seonai Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 Okay, for a bit of fun as Boo suggested, here's one..... A n aquaintance of mine has been married to a Thai for some years and one day recently I mentioned the fact that after S the Thais, Muslim or otherwise, rush to wash in the bathroom. My aquaintance said "oh really....I thought there was something wrong with me all this time..." Instead of languishing in bed afterwards and smoking a cig or whatever, most Thai's in my experience shower after S. How about you guys out there with Thai wives.... any similar experiences????? Let's not get into another Muslim debate but in Islam it's par for the course. Seonai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkmadness Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 I think I need to take a few days away from this forum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meom Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 I think it's common courtesy to allow them a shower before you kick them back out in the street. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chickenlegs Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 (edited) Okay, for a bit of fun as Boo suggested, here's one.....A n aquaintance of mine has been married to a Thai for some years and one day recently I mentioned the fact that after S the Thais, Muslim or otherwise, rush to wash in the bathroom. My aquaintance said "oh really....I thought there was something wrong with me all this time..." Instead of languishing in bed afterwards and smoking a cig or whatever, most Thai's in my experience shower after S. How about you guys out there with Thai wives.... any similar experiences????? Let's not get into another Muslim debate but in Islam it's par for the course. Seonai <{POST_SNAPBACK}> This is just my personal opinion (as a non-muslim with TW). #1. Taking a shower before the act is recommended. #2. Smoking before, during or after is optional. #3. Showering afterwards is compulsory (if you don't need a shower you surely can't be doing it right). My favoured solution to this dilemma is DO IT IN THE SHOWER, thus covering 1. and 3. However, if you take up my suggestion, #2. is not recommended. Have fun ! Edited August 21, 2005 by Chickenlegs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdnvic Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 As Thais have a fetish for cleanliness this is a common observation. Topic's ok so far but I'm gonna move it downstairs. cv Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zaz Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 This is just my personal opinion (as a non-muslim with TW).#1. Taking a shower before the act is recommended. #2. Smoking before, during or after is optional. #3. Showering afterwards is compulsory (if you don't need a shower you surely can't be doing it right). My favoured solution to this dilemma is DO IT IN THE SHOWER, thus covering 1. and 3. However, if you take up my suggestion, #2. is not recommended. Have fun ! <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Nice one Chickenlegs!! I am very impressed by the cleanliness of the Thais though and I think it adds to the pleasure. Having a shower immediately after is also very refreshing too - it feels just like a shower after being at the gym after a very hefty workout!! Also means following the recovery gap you can get straight onto the next....erm...workout... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gazza Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 I always shower afterwards. Sadly these days, the showering seems to take longer than doing 'it'. I also avoid further showering by making sure the damp patch is on my partner's side of the bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SiamOne Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Okay, for a bit of fun as Boo suggested, here's one.....A n aquaintance of mine has been married to a Thai for some years and one day recently I mentioned the fact that after S the Thais, Muslim or otherwise, rush to wash in the bathroom. My aquaintance said "oh really....I thought there was something wrong with me all this time..." Instead of languishing in bed afterwards and smoking a cig or whatever, most Thai's in my experience shower after S. How about you guys out there with Thai wives.... any similar experiences????? Let's not get into another Muslim debate but in Islam it's par for the course. Seonai <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Oh please!!!! I know you farang like to be dirty, but it really is nicer (for you and others around) too keep nice and clean. When I first marry, I had to nag my husband to take shower both morning and evening, and clean his teeth too. Now he is very clean and thank me I like it better too. Can you imagine being very imtimate with dirty person!! OK OK you can Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p_brownstone Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Surely the only alternatives are not either a quick dash for the shower or roll over and go to sleep immediately afterwards? It's not a sign of weakness to lie there and cuddle for 10 - 15 minutes gentlemen! Patrick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 I know you farang like to be dirty... Not all farang SiamOne... My (Thai) missus has never had to train me on personal hygiene... Maybe only the soapdodgers... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Galong Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 "I know you farang like to be dirty, but it really is nicer (for you and others around) too keep nice and clean." Nice stereo typing SiamOne. I guess it's safe to assume that all Thais like to live in landfills judging by the amount of trash around their houses. If you want to stereotype, then get ready for some backlashes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insight Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Begs the question - where did SiamOne meet most farangs to get this impression? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dereklev Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 I know you farang like to be dirty... Not all farang SiamOne... My (Thai) missus has never had to train me on personal hygiene... Maybe only the soapdodgers... Not all of us Jai Dee I'll have you know that this Soapdodger enjoys a shower before, during and after sex! ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuchok Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Okay, for a bit of fun as Boo suggested, here's one.....A n aquaintance of mine has been married to a Thai for some years and one day recently I mentioned the fact that after S the Thais, Muslim or otherwise, rush to wash in the bathroom. My aquaintance said "oh really....I thought there was something wrong with me all this time..." Instead of languishing in bed afterwards and smoking a cig or whatever, most Thai's in my experience shower after S. How about you guys out there with Thai wives.... any similar experiences????? Let's not get into another Muslim debate but in Islam it's par for the course. Seonai <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Oh please!!!! I know you farang like to be dirty, but it really is nicer (for you and others around) too keep nice and clean. When I first marry, I had to nag my husband to take shower both morning and evening, and clean his teeth too. Now he is very clean and thank me I like it better too. Can you imagine being very imtimate with dirty person!! OK OK you can <{POST_SNAPBACK}> It's a crying shame that you can't convert personal cleanliness to looking after the environment/litter etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
