Newbee2 Posted December 22, 2018 Share Posted December 22, 2018 this is going to be my first travel to thailand.. so I'm very green with thai culture. I am a bit concerned because my gf left some time ago to TH, and I'm supposed to meet her, in her small village. All this is fine no problem.. the thing is a local police officer, want her badly.. and have asked her family to marry her, she declined. now after she returned home here from europe, he comes talking to her every day, and brings her food etc. last night she cooked dinner for him in her house.. should I be concerned for my safety? they are pretty though the police, and sure he is jealous when I come.. bear in mind this is my first time going to thailand, and I don't want any problems Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faraday Posted December 22, 2018 Share Posted December 22, 2018 Hmmm.... quite a problem it would appear. Does the Policeman bring any food to the table, such as Saigrok? Hope you get this sorted soon. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 22, 2018 Author Share Posted December 22, 2018 I dont know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simple1 Posted December 22, 2018 Share Posted December 22, 2018 You're correct, Thais can be violent due to jealousy. I guess she is living at home so you need to understand if family wants her to live with the cop. Usually family is far more important than foreign men for Thai women. However, presumably she will not inform the other guy where she is going. If you think it's worth the effort, meet GF far away from her village. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 22, 2018 Author Share Posted December 22, 2018 No she has her own house, her daughter on 20yr lives there. Yes, but I don't think they decide for her anymore.. she is old enough now 43. But this does feel like trouble Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ezzra Posted December 22, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted December 22, 2018 If she cooked him a dinner already that could also mean that your goose of your relationship was also cooked at the same time, it would futile of you to even go to this village, ask her to come meet you elsewhere like BKk to discuss the future... 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 22, 2018 Author Share Posted December 22, 2018 Yes it seems a bit odd to me too.. but they have a family party and she want me to come there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rumak Posted December 22, 2018 Share Posted December 22, 2018 Newbie. How do you know about Thaivisa ? Interesting that this is your first post but you know nothing about Thailand. How old are you ? How lonely are you? You lived with your gf in a different country (yours) ? So many questions we old pros need answers to before can make suggestions....that you are sure to disregard. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YogaVeg Posted December 22, 2018 Share Posted December 22, 2018 (edited) 28 minutes ago, Newbee2 said: Yes it seems a bit odd to me too.. but they have a family party and she want me to come there Lamb to the slaughter. Hmm... First hour posting on TV, the usual grammatical errors, sensational click-bait post, outlandish situation, already blocked visitors on his profile!... All the usual ingredients, suspect at best. But I'll bite strictly for giggles. The answer to the OP's question: Like Duh. Edited December 22, 2018 by YogaVeg 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 22, 2018 Author Share Posted December 22, 2018 (edited) Sorry.. english is not my first.. I read on thaivisa sometimes when we have problems and to learn from others. I'm 37. I assure you this is real... where ells could I ask this question? Thanks for the replies Edited December 22, 2018 by Newbee2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 22, 2018 Author Share Posted December 22, 2018 We know each others from spain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 22, 2018 Author Share Posted December 22, 2018 (edited) 30 minutes ago, YogaVeg said: Edited December 22, 2018 by Newbee2 Error Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 23, 2018 Author Share Posted December 23, 2018 I already booked my tickets, BUT after she told me this, I feel a little unsure about this whole situation.. I knew about the police man before she left, but asked her to make him understand / aka. Keep a fair distance to avoid he feels hope again.. and so I could be safe. He is a dope police officer at cambodia border Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 23, 2018 Author Share Posted December 23, 2018 She say that she did explained to him, and I should not worry... but i don't like this situation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anythingleft? Posted December 23, 2018 Share Posted December 23, 2018 Suprised that you made it to the age of 37 with such a lack of awareness and naivety. Thailand might not be the best place for you........Sent from my SM-N950F using Tapatalk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anythingleft? Posted December 23, 2018 Share Posted December 23, 2018 Suprised that you made it to the age of 37 with such a lack of awareness and naivety. Thailand might not be the best place for you........Sent from my SM-N950F using Tapatalk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 23, 2018 Author Share Posted December 23, 2018 I ask here before I go... yes I don't know thailand and the way they do things.. I only know her. Okay other people say stay far away from the village. You say stay home:) She thinks everything is okay.. I just talked to her. But... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmen Posted December 23, 2018 Share Posted December 23, 2018 She cooked him dinner in her own home? I would be furious! If your not a troll break it off. That's not normal behavior she should be warning him to stay away not cooking for him Sent from my Redmi Note 3 using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 23, 2018 Author Share Posted December 23, 2018 yes she like the attention.. and that's not a old fashioned good woman behavior, I agree! she would explode if I did something similar, but her double standards is one thing. the thing I worry about is my safety in this mess she has created. and I'm suppose to stay there more than one month?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bermondburi Posted December 24, 2018 Share Posted December 24, 2018 On 12/23/2018 at 2:21 AM, rumak said: Newbie. How do you know about Thaivisa ? Interesting that this is your first post but you know nothing about Thailand. How old are you ? How lonely are you? You lived with your gf in a different country (yours) ? So many questions we old pros need answers to before can make suggestions....that you are sure to disregard. We got internet everywhere these days. It's not that hard to come by thaivisa from a Google search. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rumak Posted December 24, 2018 Share Posted December 24, 2018 48 minutes ago, bermondburi said: We got internet everywhere these days. It's not that hard to come by thaivisa from a Google search. well, surely it would not be too hard to read tthe thousand or so posts giving advice about guys (not just newbies") that get involved in these absurd relationships : Relationship advice......... getting anyone to take the advice is not nearly as easy ! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbee2 Posted December 24, 2018 Author Share Posted December 24, 2018 1 hour ago, rumak said: well, surely it would not be too hard to read tthe thousand or so posts giving advice about guys (not just newbies") that get involved in these absurd relationships : Relationship advice......... getting anyone to take the advice is not nearly as easy ! Surely I'm open for advise:) I really want to make her happy, and get approved by the family.. but f... me!! what a risk it would be. Even though she say that she talked with him, and it shouldn't be a problem.. she say no worry Ahh a little to exciting and very risky I think Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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