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In Thailand many Thai men have one or two Mia Noi wives. What we in the west call mistresses but in Thai means "2nd wife". It is very common for men to two or three Mia Noi relationships and they are usually tolerated by the wives. Nothing to do with religion

As we know this was posted extensively on another thread when he was first reported missing. The majority view then was that he was shacked up with a bargirl somewhere and the whole thing was quite amusing. Others urged a note of caution, seems like they were sadly right to do so.

It's always easy to go with the "shacked up with a bargirl" tag and it may be true again this time. But Thai's are far more openly aggressive now than they used to be, especially when it comes to foreigners stepping on the wrong toes. I hope its the former scenario especially for the sake of his son!

Maybe a little balance is needed. The woman (at 36 she is a woman not a girl) wanted to party with her partner and they bought what they thought was a line or two of cocaine.. They were conned and ended up paying a terrible price for their mistake, Recreational drug use in the world continues to grow far quicker than the use of alcohol. Cannabis being the most popular, but cocaine becoming more and more readily available and the cartels and others make millions and millions of dollars from it. As with any commodity it is all about supply and demand with the key here being "demand". There are millions of people throughout the world who use recreational drugs, are they all hopeless druggies ruining their futures? These "druggies" can be found from all walks of life from universities like Harvard and Cambridge, high flying businessmen and politicians etc. etc. I am not advocating the use of drugs or even alcohol par say, but both are an integral part of life for many people from all walks of life. So let's not be too quick to judge others as we sit at our keyboards smoking our cigarettes and sipping at our gin and tonics. Merry Christmas

Well she was 36 years old so not a kid at all. In fact old enough to have kids of her own and certainly old enough to make her own grown up decisions. A tragedy certainly and it looks like there was some naivety involved by this pair. This is Thailand and as with everything here, it is very much a case of buyer beware!

Depends on his age. We handed over a brown envelope to take that threat away, but you do need to know who to hand it to. Military service is the luck of the draw otherwise, with less than 50% being the unlucky ones.

Certainly sounds Thai. In which case why hasn't he got a Thai id card? My son was born in Thailand and we moved back to the UK when he was 7. He has a British passport. Recently he decided to spend time in Thailand where his mother has a house. So he applied for his Thai id and a Thai passport. It not only allows him to work in Thailand but also negates the need for any visas. We have Norwegian and French friends who have done the same, although over a certain age you are not officially allowed dual nationality by the Thai authorities. That may have changed now though as I haven't enquired about that for years.

You need to keep a UK address (could easily be a relatives) and a bank account for that address, where your pension can be paid into. However if it is found that you are not living in the UK then you may well be in trouble. The British pension is pretty pathetic compared to other European countries anyway. Hard to enjoy life if that is all you have to live on, even in Thailand.

Australians can even give the Russians serious competition when it comes to being drunk. As can the Brits. Not so much the Americans though, who seem to be quite lightweight by comparison. 😂😂

I hope the girl gets the help support after suffering the constant verbal abuse by her drunken grandmother. Abandoned by her mother after birth and then not allowed to complete her education, while trying to protect her younger brother from the abuse. No wonder the red mist finally rose. The girl needs help, not chastising.

It all comes down to intentions really. If he intended to stay in Thailand, then the easiest way is to get yourself a local girl and marry her. Then you get yourself a married man's visa. Avoid bargirls for this and go for someone a little older who is not looking to fleece you.

I agree with you and I think there is more to this account that has been reported here. It would be useful to know if there are any other complaints been laid against this man in the past. Sounds like it could be the early days of a grooming process if he just held her hand and hugged her. But then this could just be the girls description of what happened. Clearly she is in a lot of trouble with her parents and may be trying to play down any activity that actually happened. Fourteen year old girls often develop crushes on teachers and he being American could be an extra attraction. The fact that the girl lied about where she was shows a level of complicity. But that is why teachers like this must never cross the line nor get even close to it.

I live next to the river Thames in Surrey (UK) and the amount of raw sewage pumped into the river is staggering. Everyone told not to swim in it and warned of dangerous levels of e coli. Massive problem in the UK unlike this story which is merely a "Drop in the Ocean".

