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Thai ‘Rental Wives’ Serve Older Western Men, Vietnam Media Says

Vietnamese media outlets have claimed Thai women are hired as "rental wives" by retired Western men, particularly in tourist centres including Pattaya. However, the reports provide no official figures, named providers or evidence that such arrangements are a recognised or widespread practice in Thailand.

The claims appeared in Vietnamese newspaper Tien Phong, which cited Chinese outlets Sina and Sohu. According to the reports, foreign visitors may pay Thai women to act as guides, partners and, in many cases, sexual companions.

The term could cover very different situations, ranging from paid companionship and informal relationships to commercial sex work, with differing legal and personal consequences.

Reports link claims to Vietnam War period

Tien Phong traced the alleged practice to the Vietnam War, when US military personnel were stationed at air bases in Thailand. It said local intermediaries introduced Thai women to American servicemen for fees, while entertainment venues near the bases developed from serving drinks into arranging female companionship.

The newspaper claimed comparable arrangements later became associated with Pattaya and other destinations as more Western men retired in Thailand. It portrayed the women involved as mainly coming from lower-income families seeking better earnings.

It said such arrangements could run from a few days to one or two years. Foreign partners were generally said to pay for accommodation, food, entertainment and other costs, while some couples were eventually reported to have married legally.

Prices and scale unverified

Tien Phong cited prices of around 13,000 baht a day for arrangements of fewer than seven days, falling to 9,000 baht a day for longer bookings. It put the cost of a month-long arrangement at roughly 50,000 baht.

But it did not identify the Thai media outlets said to have supplied those figures, name any service providers or produce official data. Nor did it cite a national survey or government statistics showing the scale of the alleged arrangements.

The reports warned that women could face unintended pregnancies, abandonment and financial insecurity. They also said foreign men could lose money or property through fraudulent relationships.

Thai abortion law misstated

Tien Phong also incorrectly said abortion is illegal in Thailand, claiming many women are left with unwanted children.

Termination is permitted without conditions during the first 12 weeks, and between 12 and 20 weeks after counselling with an authorised medical professional.

Other grounds include health risks, severe foetal abnormalities and sexual assault.

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shackleton Platinum Member

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UK retired pensioners will no doubt have a different view on costs in Pattaya

And other parts of Thailand 😱

Old Croc Star Member

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4 hours ago, JerryM said:

My favorite Vietnamese girl was in Good Morning, Vietnam (1987) except the actress who played her was Thai.

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It was filmed entirely in Thailand.

KhunHeineken Diamond Member

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The article needed to be more balanced and explain to readers that some Thai girls are "different." 😂 😂

BayArea Silver Member

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43 minutes ago, connda said:

Vietnamese press completely ignores the Thai culture of "rental wives" hired by Thai men

I don't think they are ignoring this aspect deliberately or intentionally , but rather they are publishing what the original Chinese articles highlighted on foreign men renting Thai women.

This has nothing to do about married Thai men keeping mistresses or girlfriends on the side which btw is a very common cultural norm throughout the world since civilizations began.

Edited by BayArea

kuzmabruk Advanced Member

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7 hours ago, Artisi said:

At Bht 50 000 a month all expenses paid, there would be thousands line-up offering their services.

At Bht 15,000 there are already tens of thousands. At Bht 50,000 you start to get close to the cream of the crop.

Ralf001 Star Member

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2 hours ago, roo860 said:

Can I have 50 baht worth please?🙂

5.5 minutes is great staying power... or does it include the post coital shower ?

241195_1469957797 Senior Member

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Boring🤣🤣🤣Old Bloke rents a young Thai woman. Not really new, 20 years ago it was simply called a Girlfriend Experience, limited to 1 week, 2 Month or whatever.

roo860 Star Member

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34 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

5.5 minutes is great staying power... or does it include the post coital shower ?

I don't think I'd have time to get my pants off 😀

Cabradelmar Gold Member

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It's not rent it's called a "bar fine" 😂 and it's how the go-go bar girls make a living 🤫 and if you marry one the payments don't stop.

