Totster Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 (edited) My wedding ring being made from Thai gold is very soft, naturally it bends out of shape. The problem is, now that i'm back in the UK for a few months my finger has shrunk a bit (cos it's bloody freezing here) and the ring is getting more out of shape. I'm just worried that in time (not so long) the metal will become too fatigued and break, I don't mean right away, but in the future. I'm worried it may not last a "lifetime". Anyone got any tips on how I can take better care of it, or any other comments...? Should I be worried..? totster Edited May 12, 2005 by Totster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penelope Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 My wedding ring being made from Thai gold is very soft, naturally it bends out of shape.The problem is, now that i'm back in the UK for a few months my finger has shrunk a bit (cos it's bloody freezing here) and the ring is getting more out of shape. I'm just worried that in time (not so long) the metal will become too fatigued and break, I don't mean right away, but in the future. I'm worried it may not last a "lifetime". Anyone got any tips on how I can take better care of it, or any other comments...? Should I be worried..? totster <{POST_SNAPBACK}> 4 options : 1) wear it on a necklace around your neck. 2) get it alloyed and recast to stronger 18 Karat. 3) put in safe keeping, and buy a new 18 Karat ring. 4) get it resized and polished (an ongoing process) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
devildog683 Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 same problem here, i usually take it off any time i am about to do any hard labor/workout/ etc. when i go back we are getting new and better rings that wont bend so easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chownah Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 (edited) My father had at least 4 different 14 karat gold wedding rings during his more than 50 year marriage to my mother. They wore out and they replaced them. Perhaps yours will too. Thai gold is pure gold and since it is soft it will wear faster. To get a ring that lasts longer you get an 18 k or 14 k ring. The reduction in gold content is done with other metals that increase the hardness and durablility of the metal. A very high quality metal which wears better is platinum but for my taste its not as beautiful as gold. Edited May 12, 2005 by chownah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penelope Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 Thai gold is pure gold <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Incorrect.It is usually 22 or 23 Karat (as opposed to 24..pure). Western jewellry tends more to 18 Karat and below (stronger alloys) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totster Posted May 12, 2005 Author Share Posted May 12, 2005 Thai gold is pure gold <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Incorrect.It is usually 22 or 23 Karat (as opposed to 24..pure). Western jewellry tends more to 18 Karat and below (stronger alloys) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Mine is 96.5% / 23 carat totster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lopburi3 Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 (edited) How long do you expect the marriage to last? If you check the gold clasp used for baht chains you will find they are used very often and stand up quite well over long periods (much more flex than in a ring) so I would not be concerned. The ring can always be repaired if a change is a no-no. Although Thai gold should be 23k it seldom is from most reports; including government sources. Better to figure it at a little over 22k for all but a few places. I would much prefer having my 22k ring than the 14k play stuff you find in most jewelry stores. Edited May 12, 2005 by lopburi3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totster Posted May 12, 2005 Author Share Posted May 12, 2005 If you check the gold clasp used for baht chains you will find they are used very often and stand up quite well over long periods (much more flex than in a ring) so I would not be concerned. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> That's true...those clasps get manipulated quite a lot, haven't seen a broken one yet..! I would much prefer having my 22k ring than the 14k play stuff you find in most jewelry stores I agree... I reckon the colour looks great... totster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonman Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 Easy and not expensive to repair if it breaks unlike in UK. My local gold shop fixed my wife's in 1 day 300 baht. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 I rather prefer the colour of the 22K gold over the 18K as well. Is it possible to get a 22K gold ring lacquered or have a polymer type coating applied, so that it not only prevents the soft metal from wearing, but also maintains the shine? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolf5370 Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 Had mine for 8 years. I almost never take it off (only take it off if using chemicals like White Spirit as it gets trapped behind the ring and gives me a rash). It has been flattened more times than I can remember - I put it back in shape by ramming it on a spike shaped tool (for measuring rings). Never broke. I have had several 9 and 18ct rings at the same time (only wear one on each hand at most - I'm not Liberache (spelling?)). All have broken - one, an 18ct puzzle ring, wore through in a couple of months and kept cutting my finger. Stick to the Thai gold IMHO! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totster Posted May 12, 2005 Author Share Posted May 12, 2005 Thanks for the input guys... looks like I am worrying for nothing then... totster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andy50 Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 maybye you could get it galvanized? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totster Posted May 12, 2005 Author Share Posted May 12, 2005 maybye you could get it galvanized? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> But then it wouldn't look like gold ... would it....? totster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daveh Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 How long do you expect the marriage to last? If you check the gold clasp used for baht chains you will find they are used very often and stand up quite well over long periods (much more flex than in a ring) so I would not be concerned. The ring can always be repaired if a change is a no-no. Although Thai gold should be 23k it seldom is from most reports; including government sources. Better to figure it at a little over 22k for all but a few places. I would much prefer having my 22k ring than the 14k play stuff you find in most jewelry stores. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes, I was thinking the same thing about the necklace clasps. Gold is VERY malleable. A ring should not suffer from metal fatigue simply from being bent into an oval once in a while. To be honest, if a 23K gold ring were to suffer metal fatigue under those conditions, it would make me wonder if it were gold at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThaiPauly Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 Mine is scratched to bits after just 8 months, I have had many rings outlast my 4 marriages, but I don't think this ring won't outlast my current marriage...maybee it's a sign, if the ring is no good then the marriage will be, if the marriage is no good the ring will last ! Called SOD'S BLODDY LAW Mai Bpen Rai.....I suppose..... Whatever happened to all that beautiful gold, wonder where it is now and who's wearing it? hmmm.. Never thought about it before I read this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penelope Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 my wife prefers to wear 18ct White gold (preferably set with diamonds). Personally, i prefer this look on a woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maerim Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 as it gets trapped behind the ring and gives me a rash). It has been flattened more times than I can remember - I put it back in shape by ramming it on a spike shaped tool (for measuring rings). Never broke A proper man, what can one say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
udon Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 Is 22ct too soft to hold a round gemstone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maerim Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 my wife prefers to wear 18ct White gold (preferably set with diamonds). Personally, i prefer this look on a woman. Oh so do I, it does look somewhat out of place on a male road sweeper don't you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 Is 22ct too soft to hold a round gemstone? Yes... normally Thai jewellers will make the clasps for the stone out of 18K gold. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Red Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 My father had at least 4 different 14 karat gold wedding rings during his more than 50 year marriage to my mother. They wore out and they replaced them. Perhaps yours will too. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Agree -- I have been hitched 34 years+ and I'm on my third or fourth ring. We tend to make a bit of a ceremony on retiring the old and aquiring the new -- makes it more fun. At the end of the day, rings are just symbols of your commitment -- while that is important, it is not what is on your finger, but what is in your heart that makes the difference. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meadish_sweetball Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 my wife prefers to wear 18ct White gold (preferably set with diamonds). Personally, i prefer this look on a woman. I agree, white gold looks way better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
udon Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 I had a white gold dress ring and every farang thought it was polished stainless steel....... custom made by the good guys at Thaigems.com (No maerim, I don't crossdress) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BaanOz Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 Had my gold ring for 12 years and has been squashed into an oval shape a few times. Mainly from wearing it when working on the car or whatever. When the missus is browsing in Maa Boon Krong I ask nicely someone behind the counter if they would mind fixing it. They grab a rubber mallet, stick it on one of those ring measuring thingies and start pounding it. Looks new again! Cheers BaanOz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totster Posted May 13, 2005 Author Share Posted May 13, 2005 my wife prefers to wear 18ct White gold (preferably set with diamonds). Personally, i prefer this look on a woman. Oh so do I, it does look somewhat out of place on a male road sweeper don't you think? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Agree -- I have been hitched 34 years+ and I'm on my third or fourth ring. We tend to make a bit of a ceremony on retiring the old and aquiring the new -- makes it more fun.At the end of the day, rings are just symbols of your commitment -- while that is important, it is not what is on your finger, but what is in your heart that makes the difference. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good point Mr Red... Gotta say that the "retiring ring ceremony" sounds like an excellent excuse for a party.. totster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peder.klockmann Posted May 14, 2005 Share Posted May 14, 2005 The edges of the ring I have at first seemed extremely sharp... it cut the bottom of my left finger on 5 seperate occasions while opening vehicle doors and carrying boxes with handles. I have now grown a callous (sp?) on the bottom of my ring finger and havn't had any problems with it in a while. Mine as well is stamped with a 98.5% maybe 96.5% can't really tell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penelope Posted May 14, 2005 Share Posted May 14, 2005 my wife prefers to wear 18ct White gold (preferably set with diamonds). Personally, i prefer this look on a woman. Oh so do I, it does look somewhat out of place on a male road sweeper don't you think? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> mai kow jai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khutan Posted May 14, 2005 Share Posted May 14, 2005 Someone I know (a local married to a Thai), who will remain nameless, was on a 5 day drinking binge in Bangkok. It was 2 days before Pay-day, his wife was in Issan, I leant him 5000, but he needed more, so off to the gold-shop and he sold his wedding ring. Needless to say, he had some explaining to do when his wife came home a day early. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonman Posted May 14, 2005 Share Posted May 14, 2005 Why didn't he pawn it and say it was in being fixed.If he couldn't buy it back could always say they lost it. Not that I'd do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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