I lived in Hong Kong for a while and travelled extensively in mainland China. I am assuming that the Chinese woman and her daughter are relatively well off and well educated by the amount of western swear words they know and use. That sort of confidence usually comes with that MO. When I lived in Hong Kong I had a HK Chinese girlfriend who was very opinionated and argumentative, so having my clothes ripped off was a fairly common event. Thankfully it was usually followed by enthusiastic rumpy pumpy. Also when our relationship came to an end, she repeatedly used the phrase "You cannot go! You cannot go!" Not because I was the love of her life but because if anyone was going to finish our love affair, it was going to be her and not me! 😀

Maybe got led astray by a Fin called Helga or Linnea, who had tugged on his heart strings while in Thailand and decided on a diversion on the way home. If so, best to keep that to himself or face a very angry girlfriend back home!

I know this is a bit obvious but Finnair do cheap flights to London from Bangkok via Finland. Could he have changed his flight for some reason which would explain why he was on a flight to Finland. Of course that doesn't explain where he is now, but may be part of the puzzle.

Lot's of speculation as usual with the bargirl scenario being top of the list. If he is out there enjoying himself then he will inevitably be drawing down money to do that or if not using his cards. That should be easy enough to check. Bringing his return to the UK forward and speaking to his girlfriend the day of his flight doesn't sound like someone planning to go AWOL. Sounds more like he was missing his girlfriend back home, which does raise cause for concern. Not everyone holidaying in Thailand is led by their D*ck, especially a fit 27 year old old with a girlfriend back in England.

Pattaya has grown and been developed as the sex tourist capital of Thailand, if not South East Asia. There are always going to be places like this and the demand remains high. Better to embrace it for what it is. That way it is easier to promote other parts of Thailand as family destinations. There isn't a carpet big enough in the whole world to sweep it under but it can be orchestrated better. Legalise the prostitution and issue work permits for the girls over 18. Put in proper medical centres for the workers. Don't try to tax them as that will just encourage them to go off grid. Of course none of this will ever happen as the whole industry is rotten to the core. There are too many iron fists controlling the industry using threats and intimidation. As always, TIT

Time will tell but so far they are just getting to grips with the dire state the country has been left in. I have no love for Labour and won't hold my breath but there was an enormous gasp of relief once the Tories had finally been ousted. This Labour is clearly Blair mark two but hopefully without the lies and bull!

I think it ended up with five seats after a recount. Prediction was 13 seats for reform so not such a great success. The results showed all parties increased their share apart from Conservatives and the SNP. The Liberal Democrats were the biggest winners apart from Labour. But let's be clear, (I borrowed that from the politicians handbook) this wasn't some great swing to Labour, it was people voting to get the Tories out. Where I live in the South East there was a big swing to the Lib Dems as expected, they were never likely to vote Labour. Even the Greens picked up seats. There were a lot of votes for reform from the right wing side of the Tories when they couldn't bring themselves to vote for the cretins running (and ruining) their party. So the obvious protest vote turned them to reform. I am actually quite pleased that Farage got elected. It is important to always have a clown in the mix and now Johnson has been binned, Nigel will bring some comic relief with his ridiculous rants.

Sounds like he's a free runner Sounds like he is a free runner and a bit of an adrenalin junkie. Nothing wrong with that. Considering that the usual news items are about drunks fighting in Pattaya or drug dealers or pedophiles etc. At least this young foreigner is just enjoying his youthful exuberance.

Well it's all self inflicted I am afraid. You could say the rot started with Cameron and the country has been mismanaged since he got the job. But the real rot came with the lying conman Johnson and his chums. Unbelievably there are still some blaming everyone else. Brexit is not being mentioned in this election by either of the main parties. I think they know that the people don't want to be reminded of that disaster. Starmer is singing from the Blair playbook and has kicked out anyone left of Centre apart from Rayner who will be his John Prescott. Record number of Tory MPs are standing down (jumping before being pushed) and they are struggling to get candidates to come forward. But don't think that life under the Labour party will be the answer to the mess the Tories have made of the country, they won't!

Well the Tories will be gone in the upcoming election, dead and buried and rightly so. The circus started with Johnson and the lies about Brexit and has continued with more of his incompetent chums from that point on. Let's hope that Labour grasp the metal and start negotiations to re-join the EU as soon as possible. However I don't think that Labour has the where-with-all to run the country properly either. Britain is really up s**tcreek and there isn't a paddle in site. I have always been a Tory voter in the past but now I think they need to be kicked out and start again with some fresh blood. They need some honest brokers and to get rid of the current lot completely!

It's very depressing to see two totally inadequate, pathetic so called politicians vying to run the country. Then I looked across the pond at what the USA has to offer. We are all doomed I tell you, doomed!!!!

However it doesn't stop him running for the Presidency, even from behind bars! And all the stupid people who buy into his bull manure will no doubt still vote for him. It is expected that the verdict will bring forward even more dollars for his campaign. Only in America!