And how old are the girls you're trying to connect with ?
Most younger women in prosperous urban areas don't care about older guys anymore.
It used to be the case but less and less so.
Most older dudes in Pattaya are dating the bottom of the trash can most of the time.
The only places one can still find older farangs with good-looking young Thai women are in lesser known towns.
For example, I was surprised at the number of old guys (more than 50 for sure) with young and rather good-looking Thai girls in Cha-am.
I think the reason for that might be the way the economy is developing.
Not only in Thailand but almost everywhere really.
A shrinking number of cities is getting an increasingly larger share of the pie.
Girls is Pattaya probably enjoy a degree of abundance that allow them to be picky.
In ghost town Cha-am, not so much so many of the younger girls don't seem to have much of a problem getting involved with a 50, 60 or even 70 yo farang with a bit of money to secure them.
Anyways. Good hunting :)