I posted here in good faith

I related the events as they happened, i see now that the original post has been closed "Locked" Sin Sod what to pay

Sorry no offence meant, what i wrote is true and is what has been going on.

I tried to relate the events as they happened.

it seems that real stories are not what is wanted.

Thanks for all the help and replies on the topic to all those that posted constructive replies.

Happy New Year to all

Rodney

Sin Sod???

Don't be silly. Upstairs for thinking...downstairs for dancing.....

What did Del boy used to say Rodney?

If you really love the girl pay up, but tell them they will receive nothing else (as another poster posted), or get out of there. You are paying the family back for educating her and bringing her up, if you feel she is worth it then do what is mentioned above and in a previous post.

Other sites to check out if she is telling the truth maybe dateinasia or badoo.

I did the same with an ex Girlfriend, I opened another email account, added a picture of someone else, opened an account on a website and started talking to her, I let it go on for a few days then confronted her, when she had already told the new me that she was single and wanted to meet me.

Am sure loads of guys here would be willing to help you, but be very careful if you ask one of them, as you never know what the result might be.

Like I added I will not be paying Sinsod, my MIL will place the money for the family and friends to see and then put it back into her account. Many of my friends have paid the sinsod and had it returned (admittedly they were Thai). (I am already married to my girl, we have not done the Thai Ceremony or party yet).

Edited January 3, 201115 yr by beano2274

Sinsod??

Listen in my culture the girl's father pays...for everything. Take that into your Issan village with you.

Mugs all over the forum on this issue....who's next I wonder?

As the previous topic was closed this one is also