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2 hours ago, hotchilli said:
A buyers market at the moment, with Omicron on the horizon prices will drop further.
The Dhara Dhevi was always a money pit. They spent far too much money there in the first place. They should sell off all the buildings and fixtures and fittings and then split the land into salable lumps. They tried to recreate the 4 Seasons down the road but just threw too much money at it.
I used to go to the DD for Sunday lunch and it certainly had a great atmosphere for that. Before it closed you could get some good deals on the accommodation with up to 70% discounts. That was when you knew their days were numbered
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On 12/3/2021 at 9:04 AM, A1Str8 said:
That guy in Europe was 19. Doesn't make much of a difference.
Would if he was built like a brick s*ithouse and the 17 year old a Thai lightweight. The vast majority of young kids can <deleted> away to their hearts content but only a limited amount can punch their way out of a paper bag.
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18 hours ago, A1Str8 said:
A similar thing happened in Europe some time ago. The girls boyfriend told the wannabe blackmailer, how about you give me a hundred euros and I won't beat you lifeless.
It works wonders when you treat insects they way they're supposed to be treated.
Nice to be in that position but I doubt the 17 year old schoolboy had the wherewith all to do that.
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I think we all probably spend too much time wondering about greener grass. As the world changes and it is now changing at one hell of a rate, I suspect the grass will take on a different hue and our wish list may change with it.
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13 minutes ago, Led Lolly Yellow Lolly said:
Just to be pedantic, there is no rule preventing dual nationality in either country. My entire family are dual nationals, I am presently the only one with one passport. I apply for Thai citizenship in two years.
I believe that is probably true now but for us you had to choose whether to surrender your Thai passport as they didn't allow dual nationality over the age of 18. Britain on the other hand did. Needless to say most of the British/Thai children we know in Thailand still kept both once they became 18.
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3 hours ago, KannikaP said:Sorry, but the way I was brought up did not include having sex in a market toilet. Yes, the filming and consequent actions are deplorable.
Maybe for you it was behind the bike sheds then? It is the most natural thing in the world for youngsters to take any opportunity to "bonk" their brains out! The toilets in the local park was a regular courting venue when I was a boy.
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15 hours ago, Led Lolly Yellow Lolly said:This is a great post, thanks for that. I guess you have ties in the UK. My wife and I spent 3.5 years in the UK and my stepdaughter developed superb English during that time (she was at the right age). However, we had no support from anyone in the UK, emotional or pecuniary, my own family took zero interest in us. We were basically alone. I worked all hours, all my wife could do was sit at home and watch TV. It was tough on my wife, and work was aging me.
After a couple of years, my sister in law threw us a lifeline and basically ordered us back to Thailand to fold us back into the family company. We jumped at the chance to reverse the mistake we'd made, but chose to stay long enough to complete the citizenship process, as I wanted my stepdaughter to have options. My son was also born in the run up to us returning to Thailand. The second that was all finished we burned everything and went straight to Heathrow, flew to Thailand and never looked back.
Best advice I ever heard is to go where you're appreciated. For me, that's here in Thailand. My wife's family have been very good to me, I'm completely loyal to them as a result.
Good post and I totally understand your position. Our son was born in Chiang Mai but with an English father he was immediately eligible for a British passport. My wife has chosen not to go for British Citizenship as she wants to retain her Thai passport. I get that, even though a British passport helps a lot with visas and stuff.
In the UK I had a good network of friends, some from way back and some through business. We live in Surrey (a stones throw from London) and it is very cosmopolitan around here. Consequently my wife was warmly welcomed by the whole neighbourhood.
However she still found it very difficult in the early days The temptation was to seek out other people from Thailand or Asian countries. I was very against this as it was the opposite to intergrating into society here. You see it a lot and I find it a negative (though understandable) scenario. What helped us was having a son going to the local school. I dragged my wife along to parents events and everyone made her very welcome. The group of friends she ended up with were a mixture including Japanese, Singaporean, British, Welsh, Swedish and black American. All of them parents from the school.
