I'm sure you mean well with your post, however I have tried all that you have suggested and when I saw him yesterday at Starbucks, he had already managed to buy himself a roll of some description and when I asked him if he would like something else to eat he declined suggesting that a double black coffee would be sufficient. Believe me when I say that I have explored every opportunity/avenue/etc with him, including going back to Germany, however he doesn't want to be there and he made that quite plain. Also he has no one in Germany from whom he can borrow funds, although as I said previously, he does appear to have a couple of "benefactors" here who are supporting him one way or another, but not in any great financial way. My intent on catching up with him was to try and explore every opportunity with him and to get him thinking along those lines, but he is quite prepared to stay here for as long as he can (Visa funds notwithstanding) or go to Malaysia, or indeed he did suggest Jordan, wherein he has a female friend. I've done everything I can with regards to helping him and my suggestions to trigger some sort of action from him, but to no avail, so now it's purely down to him what he wants to do and how he lives his life, whichever way that may be. I am not prolonging any outcome, as indeed I have suggested ways that he can get out of the situation he is in and leave here – – many times. Now as the old saying in Thailand goes: – "up to you" by which of course I mean "up to him".
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