Ralf001 Star Member

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2 minutes ago, Cabradelmar said:

It's not rent it's called a "bar fine" 😂 and it's how the go-go bar girls make a living 🤫 and if you marry one the payments don't stop.

Is it a bar fine if you "rented" her from a construction company ?

Mavideol Star Member

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me thinks Vietnam is jealous 😆

Bredbury Blue Ruby Member

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Classic example of "the pot calling the kettle black" me thinks.😄

ernji Apprentice Member

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3 hours ago, msbkk said:

"No girls get this kind of allowance in Thailand...ZERO...."

There are some who get this kind of money. I know of a few cases. The average is however far below that.

I agree that while the average in Thailand is well below these quoted figures, there are exceptions where it's much higher. It's surprising to me how many cashed up farangs are willing to pay what I consider silly money to get a beautiful, fun, clever Thai lady by their side, even when it doesn't involve sex (because they are no longer capable). Each to their own.

impulse Star Member

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8 hours ago, Artisi said:

At Bht 50 000 a month all expenses paid, there would be thousands line-up offering their services.

Still a lot cheaper than bringing your own. At least one from the States. I once calculated that it cost me an extra $4000 to bring my wife to Cozumel for 2 weeks. That was airfare, meals, shopping and staying in a much nice hotel than I'd choose for myself (diving trip). And that was the '80s. Probably more like $10K today. I should note that she was rather high maintenance, and I knew it going in. Lesson lear'ed.

50,000 baht sounds cheap. But, alas. I don't do the P4P thing. I've got some female Thai friends that I hang out with on my monthly visits, but no benefits.

Ralf001 Star Member

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17 minutes ago, Mavideol said:

me thinks Vietnam is jealous 😆

Deflection I reckon as Vietnam has a flourishing "rental" market.

Papillon Soo Soo will love you long time for $15.00

Lacessit Star Member

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IIRC when I was in Vietnam a few years ago, sex with a foreigner was frowned upon officially.

My Thai GF is 23 years younger than me. We have been together for 12 years. I provide support, she provides care.

Maybe that's renting. Vietnam would have to explain to me why I should give a FF about their opinion.

Ralf001 Star Member

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1 minute ago, Lacessit said:

IIRC when I was in Vietnam a few years ago, sex with a foreigner was frowned upon officially.

District 1 has some real tidy flange for rent.

Lacessit Star Member

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2 hours ago, harvardgrad said:

Im sorry alot of you clearly lack game. I've been technically coerced into sex with a thai girl before, I did not consent. I would look to press charges if it were my home country but I knew nobody would take my case

The Thai legal system is not equipped to process people who are mentally ill.

Lacessit Star Member

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7 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

District 1 has some real tidy flange for rent.

I don't doubt it. I'm referring to the posters/pamphlets that seemed to be in every massage shop.

kaneko86 Senior Member

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I find it shocking that a Vietnamese newspaper write such things about our women. They don't do such things. Also police goes check regularly in walking street and Soi 6. They never find any signs of prostitution.

Wingate Gold Member

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The data seems rather dated, if not outright biased, unless the newspaper specifically set the rental time period as more than an hour or two.

If you happen to visit an agogo today, the majority of the customers are not Western; they're Korean, Japanese, Singaporean and Chinese. Maybe those guys rent only short term, but they are the majority. Though this may be incorrect, East Asians seem to view bargirls as solely for temporary amusement, not girlfriend material, but rent they still do. Given the skewed number of males relative to marrying age females in places like China and South Korea, it's no wonder these guys are looking for a carnal partner.

In Bangkok, I also see lots of young Asians who seem to have rented ladyboys. I don't know if that's preference or ignorance, and if the fellow is later surprised in the bedroom.

