Suicide over boyfriend's alleged affairs

The niece of former Metropolitan Police Chief Wiroj Chandrangsi succumbed to a fatal gun injury in Bangkok's Sathorn district yesterday after an argument with her German boyfriend over his alleged affair with another woman.

While a suicide note noting her boyfriend's alleged cheating was found, police have sought a summons for the boyfriend to question him and check for gunpowder residue.

After a report of homicide at 2.50 am at Summerset Condominium in Soi Suan Phlu, police found the injured woman, with a gun wound in her left chest.

Jatulada Chandrangsi was later announced dead at BNH Hospital.

Jatulada, 39, was the daughter of Adul Chandrangsi, Vice-President of the Mass Media Photographers Association of Thailand.

Condominium security guards reportedly heard Jatulada having an argument with her 44 year-old boyfriend, Jergen Grailer, from her room on the 23rd floor before a gunshot was heard.

The guards rushed to the room to send the injured woman to hospital.

The German, who owned a company selling closed-circuit camera systems in southern Thailand, had just returned from the South to Bangkok.

Lieutenant Sakdinan Duangyotha of Thung Mahamek precinct said Grailer told police that Jatulada shot herself. But police checked Grailer for gunpowder residue and summoned him to provide details about the incident.

The results of the police tests should be known within a few days.

Thung Mahamek Police Superintendant, Colonel Kittipan Julthakan, said the death was a suspected suicide because a suicide note was found, in which Jatulada lamented about her boyfriend's alleged affair with another woman, so she took her own life.

The note was typed via a computer, but had some parts in her handwriting. It asked Jatulada's relatives to manage her property. The woman's relatives confirmed to police that the handwriting was Jatulada's.

-- The Nation 2009-06-02

วิโรจน์ จันทรังษี

former Metropolitan Bangkok Police Chief Lieutenant-General Wiroj Chandrangsi

more frequently transliterated as Wiroj Jantharangsee:

http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/search.html&...2BJantharangsee

The deceased:

Article (in Thai):

http://news.mcot.net/crime/inside.php?valu...m50eXBlPXRleHQ=

From:

-- TNA 2009-06-01

My condolences to the friends and family of the victim. Suicide is particularly difficult for those close to the victim.

I also don't envy her partner--he's got some pretty heavy weight people to answer to.

Jatulada Chandrangsi

Article (in Thai) from Siam Rath newspaper:

http://www.siamrath.co.th/uifont/NewsDetai...3&nid=39181

Tragic! The German man better get some security cameras installed.

My condolences to the family of the victim and to the german boyfriend.

No matter what actually took place I hope for the boyfriends sake that he has no skeletons or he is not going to be with us for very long.

Not often you see a young lady of this status married to a farang. HMMMMM! RIP in peace young Lady. If any foul play hope for justice soon.

Not often you see a young lady of this status married to a farang. HMMMMM! RIP in peace young Lady. If any foul play hope for justice soon.

Not married according to the report.

In the Thai Rath reports they refer to them as husband and wife.

Not often you see a young lady of this status married to a farang. HMMMMM! RIP in peace young Lady. If any foul play hope for justice soon.

Young Lady ??? 39 years old !! It is however a sad story for her and her German boyfriend too.

Peace be with her.

Condolences to her family and friends. You know, if you don't have anything good to say, then maybe it's best to keep it to yourselves and be mindful of others. Does showing an ounce of respect really hurt that much?

Condolences to her family and friends. You know, if you don't have anything good to say, then maybe it's best to keep it to yourselves and be mindful of others. Does showing an ounce of respect really hurt that much?

"DITTO"

jb1

with all respect to the the lady...

But the facts in general (I don´t know this case):

Suicide often is not the end of a long suffering, but a try to hurt other people (f. e. the partner).

And in fact, suicide do hurt other people a lot. Many times, the motive is more an aggressive one.

After successful suicide, relatives often feel very guilty, and many times they are not.

Suicide, especially done by young people done in the circumstances of relationships, are more a sign of some kind of

mental disorder. (sorry). For example not able to accept losing face ! (f.e. kind of narzissme disorder or inability to act in a different way with your aggressive motives.

The probability of doing suicide depends more on the general use of it in your family and not of the behaviour of your partner. (or of the fact, that you use it before).

The most important ability for partnership is to accept, that you inevitable will be hurt by the partner and on the other hand you can not avoid to hurt your loved one ! If both do accept this, their chances are much better ! Even if you try to avoid to hurt your partner, sometimes you have to accept it. And your partner should understand this ! Having a good partnership, does not mean, never hurt each other !

Mostly the worst thing is to choose a partner, with a high possibility of doing suicide.

The woman is just dead. (sorry) But the relatives (incl. husband/partner) do have to suffer a lot.

Conclusion:

Be very carefully with blaming the husband !!! He may be cheating ( but you dont know ), but that does NOT make him guilty for killing her ! In christian believes, it is a big sin to do suicide! And that is not the worst approach.

Just some remarks from a professional and not from rainbow press !

From the photo posted in this thread. In my opinion she was quite attractive for a 39 year old.

It's sad to think she couldn't see another way out of the situation.

So only poor Thai girls go with Foreigners......???

Commonly, Caucasian foreigners. (Ye, ye, there are "exceptions".. happy?)

Asian foreigners (if not Burmese, Laotian, Cambodian) seem to intermarry with upper-classed Thais much easier than Caucasian men do.

with all respect to the the lady...

But the facts in general (I don´t know this case):

Suicide often is not the end of a long suffering, but a try to hurt other people (f. e. the partner).

And in fact, suicide do hurt other people a lot. Many times, the motive is more an aggressive one.

After successful suicide, relatives often feel very guilty, and many times they are not.

Suicide, especially done by young people done in the circumstances of relationships, are more a sign of some kind of

mental disorder. (sorry). For example not able to accept losing face ! (f.e. kind of narzissme disorder or inability to act in a different way with your aggressive motives.

The probability of doing suicide depends more on the general use of it in your family and not of the behaviour of your partner. (or of the fact, that you use it before).

The most important ability for partnership is to accept, that you inevitable will be hurt by the partner and on the other hand you can not avoid to hurt your loved one ! If both do accept this, their chances are much better ! Even if you try to avoid to hurt your partner, sometimes you have to accept it. And your partner should understand this ! Having a good partnership, does not mean, never hurt each other !

Mostly the worst thing is to choose a partner, with a high possibility of doing suicide.

The woman is just dead. (sorry) But the relatives (incl. husband/partner) do have to suffer a lot.

Conclusion:

Be very carefully with blaming the husband !!! He may be cheating ( but you dont know ), but that does NOT make him guilty for killing her ! In christian believes, it is a big sin to do suicide! And that is not the worst approach.

Just some remarks from a professional and not from rainbow press !

Wisely spoken. You put everything in perspective. I think she acted in an emotional moment and might have regret afterwards but

unfortunately she can not reverse her act.

Another reason not to have guns lying around the place.

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Maestro