I too have a very good relationship with my in-laws in Thailand. They have always been very supportive and when my business was on the ropes they were the first to give me the financial help I needed. I will always be grateful for that. But I know that this isn't always the case in Thailand with an expectation that the foreigner will always pay! I guess I was just lucky.
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I think a lot of it depends on what you want out of your life and the dice you roll on the way. I had a business that meant me spending about nine months of the year in South East Asia so I moved base camp (formerly I was in London) to Hong Kong. I lived in two rooms in Mid Levels initially and then moved to Stanley on the other side of the island. More property for the price but still £3,000 a month. On my travels I frequently went to Chiang Mai and liked the more laid back lifestyle. It was only an hours flight from mainland China and when I found I could rent a five bedroom, three bathroom house, on a private estate for £300 a month it was an obvious no brainer.
I did (stupidly) live for the first year in Bangkok as I was worried about access to my other ports of call in Cambodia, Vietnam and Bangladesh. But one year in the capital was more than enough and I ended up in Chiang Mai. Much better for my sanity and the pollution levels were much lower. I loved it from day one and managed to avoid the "Thai girlfriend" experience for about a year or so. I made a lot of ex-pat friends in the first year, most of them European or American couples who had moved to Thailand for early retirement or as snowbirds, living there for the winter months.
Then I fell for a Thai girl and things got more complicated. She ended up moving in with me, much to the annoyance of her father, but with the encouragement of her mother and sisters. They had spent a lot of time watching programs like Dallas and were certain that I had a ranch, horses and an Olympic sized swimming pool back in farang land. I think they had visions of us all living there sipping cocktails and shopping in Rodeo Drive. Once the truth was known there was a certain amount of cooling off from the female side of the family.
One day a police car pulled up outside the house and out got two officers who marched up to the front door. I opened it and in they swept in without a word. Luckily I was wearing my brown trousers. Also luckily, my girlfriend appeared at that point and smiled widely towards the two men. I was then introduced to her cousin and uncle and instantly my blood pressure dropped to a sustainable level. Yes I had fallen for girl from a police family. Over the next few years is proved to be a valuable asset for obvious reasons.
And so as these things tend to happen, we got married, she had a baby and you can fast forward eight years. My business was doing OK but not great and our son was now six years old. We had looked at international schools in Chiang Mai and there was only one that was sort of OK. But even Prem (CM residents will know it) was far from ideal with most of the pupils spoilt brats and arrogant dickheads. Not for me, especially not for extortionate fees they charged. I have always been against private education as I went to my local state grammar school.
So after much discussion and many arguments we made a move to the UK, primarily for his education and because my business was suffering and needed a firmer grip than I could give it in Asia. But also because we had both become disenchanted by Thailand in general. It is funny how parenthood changes your perspective of things around you. My wife had grown more westernised in her outlook, which I am afraid was mostly my fault and resulted in us feeling that Thailand was not a place we wanted for our son.
Settling back in the UK was difficult for my wife and she spent a lot of her time on planes going backwards and forwards trying to adjust. I now know that that was grossly unfair to her and made the whole transition a nightmare to deal with. It took at least a couple of years for her to settle into English life. Even then she had days of regret.
Fast forward again another 11 years and our son is now at college doing his A levels. My wife has a good job and her indefinite leave to remain visa is in place. After A levels, the boy will probably go to university and we will be free to go anywhere we want to. We still have a house in Thailand and my wife still has family there so I suspect we will go there from time to time, but neither of us want to live there again full time. The weather in Britain is dire and the government continue to destroy almost all that was great in Great Britain, so we are thinking about Spain as a place to retire to.
I really enjoyed my time in Thailand but that was a different time and it, and we, have changed, so time to roll the dice again.