autonomous_unit Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Guys, for an extra challenge, talk your Thai wife into a week-long trip sleeping in a backpacker's tent with no facilities in the mountains. For extra credit, get romantic on about day 3 or 4. She'll be amazed she didn't die, and you just might feel the same way yourself! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 I know you farang like to be dirty... Not all farang SiamOne... My (Thai) missus has never had to train me on personal hygiene... Maybe only the soapdodgers... Not all of us Jai Dee I'll have you know that this Soapdodger enjoys a shower before, during and after sex! ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbojangles Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 I know you farang like to be dirty, Just how many Farang have you slept with SiamOne, to come up with this interesting fact? You must have conducted a very intense study, over many years to be able to "Generalise" in such a way, with that statement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boo Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 I think the question wasn't about being clean before sex but having to shower immidiately after. Past thai b/fs have been like this & I personally found it to be quite clinical but fortunately my husband isn't quite so hung up on showering straight after sex, personally, my feeling is, if they can't handle a bit of sex smell then they shouldn't be doing it in the first place . Oh, and I agree with p brownstone, whats wrong with a bit of cuddleing & making a wet patch As for cleanliness amoungst farang, well, i know a fair amount of thais who don't shower everyday let alone once or twice a day & plenty farang who do, so people in glass houses & all that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rinrada Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Wasnt that long ago that the average Englishman/ladie used to bathe only once a year. Something about the dirt keeping you warm....no central heating at that time must all have been pretty crusty by the end of winter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davethailand Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 I think it's common courtesy to allow them a shower before you kick them back out in the street. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davethailand Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 "I know you farang like to be dirty, but it really is nicer (for you and others around) too keep nice and clean."Nice stereo typing SiamOne. I guess it's safe to assume that all Thais like to live in landfills judging by the amount of trash around their houses. If you want to stereotype, then get ready for some backlashes. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hear hear Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BambinA Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 A n aquaintance of mine has been married to a Thai for some years and one day recently I mentioned the fact that after S the Thais, Muslim or otherwise, rush to wash in the bathroom. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> me , myself i won't rush .. after S.... its better to hanky panky for a while(5-15 mins) , it makes me feel warm and feel like "make love" , not "have sex " ...and then go to the loo ..... i prefer to take a shower well after S ... i cant sleep with that ..feel messy at my thing .. ohh about morning i prefer to brush my teeth b4 S too Bambi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BambinA Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Guys, for an extra challenge, talk your Thai wife into a week-long trip sleeping in a backpacker's tent with no facilities in the mountains. For extra credit, get romantic on about day 3 or 4. She'll be amazed she didn't die, and you just might feel the same way yourself! <{POST_SNAPBACK}> no need to add Pla Rah in Somtam I reckon Bambi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovethailandlongtime Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Oh please!!!! I know you farang like to be dirty, but it really is nicer (for you and others around) too keep nice and clean. When I first marry, I had to nag my husband to take shower both morning and evening, and clean his teeth too. Now he is very clean and thank me I like it better too. Can you imagine being very imtimate with dirty person!! OK OK you can <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You spend all day showering,and then have dinner from one of the filthiest food stalls on the planet.. STRANGE!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dereklev Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Guys, for an extra challenge, talk your Thai wife into a week-long trip sleeping in a backpacker's tent with no facilities in the mountains. For extra credit, get romantic on about day 3 or 4. She'll be amazed she didn't die, and you just might feel the same way yourself! no need to add Pla Rah in Somtam I reckon Bambi Naughty, naughty Bambi! ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Hmm neither shower before or after. Ahh the smell of shagging in the air. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davethailand Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Hmm neither shower before or after. Ahh the smell of shagging in the air. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ever smelt a pack of scampi fries? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BambinA Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 [Oh please!!!! I know you farang like to be dirty <{POST_SNAPBACK}> well i dont agree with you, you said like stereotype... some TH are skanky skunk too .. IMHO it depends on guy you met .. its about personal hygiene of somebody Bambi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loong Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Wasnt that long ago that the average Englishman/ladie used to bathe only once a year. Something about the dirt keeping you warm....no central heating at that time must all have been pretty crusty by the end of winter <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Maybe in your part of Uk mate Actually, when I was a kid, bath once a week was the norm, but when you get older and the cottage cheese starts to appear ,personal hygene becomes a necessity. Can someone PLeeeeeze explain this fixation that BambinA has with Pla Rah and Marmite????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Maiden Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 It's just a natural reaction for me to shower after. And how can you shower just before? You don't plan ahead. Thats why you always stay clean . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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