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A Buriram girl "magicked" me once...

elaborate.

All his "important" parts disappeared.

you mean his 'impotent" part don't you?

Lets hope they're smart enough not to draw the boys in brown out for smoking funny ciggy. Instead of dancing around the camp fire, they'll be dancing in Bangkok Hilton.

Why not just approach the guy and politley ask him if he has a reason to stare at you. I think if you approach him nicely, I am sure he'll back off.

Ohh i forgot, make sure you have a can of mase in the other hand and if he get out of line just spray him in his eyes, kick him in the groin and run for the bedroom door and call me for help .

Shame on your brother in-law. I disagree other poster who says that your wife lost face, its more like your brother inlaw who is loosing face.

First, i would ask my wife to let her parents know the situation so they're not shocked about the upcoming event. Second, I would definitely attend the family function and ask your brother in-law for the money in front of the whole family. I think this will cause such an embarassement to him that he'll have to pay up.

If you do this, Nooone will ever want to borrow money from you again and your brother in-law will never like you any more ..yippppeeee. All finanacial problem(s) solved.

If that don't work just puch him in the face and tell him to keep the freaking money for the doctors bill. After all, its really not that much (15000 baht = $375.00 approx?)

Good work DZ. I enjoyed you funny 1 liner

Learn to ignore all the negative comments towards you man. Those people comments are generally bland anyway.

Love make you do silly thing, and in this case, it made her borrowed the 60,000 baht to be with an arse hole. The money is not alot to most of us (approx $1600) but it sure seems like a million dollars to the average Thai folks.

I don't think the police can do antyhing for her at all. As far as I can see, he didn't forced her to borrow the money nor were there any written contract. IMO, she should cut all ties with the bastard and go back home to her friends and family. The 60,000 baht borrowed can be paid back slowly in time. If her family are decent folks they will understand. There are alot of nice Thais family out there so lets hope her family is one of them.

I had no problem leaving my luggages there for a full day at hua lumpong station. Seems fine to me

If she did it once, she'll do it again.

Get yourself a PI, get rid of her and start a new life with another.

sincere heartfelt from here.

The latest from Stephen. Admittedly khon Thai.

I can not give my moblie to you i can not speak english [you can speak thai]

you can contract by mail only

i sent to you by open dictionary

i understand this new it shock! for you i sorry again

before i tell you i think many day verymuch

i think you can sole this preblem you love them

Jai yen yen

I can information for you by mail

Did anyone noticed?, he can't write english very well but sure heck can write phoenetic Thai

I had an old bag of a school teacher always pulling me up about my spelling, she informed me that there where plenty of spell checkers for free on the internet.

I won she never pulled me again about my splling

"The old bag" didn't happened to be Pepi1 would it?

has the op considered that the poster(s) primary lanuage may not be English?

Hve u cunssidred reedin tywais possts.....!

Solly, if you didnt' spel corlectly, then I didn't readit.

Could be that english is not the first language of many posters. But then that doesn't explain the Brits. wink.gif

redrus

A PI is an absolute necessity right now.

Best move you can make. The faster you can get it done the better you'll feel.

g'luck

I had an old bag of a school teacher always pulling me up about my spelling, she informed me that there where plenty of spell checkers for free on the internet.

I won she never pulled me again about my splling

"The old bag" didn't happened to be Pepi1 would it?

has the op considered that the poster(s) primary lanuage may not be English?

Next, these guys keep saying that if a Thai person has white(lite) skin they must be Chinese or part Chinese. I know that there is a cultrual and genetic effects of the Chinese in Thailand, but I still think that a lite skinned person can still be 100% Thai. Am I wrong to think this?

Thaibebop

I might be wrong here but throough my observation, you can tell a Thai Thai from a chinese Thai by looking at his/her facial structures. Thai thai tend to look more like like laotian/burmese higher cheek bone and ofcourse darker, and thai-chinese tends to have the rounder face, smaller eyes and whiter.

Thats what i've noticed anyway.

I agree with Brit, Act yourself and you shall have no trouble from the US Embassy. Its the thai gov't employee that'll give you problem(s). Lets hope not.

If u don't mind, Where will you be visiting?.May be people here can help you find a good vacation destination.

I like veggies loaded with pesticide, It gives me a nice kick after i eat it.