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3 hours ago, IamNoone88 said:Cause for concern? Let's just put it like this .... I don't want to catch it.
Yes of course it is a cause for concern. But the concern is as much about ongoing restrictions as it is about the virus itself. I think it is fair to say that most people are more worried about not being able to travel or even just getting out for a beer or two than actually catching the dreaded virus.
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Should have asked the monks in the local temples. Most have impressive collections
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1 minute ago, itsari said:
It will take 100 days to modify the vaccines to cope with omicron .
Yes I can see that. But then will people have to start again with modified vaccinations (by which I mean, have two jabs followed by a booster), or will there be just another booster needed to up the level of the original jabs?
I don't expect a reply to that, just thinking out loud!
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10 hours ago, Kinnock said:
Unfortunately, if Thailand did not ban entry from certain countries with known cases, then other countries will stop travel from Thailand.
It's just politicians pretending to protect their people, as any new variant that spreads quicker than the old model will be everywhere in time - but impotent politicians have to be seen to do something, even if it adds no value and wrecks the economy.
UK now has the new variant, so maybe next on the ban list?
The WHO were very quick to flag up the Omicron variant as being of considerable concern, meaning it must be taken seriously. Countries are responding accordingly . It is said that the current vaccinations will not give the same protection as before even if double jabbed with a booster. In the UK Johnson is still promising that Christmas will be as normal this year but nobody is buying his bull anymore.
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6 hours ago, keith101 said:
The problem is they are smart enough to have it put in their name and nothing you can do about it .
It's a car, not a house with land. The cars I had in Thailand were always in my name.
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4 hours ago, webfact said:
NIDA polled 1,320 people between November 15th and 16th, reported Daily News yesterday.
Polled who exactly? 1,320 people in one day is not representative of anything. We all know that polls mean nothing but this is hardly worthy of being called a poll at all.
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15 hours ago, Dont confuse me said:
A few years ago I was speaking to a couple of Chinese birds in Chaingmai, they were not impressed.
Firstly they were led to believe that Thailand was a lot cheaper than China, apparently this is not the case, it seems the microwave meals in 7-11 are within the budget but not much else.
They also said that the main reason for visiting was (a) The very cheap flights which they were led to believe the Thai government subsidised, (b) They have never left their homeland before and this offer seemed to good to be true!
Let's not forget the viral Chinese buffet videos on YouTube, quality high rollers ....lol
I lived in China (albeit for relatively short periods of time) for over twenty five years and it can certainly be cheaper than Thailand in recent years. Depending of course, just where in China you live. If you were talking to a couple of "birds" in Chiang Mai and they spoke English then I suspect they were from a large city like Hong Kong or Shanghai. Those cities are definitely more expensive than Thailand if comparing restaurant prices. I am quite surprised that you were able to find English speaking Chinese girls if they were on a budget Chinese package tour. The level of English they would have needed to have a conversation like you describe would mean they were very well educated. Maybe they were actually tour guides?
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This website is really for ex-pats rather than tourists and ex-pats have a different view as to what is good for them. Much of the time, tourists are more of an irritant than an asset from the viewpoint of the ex-pat. Obviously the TAT are only interested in tourists and the deepness of their pockets and couldn't give a monkeys about the whims and wishes of the ex-pat community.
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22 hours ago, Bangkok Barry said:
4 - Learning to drive in a proper and responsible manner is quite difficult, and Thais do not do difficult. Thais do 'near enough', but on the roads that isn't 'good enough'. One mistake can cost lives, so being lucky enough to get it right most of the time isn't good enough either.
Learning to drive properly in Thailand isn't that hard at all, depending on whether you have access to a driving school. My wife had eight lessons in Chiang Mai and passed first time. The test itself is a joke compared to most countries but at least she learnt the basics. Initially I stupidly tried to teach her myself but that lesson lasted less than twenty minutes and ended with her getting out of the car, slamming the door and not speaking to me for a week!
