WOW!!!! some post on here are way out of line. for one he said "WE" he said nothing about his wife wants to sponsor her brother. and way can't a guy be a nanny? again out of line! I had to join just to make a comment because of the posts and I'm in the same boat. we have a 4 year old and another one on the way, we both work and would like her brother to come and help us care for the kids. hmmmm why you may ask? he is family!!!! I would want a family member to live with us to help us with the children, it's better then hiring a nanny that we don't know. point said!!!!!

Whilst your comments are perfectly valid, see Boo's warnings, I'm not sure why you felt the need to revive a 9 month old thread to make them.

As you have not actually asked a question or for any advice, before those with too much time on their hands start to make inappropriate comments again, I'm closing this.

Please feel free to start a new topic if you have any further questions.