No, not about virgins, it is about getting married for the first time, but being deemed a virgin, I would have thought, was being polite, perhaps you can't understand that...
It is OK if you don't understand the Sin Sod tradition, many thicko's dan't. ????
There are many blokes who will not get married, or tie the knot, either they haven't got the "balls" or they need mum at arms length.
Others are just skint yobbo's, who can't get a leg over where they come from, you know, the ones who come on here moaning about paying a few quid to the brides parents.
As for your moaning, let us know what category you are in, perhaps one not mentioned, perhaps just "tight"...????