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7 hours ago, Orinoco said:
Still hiding behind Drunk driving, sure it's part of the problem .
but its not all of the problem, for the high death toll on the roads of Thailand.
Selfishness, Entitlement, Face, and just dam right bad behavior are some of the causes.
and some.
Also a useless police force in regards to road safety. ( they are some of the offenders as well )
No one cares , TIT
A good start would be to get Thais to have driving lessons and pass the test, instead of just paying a few hundred baht for an "under the counter" licence.
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4 hours ago, khunPer said:
Quality turists don't hang out in places like Khaosan Road...
The kind of Khao San Road-visitors won't come back as long as it's complicated and costly to enter Land Of Smiles, and they might in my modest opinion never come back in big lots if the tourism-recovery is based on mainly wealthy quality tourists...????The world has changed from my gap year days. Next year my son becomes eligible for his gap year adventure and is looking (with a couple of friends) at places to go. I assumed Thailand would be high on the list given his heritage but no, apparently all of his friends are of the same view. I mentioned the usual Full Moon Parties and Khao San Road but just got laughed at. I was told that those were for middle aged losers trying to re-live their youth and that they would be too likely to bump into their friends parents. Certainly put me in my place!
He favours South America or possibly Africa, well away from the usual gap year travelers. There is no Kudos in going to the old haunts like Thailand and India.
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23 hours ago, Jumbo1968 said:
The U.K. has over 30000 new cases a day and it’s not on any countries Red list ?
Nobody expects logic do they? The UK have done away with their red lists altogether as far as I know
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I think the Catch 22 for Thailand is partly to do with colours. If they open up completely and go back to everything open as normal and then the COVID numbers go up again, they will end up on other countries red lists. By keeping most things closed they are more likely to keep the cases falling, meaning they will be on the green lists.
The Catch 22 bit is that tourists won't want come to a country on the red list with all the quarantine issues, nor will they want to come to a country on the green list that is still virtually in lockdown. So in essence, ex-pats would be better off with everything open and Thailand being on the red list as long they live there, but not if they want to go back to their home countries any time soon. For that, Thailand needs to be on the green lists.
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3 hours ago, tingtong said:
Meanwhile 7-11 happily sell alcohol....and the beach every evening is full of ppl drinking.
Hypocrisy.
Probably worth posting that on trip advisor. always good to get an insight into the real Thailand nightlife ????
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7 hours ago, newnative said:
And, in Pattaya they were being held, not on Walking Street, but at hotels like the relatively new Mytt, which has the Vertical Ballroom that can hold 1000 people. Or at Grande Centre Point. Or Dusit, or one of the other big, nice hotels in north Pattaya or Wong Amat--about as far from Walking Street as you can get. Business must have been good--the lavish Grande Centre Point 2 is going up just down the street from GCP 1--with another new, large hotel going up across the street.
Been to a couple of Indian weddings and they were amazing. The first in the UK and held at The Four Seasons on Park Lane in London. Many of the guests flew in from Delhi four the occasion. Second one was in Delhi and just as impressive. Apparently some weddings are over three years in the planning.
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21 hours ago, peter zwart said:Poor Bargirls. Deflation ahead as Indians like to share a girl with the 5 of them for the price of 1.
It's actually worse than you fear. Most of the Indians coming are young professionals with their wives and children coming for a family holiday. Not interested in the bar girls at all. But fear not, there will still be the beer bellied baldies from the west, falling for the girls and making fools of themselves. That should keep the Viagra sales buoyant once they return ????
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Market trader allegedly forces girl,16, to perform oral sex after he blackmailed students having sex in the toilets
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True, but hormones tend to override everything else at that age. I can still remember it well, even all these years later! I have an 18 year old (just) and he orders his condoms from ebay that come in wholesale sized boxes! Been like that for the last two years with a steady stream girlfriends helping him get through them! His mother tuts but he is just the same as all of his friends here in the UK.