Lightyear

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Oh for heavens sake. What more do you need? A message from God?She's an escort, and she's getting nutted by a customer in Pattaya. She's told you this directly. Mark this as a lost opportunity, and work on your pipeline.

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How about the mia noi theory? After all, a mia noi is a specialist escort. An escort that is reserved by a single customer. I don't see how your meeting at BigC could have disproved either of these theories conclusively. She certainly ticks a lot of boxes, as you conceded before. Your rose tinted spectacles are back on. Did you really get fired?

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Go for a kiss and a fumble as a bare minimum

It's a step up from the KFC.... but she's treating you like her butler.

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El Nido might be nice. Boracay was paradise when I went there as a young backpacker in 1988, but it's a package tourist hole these days, by all accounts.

Lift your game my friend. Rather than all this 'Where do you want to go' indecisiveness, take charge. Sweep her off her feet to a place that's off the scale, like Pamalican Island in the Philippines, or Mustique in the Caribbean. See what she says. Bali is for package tourists. You risk being out gunned by her rich clients if you suggest taking her there.

Because she's a high class escort, a discreet one, and sees you as one of her social circle. Escorts are human, and they need a social life just like anyone else. Of course, the only way to prove that she's an escort 'beyond reasonable doubt' is to catch her in the act of a transaction. Perhaps you should hire a PI, or get a friend to approach her as a client, rather than a prospective boyfriend.

She probably has a totally separate personal account that she only shares with family and friends, under her real name. Look on the bright side @Cameroni - at least she didn't reject you as a person. It was just a business decision.

She's writing to dozens of customers at the same time, so might be using a bit of copy and paste here and there. Why else would she have over 1000 farang blokes on her Instagram? It's not rocket science. Your analytical legal mind should be on top of this subterfuge.

Dump her. Block her and get out of there.

Count yourself lucky that you found out now, before you lost more than a few days of your time and a modest amount of heartache. You can forget about her and find someone who is honest about what she is and does.

Thousands of ugly farang men on her Instagram. Five star holidays all around the place with no obvious income. Keeping you dangling. Abrupt cancellations of meetings with you, only to pop up in distant beauty spots all dressed up. Photos of wads of cash. Boasts about male generosity. Lies, lies, and more lies. You're a lawyer. You should be familiar with this kind of thing.

You didn't come on to her like a paying customer. As you say, it would have been better if you had done that.

Escorts might entertain the idea of going on normal dates sometimes, just as you might do pro bono work, but billable work comes first, especially when there are big bucks involved.

She could be a high class escort. They wouldn't post photos of their clients for obvious reasons.