Times change. The Vietnam War long since ended, and the Western men who might have paired up with a rental wife are passing away. It's now largely an Asian game, with a dash of Western start-up millionaires. The youngest Vietnam vet would be at least 73, as the last birth year drafted was 1953. Going, going, gone.

There's also a lot more money floating around nowadays, so the monthly charge can easily top 100,000 baht. The top women who work the agogo circuit pull in 300K or more a month. To avoid the wear and tear of a new comer every night, maybe they would accept less, but I don't think that's a certainty.

Some of my staff are young Thai females. They have uni or hometown friends who work the agogos, or who serve as paramours or mia nois to Thai businesspeople, politicians and military folks. The perks are quite substantial, and include condos, cars, designer clothes, jewelry, and a monthly stipend. The most attractive women who opt for paid companionship are going to be totally uninterested in an old farang living on a $50 to $100K pension. A few years ago it was the crypto bros who drove the high end of the market; now it's the AI crowd, 20-something farangs with 8+ figure net worth, who might be the long term renters.

Sigmund Gold Member

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C'mon now. We all have seen those westerners of all ages with their fine young ladies all around Thailand. But what is unfair here is that even when it's a regular relationship people in society, other foreigners in the streets, restaurants, or the locals, will always think the lady is a rent-per-week or a rent-per-month when she is walking with a falang man.

Burma Bill Diamond Member

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10 hours ago, Georgealbert said:

Thai women are hired as "rental wives" by retired Western men,

The words rental wives should be replaced with the word prostitutes IMO.

L- Lifeline Silver Member

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4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

What I never understood is the hatred that seems to come with a woman divorcing.

And it seems to last the rest of their lives.

You a re correct but it is not just bitterness on the part of women- I have seen a lot of hatred in men

I recall one client who was ordered to give to his wife half the furniture

He did exactly that and took a chainsaw to the table chairs and sofa!

JerryM Gold Member

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(edited)
3 hours ago, Old Croc said:

It was filmed entirely in Thailand.

Well you're right -- but still the Vietnamese heart-throb in the movie wearing that traditional VN garb was Thai.

Edited by JerryM

L- Lifeline Silver Member

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5 hours ago, wombat said:

After learning my lessons, the hard way with three marriages and three divorces I have found that friends with benefits works for me.... to be honest, I don't know of anyone who subscribes to friends with benefits that says it doesn't work

Ouch! 3 divorces has to hurt- and I agree with your approach- FWB is financially a lot safer than a marriage

Sir Dude Gold Member

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(edited)

Well, not sure where they are getting their data from, but it is wildly inaccurate. So many women are so desperate now that they would take like 20% of those figures they are flinging around.

Many guys have woken up to the scam and are just refusing to do the old simping and splashing cash for nothing now as they have got wise to it. In many cases, you are better off doing the same as the locals and just going to a soapy massage place for a couple of grand and be done with it a few hours later with not strings attached. Also, many are following the 3-day-rule too.

Edited by Sir Dude

Kinnock Platinum Member

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I'm not so sure about that. While my Missus is younger and significantly more attractive than me, I think Thai people can immediately spot that she's a wife rather than a short timer. The way she dresses, and more importantly, the way she orders me around, are clear signs. 😂

31 minutes ago, Sigmund said:

C'mon now. We all have seen those westerners of all ages with their fine young ladies all around Thailand. But what is unfair here is that even when it's a regular relationship people in society, other foreigners in the streets, restaurants, or the locals, will always think the lady is a rent-per-week or a rent-per-month when she is walking with a falang man.

newbee2022 Star Member

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8 hours ago, ikke1959 said:

ok a new name for the same... from hostess to rental wife..And it is very expensive too.. 13k a day.. Better hire them for 1 hour.

In 1 hour cleaning, cooking, washing,???

I doubt it

ikke1959 Diamond Member

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3 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

In 1 hour cleaning, cooking, washing,???

I doubt it

Mostly who ask 13k a day don't do that either... They maybe wash some parts of you and clean it and cooking will be an outdoor meal that is not included in the 13k hehe

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