Intro for those unknown with lingam massage:

Lingam massage is a relaxing, sometimes therapeutical massage for the man's "pride".

The massage can be a part of the lovemaking, but it can also be -not- sexually related. It's very delicate and can be emotional for the receiver, so feeling at ease and trust is a big thing.

I linked this kind of massage with Tantra, but I heard it's a common thing in Asia, also in Thailand.

I heard that old, ugly women with bad teeth & skin are the best in giving this type of massage

Now, my question is simple: what is the Thai translation for lingam massage? I just don't want to ask this in Thai class...

not sure what is it called in Thai?

But if you are in Malaysia and want to have something similar it is called "Urut Batin"

The Thai word for lingam, from the same Indic root as the English word, is ลึงค์ leung.

The verb for lingam massage would therefore be นวดลึงค์ nuat leung, but I don't think most people would understand that immediately, especially if your pronunciation isn't perfect. You'd probably get the best results with ใช้มือ chai meu, literally "Use your hand."

Hope this helps. 

Peppy, it helped nitnoi, a little bit. I started this topic not because I personallly need a lingam massage, because for this you need to have something I don't have. And I am not planning to "get" me one. But I will write down the Thai signs and when I am brave I will ask someone in the massage field.

Yei Kloen, I will use this when I m in Indonesia again :-).