Not near off the wall but logical. How do you think predators work? Getting confidence. You have children so should have been through that learning process to keep yours as safe as you can. There are many who don't care, and allow their children to stay with most anyone, and as you can see, many are victims because of this. The child molesters are usually known by the family. I've also brought wandering children back to their parents. many times as I've been the primary caretaker of mine all along so spent most of my time with them in outdoor activities around other children. It's a parent's duty to protect all children from the weirdos that are everywhere. Guess you don't realize just how many perverts are around. Up to 65% of girls in Thailand alone are molested in schools by the time they're 17, and those types learned that behavior somewhere. Showering with children is wrong past a certain age, usually around 5 or so, as they should also be taught what privacy means. I did myself, but stopped at 3, as I wanted them to know what personal privacy means. Mostly girls, so they stayed with their moms a little later. Yes, I have a different. more moral view of life, and children's moral upbringing. Yes, there are nude beaches, but they are few and far between, with the rest of the world not allowing public nudity, and there's reasons for that. I'm obviously much more aware of the dangers children face in this world, seeing you think you can trust more strangers. research how predators work, and how many are around and what they do to children daily everywhere. Why would I get out my camera if I'm in your neighborhood? I've explained I'm, not of a pervert mind by now I'm sure.