with? What about body language and mannerisms? Are there certain gestures or behaviors that are more typical of ladyboys? Are there differences in how ladyboys and cisgender women dress or apply their makeup in Thailand? Are there specific clothing styles or trends of Thai ladyboy fashion that I should become familiar with? If I'm in a situation where I meet someone and I'm a bit uncertain, is it socially acceptable for me to ask them directly about their gender? Also, is it possible to approach this question respectfully and without causing offense? Are Thai ladyboys generally open and forthcoming about their male gender if questioned about or do they often try to avoid disclosing or revealing that they aren't a real cisgender woman? In the context of bars, clubs, and other nightlife venues, are there specific places I should avoid where ladyboys are more likely to be present or congregating? How can I also navigate these locations to ensure I avoid getting involved with a ladyboy unexpectedly? If I were ever to use a Thai dating app, are there particular signs or information in user profiles that can help identify whether someone is a ladyboy or a cisgender woman? Are there any common misconceptions or pitfalls that new visitors encounter when trying to avoid Thai ladyboys and meet a Thai woman through a dating app? I tried to cover everything, but is there anything else about Thai ladyboys that I didn't mention, but that I should be particularly cautious or aware of? If I were to accidentally engage with a ladyboy, and only realize my mistake during say a possible sexual encounter, then what would be the best remedy in that moment to safely remove myself from the situation, avoid possible danger or aggression against me from the ladyboy and to end the situation as quickly and amicably as possible? Is it helpful to ask any locals for advice or guidance on this matter when I arrive? If so, how can I approach this topic with them without seeming disrespectful to the local people and their culture? I realize I am posing a lot of queries, but I always want to be seen as being respectful and considerate if I do try to navigate through this aspect of gender culture in Thailand. I have nothing at all against transgender people. I fully respect them and the personal choices that they make for themselves, but I just don't want to accidentally find myself engaging with one romantically and/or sexually. Thus, your insights and advice on how to avoid making the mistake of inadvertently choosing beef when what I really want is some soft tender fish (sorry for my poor euphemism), would be greatly appreciated Thank you in advance for any of my many queries that you are able to help answer.