You wouldn't need pesticide to get a nice kick DZ.. I'm sure many people on this site would gladly give you a nice kick free of charge for being a pest-icide

^That question is off topic and bordering on a personal insult. I suggest we dont go further down that road.

My apology. I had no intention of insulting anyone, but merely pointing-out to Plachon that it was not a fair question to Gnarly.

Wonder if she speaks Thai, unlike the last one.

the last one spoke with a bit of "the valley girl" accent.. It was annoying as h_ll.

I must say though, the Thai beaties these days are not as beautiful as previous. They're just a slight above average IMO

DZ, I looked at the girls you picked-out and thought U're nuts. I would get rid of the entire top roll and half the second roll (from left # 1,6,7,9,10). These girls should not be in the pageant.

First of all let me just say that I am only here to respond to this whole ridiculous debacle started with a claim made and backed by members here that 50% of Thai university students are prostituting. I know it's off topic but heck if my post gets it closed down then I'm fine with.

I just want you people to know that I'm already aware that after posting this I am going to get a hefty amount of responses that will say 1) I am in denial, 2) I misread/misinterpreted/misunderstood what was said earlier, or 3) I am one of the wh0res for posting. SO you guys can just cork it up and save us all from your usual ignorant opinions. I am not in denial, I have read all the freaking 16 pages and I am sure not selling myself after school despite me being a Thai born/raised/speaking/reading/listening/writing university student.

Now let's get to the point.

I was referred to this topic by a shocked Farang who seems to be one of the very few out there who actually realise that not all Thai girls are prostitutes. I am very well aware of that stereotype believe me I have been in numerous encounters with ignorant Farangs, both online and offline, who asked me for my price ever since I knew what a whore was. Ask any Thai girls out there, and I mean the ones that do not sell themselves for extra cash (Yes it's true people they do exist it's not only in mythology!), whether they have ever been approached by a farang asking for "companionship" and trust me they'll all synchronisingly say yes with a disappointed yet disgusted look on their faces.

Thai girls are poor, Thai girls are dumb, Thai girls "no sa-peek englid", and of course Thai girls are whores.

If that is the case, does that mean I don't exist?

Let's take a look at this in order.

Poor? My family, though not filthy, but pretty well off. Both of my parents are US educated, have their own business and are subordinate to no one.

Dumb? I am graduating in two months with 3.4 GPA with a bachelor degree from an English-instructed, internationally accredited university.

No Sa-peek Englid? My article on my faculty's senior thesis exhibition was recently (two weeks ago) published in Bangkok Post.

Lastly, whoring? Hmm.. I haven't been paid money by anyone in my entire life but my family - mom and dad usually do that monthly while other family members do it annually in December on my birthday. I occasionally get cash transfered from the bank and insurance company but that is it. And also I am not yet employed so that's that.

Some ignorant farangs may be thinking right now that, "well, your type is rare." Well define "rare". Let's say I have 100 friends. If I'm rare that means at most 10-15 of those friends are like me, or in other words, 85+ are those "stereotypical Thai girls". Well I can assure you that I know more than 100 Thai females and I can assure you that NONE of them are of those stereotypical Thai females.

What your statistics is saying about us is that 1 in every 2 girls you meet in Thailand will somehow let you sleep with her for money.

Do you know what you're teaching millions of other Farangs out there about us by saying this? Kat said it herself this is an open forum, meaning anyone anywhere can come in and read and enjoy this nice little forums. If someone who has never been to Thailand and never heard anything about it except for the cheap sex with young girls (thanks to you people), and he comes and sees this, it only proves the notion right.

So let's say one day that very guy who read this post is here trolling along Siam Square and somehow he gets this sudden urge to score a Thai university student. So along the street he thinks "oh well people say, with statistical support, that there's a chance for me farang to score a Thai chick, maybe I should just try it." Now let's say I and my other Thai female friend happen to be there shopping after our class at the university that very same day. The sexually deprived farang then sees us walking, he comes up to us with high confidence and asks, "how much do you charge?", does that mean, according to your statistics, my friend will give him her phone number with a price tag and working hours on it? 50-50 isn't it? I sure am not spreading.

I am not in denial. There are girls who sell themselves here in Thailand for whatever reasons. I see them everywhere with fugly, old, balding, white-hair, white-trashed, beer bellied, [insert farang insult here], men in restaurants, shopping malls, clubs, hotels, streets, EVERYWHERE so I am sure not blind. There are also university students who sell themselves on the side I am not denying that either but there is a difference and that difference is determined by where you get the statistics from in the first place. Kat I am not referring to your 'source' but I am referring to where, location-wise, the figures were obtained. ALL universities in Thailand? Public universities? Any girls in black-white university uniform?

