I've been trying to figure this out for a long time now . . . how do I say 'it's your turn' in Thai?

For example in a game, taking turns answering questions, or deciding who will pay for the next meal.

Different situations require a different selection of vocab.

Deciding who will pay for the next meal ... probably not very classy. If someone doesn't step up and pay what YOU think is their obligatory 'turn' then the chances are they never will. Move on.

For ~it is your turn -- in a game or if you want someone to enter a door before you (or inviting them in) you can use

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