If all of the universities in Thailand participated, the figures would have been MUCH lower. I'd say 1-5%. Public uni? Higher. Any girls in BW uni uniform? That uniform can be bought anywhere. Some places even store them out back with different university pins and belts so their girls can please different devient fetishes of their clients. The location where the statistics were obtained from does make a difference in the results so I am not doubting your 50% research. But if you do not know for sure whether the research was conducted in an unbiased way then you shouldn't be using this statistics to justify anything around here.

Thailand is famous for sex tourism that is for sure but that doesn't mean it is alright for people to assume that all girls in Thailand are somehow working in that industry. There is a difference between bar girls and Thai girls so it is definitely not alright for people to walk up to any girl they see in Thailand and ask for the price. Do you ever stop and think of how we non-hookers feel when we are branded as such? Imagine yourself as an African American being barred from a jewelry store. Imagine yourself as an Arab being refused to aboard a flight full of Americans. Now imagine yourself as a decent Thai university student from good family with the brightest future in front of her being asked to sleep with sweaty hairy smelly white guy for a price of a Christina Aguilera CD.

We're victims of the crime we do not commit nor condone and you all just keep rubbing it in our faces.

You people make Thai women feel dirty with your words. That's verbal rape.

And if Brad Pitt offered you a million dollars for a night on his yacht, would you make an exception Gnarly?

If the same offer would be accepted by a western ladies, does that make them them prostitutes? I'm sure the MAJORITY of female would accept that offered. So not a fair question to Gnarly is it?

DZ, atleast this attempt at trolling brought out some of the funniest responsees, and gave me a good laugh. Nice try dude.

Actually, KerryK is not really far off base on this one. I've heard that it was upwards of 20- 50%, as told to me by a Chulalongkorn-educated, female university graduate with whom I worked, and she was quoting a Thai study 3 years ago.

Upwards of 20-50% of university female students in Thailand can be bought for sexual-services?

Pls post the link of this study carried out 3 years back.

I have never read or heard of any such study conducted by a reputable source.

When in Chula next I will propositon a few girls. If the study is correct than 1 out of every 2 (50%) will say "yes" and go home with me. However, If I get slapped, than we can assumed the study is bogus. Any idea how much I should offer?

Most waiters and waitresses "back home" dont work as hookers on the side.

And most waiter & waitresses in Thailand work as a hooker on the side? Give me a break

Yes that is exactly the case. I could give you ten upscale restaurants in Chiang Mai that I have visited that would confirm that.

There are ten of thousands of bars, restaurants in Thiland, so I doubt that a person or groups frequented all these places took an accurate surveyed.

To say "most" is absurd, but to say "many" would be correct.

I know the Thai government doesnt want it around because the consider it a blemish on the face of the country but I dont know why it's such a big deal. As long as people are careful about things and do things right, there should be no problem. Guys want to be able to have sex with different girls and no attachments and most of the time, the women use it as a way to support themselves or their families. It's a two-way street and both sides benefit. Why are so many people against something that is beneficial to others?

The only time I can understand trying to shut it down is when girls are forced into it beyond their will.

Can't agree with you more. These girls are doing what ever necessary to stay alive and feed their family. How can anyone blame them. Sometimes life just don't give everyone a break.

The tour guide had probably memorised the 'script' and although you say his English was good, he possibly does not have the capability to ad-lib. The Thais learn English by rote. Ask English teachers what their pet hate is and I think most will say "I am fine, thank you and how are you?" said in a robotic voice. The guide was possibly following the script blindly.

I see in your first post that you said 'whilst' so can I assume that you are British? Please remember that we British are always British and never foreigners

What were you trying to say? I couldn't understand you english!

Most waiters and waitresses "back home" dont work as hookers on the side.

And most waiter & waitresses in Thailand work as a hooker on the side? Give me a break

geeeeze ... give us a break!

Why does anybody get married?Any fool can get married,it takes a smart S.O.B. to stay single.I have never met a happy married man!!!!!!!!!!! If you say you are<I don't believe you>

Utter nonsense. May be you should leave your house once in awhile.